Family & Relationships - 10 February 2007

is it me? he says i do things to make him mad but i dont have a clue what im doing wrong. he says he wants to leave me but says he cant live without me in the breath. this as been going on for about 7 months. what am i doing wrong? is it me or him thats crazy?

2007-02-10 16:38:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this girl i know loves to hang up on me. our relationship is over. she knows i will caller her back casue i cant stand being hung up on. i recently decided im just not going to do it. this is made her even more mad. my question is if u wanted to talk why hang up. im sick of being treated like this. im sick of being a door matt. im just not going to take it anymore. the entire six months i was one thing after another. it got to the point that i was only good for one thing. not that i was complaining about the one thing. but now im just tired. it seems im this wonderful person in the begininig but then they start to hate me and i dont think i have changed. the last one tried to fix me she said. im this poor country boy. i dont have expensive taste and i dont want it. maybe she was to much of a citty woman. i dont know. my friends think i should join the lovem and leavem croud. be that guy the girls complain about. cause apperantly the mr. nice guy thing is not working. what should i do?

2007-02-10 16:38:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems i cant go one day without asking at least 3 dumb questions..whats the cure? Well im sure youll have some harsh..and opinionated answers..so im gonna pull up my steel socks and take it like a girl! And probally cry a little..but what do you think i should do??

2007-02-10 16:38:13 · 9 answers · asked by nessa 2 in Singles & Dating

I have three normal friends, they are girls.
All three like me, I just want to be friends
Normally I get each one of them 3 roses for v-day, as a friendship thing.
Well they are now starting to fight between each other?
How do I settle this?
I'm 16, they are 15,16 and 16

2007-02-10 16:37:27 · 9 answers · asked by Micky 1 in Singles & Dating

hmm.. me and a couple friends are trying to figure out what we could do for some random pictures, like make random faces, or get on each others backs, act like we are sleeping.. but what else could we do, if you have any suggestions.. lemme no.. thanks :)

2007-02-10 16:37:17 · 5 answers · asked by megz 1 in Friends

my boyfriend keeps promising me that he will change. He says I need to trust him. I try to but every time he does go out he stays out and gets so drunk sometimes to the point he passes out somewhere. We have a son and he is still young so I don't want to give up yet but how does a person deal with an alcoholic? Sometimes he gets real nasty when he drinks. I pray for him but how can I help him and our family?????

2007-02-10 16:37:15 · 23 answers · asked by silkesweet 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Im 20 & she's 28. im sure she'll be married to some other in a yr. she say tat she isn't really interested in sex. is she really not interested?? but she expects a lot from me (care n love). i heard women r sexually peak at tat age. does she act??

2007-02-10 16:36:53 · 3 answers · asked by Pulikuttie 1 in Singles & Dating

I think she's older than me and I think she has a boyfriend.
I wear long hair (shoulder growing to above shoulder blades) but I have natural brown hair and i don't wear makeup. I do wear a lot of black t-shirts though but with blue jeans. (I'm the t-shirt and jeans kind of guy) Should I do something about this? Or leave it alone?

2007-02-10 16:35:54 · 9 answers · asked by Some Dude 3 in Singles & Dating

i havn't written ,talked to or seen my boy friend thats in allendale correctional Inst.and i wan't to see a mug shot of him to keep me holding on until he comes home next year.

2007-02-10 16:34:22 · 10 answers · asked by lildonnanc 1 in Friends

i am a 12th standard student
someone plz help me to solve my love
I loved a girl
but i did not told her
when my love started i was in 6th standard
i loved her very much
but she was not knowing this
when i was in 9th she told me why am i avoiding her
i told i was not avoiding her
she said LETS BE GOOD FRIENDS
i accepted it
know we r in a good relationship
we call each other 5times a week
i still love her
i don’t know how she thinks of me
i cant express my love
will my love be success
i love her 4 the past 7 years
if it was a time pass i should have left it
no i really love her

one prob is there
when we were at10th one friend said
he loves
her then she phonred me and said
"i was not in mood to him like i love him even once she said he cheated her
she was a good frnd to him and he cheated her "
then what if i say i love her after kowing all this

some days ago one of her best frnd said
" i am the most supporting and Influencing person in her life

2007-02-10 16:33:09 · 13 answers · asked by bossdelazz 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i've got so much to deal with right now- depression, ADD, that kind of thing, as well as issues with cutting- in addition to stressful home and school life.

besides that, my best friend is having so many problems in her life and i can't be there to help because i live a state away... it kills me knowing she's so upset and i can't do much (if anything) to help.

i don't know what to do anymore. i feel completely helpless and like i can't control anything in my life any more. every time i try talking to someone they either don't understand or they twist it around and make it seem like its MY fault i feel crappy and everyone around me wants to make me miserable...

does anyone have any advice at all on how to deal with this?
i honestly don't know how to handle myself or my problems anymore.

2007-02-10 16:32:58 · 17 answers · asked by Lexi Bee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

your cousin? I love my cousin Daniel very much and we have made love in the past. I would like to again but he only does it after he smokes weed. When he's not stoned he says it's not right.
Can u please help me?

2007-02-10 16:32:36 · 43 answers · asked by Proud Muslimah- Beautiful Islaam 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 16:32:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a Godly man. But I think in light of her continuing verbal, emotional and physical abuse that its time to let it go. I can't seem to please her no matter what I do. I can't seem to make enough money for her no matter how hard I work. I can't seem to praise her enough no matter what I say. She refuses to tell me that she loves me. She says that she's not in love with me anymore. Almost everything that I've worked for, before we were married, is gone now. I have nothing to show for the first ten years of my adult life. I'm extremely worried that she will drag me through the mud for the next foreseeable future, even(especially) if we do get divorced. Are there any laws regarding divorcing while pregnant?

2007-02-10 16:31:48 · 5 answers · asked by St. Matthew 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

this boy likes my best friend kayla....he asked her out she didnt give him a answer and he got mad and said (never mined i never wanted 2 date u anyway....i can get any girl i want) did he really like her ??

2007-02-10 16:31:15 · 24 answers · asked by -♥- onalou -♥- 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, good answers please

There is this girl i liked at the beginning of my freshman high school year (and i am still in my freshman year) and i like her again...

the problem is that i messed up the first time, because i wasnt very good at talking to girls, and i kinda creeped her out, cause i never talked to her...but lately ive matured, and its a lot easier, like i dont get nervous and crap, and i automatically talk to girls now, no effort...i think it would take some real hard work and stuff to get this girl i like, and i need ur help

ive tried to forget about her, but i just cant...i moved on for about a month, but went back because i just couldnt stand it, shes so frickekn beautiful!!!!

so i wanted some help...any ideas of how to make her like me even the slightest bit?? list things like strategies (lol) and stuff like that....
PS: no notes

2007-02-10 16:31:10 · 5 answers · asked by German L 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 16:29:53 · 2 answers · asked by ksks1cucuzz 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 16:29:40 · 18 answers · asked by BIGMAN 1 in Family

2007-02-10 16:28:50 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok here it is I have ben cutting my self for pain and hurt in my life and regret but my girl friend said she wanted me to stop and she said she started back up again and I didn't want her to but she saidif I didn't like really try to quet she said that she would think about getting back up again I said I would and thought it would be easy but it isn't I have a real hard time with it can any one help me I am 15 if that helps and yes I am a gurl.

2007-02-10 16:28:38 · 7 answers · asked by girly girl 2 in Friends

I am the one that talks to her.............I was the one that told that I like her and she told all her friends so practically the whole school knows.......i call her at night and she always picks up or if not she always calls me asap

2007-02-10 16:28:38 · 3 answers · asked by dreiko 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 16:28:23 · 32 answers · asked by mizzjaxn 2 in Marriage & Divorce

WELL IM GOING OUTT WITH A BOY ND VALENTINES DAY IS COMIN UP SOON ND I DONT KNO WUT I SHOULD GET HIM?? WUT R UR ANSWERS??

2007-02-10 16:27:17 · 18 answers · asked by Alexis B 1 in Singles & Dating

eny tips on how to crank this conversation up? im cluless i dont know what i should say..

2007-02-10 16:26:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

idk why, but when I'm around him, I'm always acting bossy, or catty, and after I think,"God, I'm SUCH an idiot! Why am I like that?" I feel really bad, and I can tell he gets a little upset, so why am I like this, and what should I do?

2007-02-10 16:26:44 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 16:26:27 · 12 answers · asked by rbt_guerrero 1 in Singles & Dating

We are pretty much already going out its just we havent made it official... We go EVERYWHERE together. School, movies, dinner, mall, anywhere you name it weve been there done that. We are very touchy feely people with each other. Well today we hungout and we went to the mall and dinner. well at the mall we went into dliiards and u know how they have the fake beds to show off the comforters? well he layed down on one and i kept walking and he called my name so i walked back over to him and he just stared at me so i was going to just give him a hug but then when i bent over he grabbed me and pulled me on the fake bed and rolled me over so he was on top. do you think he likes me too or was he just messing around? he didnt do anything tho he just layed there and smiled.

2007-02-10 16:24:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've only met her a handful of times, but when we hang out she touches my shoulder, complements my clothes, told me I looked good in a shirt one time, complemented my shoes, would give me random smiles from a distance and one time I noticed when we all did some pregame shots before going out to a club she gave me a much larger shot glass than our two other friends.

I think she's cute as hell, but would never try anything because im not like that. I do remember a year before I was flirting with her and she told me she was interested in someone else (my friend--before I knew they were an item) but that I was fun. She even put her New Year's necklace on me.

What does all this mean? BTW, when we talk, her bf, a good guy, looks at us kind of serious. Her personality speaks of "natural flirt", she is a nice girl and all, but what would you say this is? Does she like me or is this overanalyzing?

2007-02-10 16:24:02 · 3 answers · asked by Pep Streebeck 1 in Friends

2007-02-10 16:23:27 · 16 answers · asked by mkaym11 1 in Friends

I don't konw it well

2007-02-10 16:23:14 · 8 answers · asked by soulho 1 in Singles & Dating