I am a Godly man. But I think in light of her continuing verbal, emotional and physical abuse that its time to let it go. I can't seem to please her no matter what I do. I can't seem to make enough money for her no matter how hard I work. I can't seem to praise her enough no matter what I say. She refuses to tell me that she loves me. She says that she's not in love with me anymore. Almost everything that I've worked for, before we were married, is gone now. I have nothing to show for the first ten years of my adult life. I'm extremely worried that she will drag me through the mud for the next foreseeable future, even(especially) if we do get divorced. Are there any laws regarding divorcing while pregnant?
2007-02-10 16:31:48 · 5 answers · asked by St. Matthew 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, "Mommy to be," we did try one session of counseling @ my church. She told her side of the story and that was enough for her. I've tried repeatedly to get her to go again, but she wont hear of it.
2007-02-10 17:41:52 · update #1
I'm not sure about specific laws concerning divorcing while your spouse is pregnant but it sounds like your wife is not happy with herself and simply taking her frustrations out on you. This could be magnified by 100 since she's pregnant. I'm pregnant myself and I can tell you that these hormones are no joke. You say you're a Godly man so I know divorcing isn't the first choice you would want to take. Have you tried counseling? I don't think anyone should be abused so I think you need to put some distance between the two of you. Perhaps a little space will allow her clear her head and realize that she is ruining a good thing. If divorce is the final decision, then I don't think you have to worry about her dragging you through the mud as long as you haven't done anything - i.e. cheating, etc. I hope things work out for the best and soon so you don't have to keep enduring such heartache and abuse.
2007-02-10 16:47:37 · answer #1 · answered by chocolat0511 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think depending on the state that there is only the question of paternity and child support and custody. I got divorced when my son was 13 months old. I would just say that maybe you could wait the 9 months or a few months till the baby is born. It is a great bonding experience to be there when the baby is born and for the first few months. You will not get the opportunity to see the baby that much in the first few months of his/her life if you were seperated. Bond with the child first and then seperate after a while. Right now you need to think of the child before yourself or you will never have a relationship with him/her.
2007-02-10 16:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been divorced twice. It is rough starting over, but I would rather start with nothing and be happy than to have nothing and be unhappy. I don't think you can get a divorce while your wife is pregnant, atleast not in Ohio. Good luck to you both.
2007-02-10 17:10:35 · answer #3 · answered by zart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know about the laws, but i would just try to get this done
as soon as possible, all you can do is be a good father to your child and move on, you can all do best that you can and if the
person does not appreciate that then that there lost not your.
so stop worry what has happen has happen so time to let
go.
2007-02-10 16:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her do whatever makes her happy
2007-02-10 23:47:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋