My best friend (cant say name) is being abused by her father and it makes me cry because she has no mother to protect her. I just found out when I stayed the night with her and her father took her in his room and I heard her scream. I called my mom and went home. It scared me. What do I do? Since she doesnt tell anyone?
2007-02-10 17:21:57 · 8 answers · asked by Kayle 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Abuse:
Slaps her
Kicks her
Punches her
Throws stuff at her(once he threw a beer bottle at her head)
Once he cut her on the arm with a knife
And I cant tell anyone she doesnt want me to.
2007-02-10 17:30:14 · update #1
aslo the reason she has no mom is because her father killed her when my friend was a baby and he almost killed the baby too
2007-02-10 17:31:46 · update #2
the worst thing is her dad threatened me. Here is what he said:
"You tell anyone f****** about this I will kill you like I will this stupid girl!"
I cried for days
2007-02-10 17:33:03 · update #3
Ok guys this hard too explain but I just got help and I called them and they called my friend, but she is already............................................................................................GONE if you know what i mean!:(
2007-02-10 17:39:16 · update #4
I understand that you don't want to go against your friends request not to tell anyone. But, helping her is more important. One to those times when he hurts her, he could kill her. You do need to tell someone. I suggest that you talk with your mother about this as soon as possible.
You might be afraid that if you tell, your best friend will never speak to you again. But wouldn't it be better to never talk with her again and know that she's alive and well and no longer being abused, rather than never talking with her again because she is dead.
This will be hard, I know. But, you know that it's what must be done in order to help your friend out of an abusive situation.
Best luck and take care.
Just read your addition...are you saying that your best friend was killed?
2007-02-10 17:35:32 · answer #1 · answered by Abby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well. You have to decide which is most important: your best friend or your friendship with her. If you decide that she's not that important, then you're not much of a friend are you? If what you do ruins the friendship, then is that a price a friend would accept for helping their best friend out of a terrible awful illegal situation?
You know what is right. Tell your mom and then both of you call or visit social services.
2007-02-11 01:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please be a good friend to her and get her some help, maybe you or your mom can talk to a school official and they are bound by law, to report any and all types of abuse, large or small! Maybe an anonymous note to her school counselor or something! But please be her friend!!! Good Luck!
2007-02-11 01:33:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
report it from an anonymously and get her outta there...to a relative that lives outta town or even to one of your relatives houses...j/do it fast or something even worse might happen
2007-02-11 01:41:23 · answer #4 · answered by Sara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your mom, and have her help you tell the authorities
2007-02-11 01:28:39 · answer #5 · answered by ashleynicole452 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
call the hot line. let them know what went on.most of the time i say to stay out of it. but this time i think some one should know. MAKE THAT CALL NOW. be fore its to late please
2007-02-11 01:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
tell her to move into her aunts house... report this ..... fast or u will never see her again maybe.. dont b scared REPORT this trust me... n tell her 2 run away n go 2 one of her family members house or urz.. i dont noe but don let this continue from happening... Wat kind of abuse????
2007-02-11 01:27:19 · answer #7 · answered by drzangel140 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
girl needs urgent help.......u can help her if not u can contact any organisation working for girls
2007-02-11 01:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by sweety 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋