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Question

i am a 12th standard student
someone plz help me to solve my love
I loved a girl
but i did not told her
when my love started i was in 6th standard
i loved her very much
but she was not knowing this
when i was in 9th she told me why am i avoiding her
i told i was not avoiding her
she said LETS BE GOOD FRIENDS
i accepted it
know we r in a good relationship
we call each other 5times a week
i still love her
i don’t know how she thinks of me
i cant express my love
will my love be success
i love her 4 the past 7 years
if it was a time pass i should have left it
no i really love her

one prob is there
when we were at10th one friend said
he loves
her then she phonred me and said
"i was not in mood to him like i love him even once she said he cheated her
she was a good frnd to him and he cheated her "
then what if i say i love her after kowing all this

some days ago one of her best frnd said
" i am the most supporting and Influencing person in her life

i have even asked her once did she know tht i loved her
she said yes

Answer 1

It's clear to me you love this girl. Doesn't matter what you hear about her friends, that won't change how you feel. Tell her, yes you can. She admires you already, so ask her to be your girlfriend. If you don't ask her, you'll be on the side lines a long time, and that would be a shame.

Answer 2

If you are talking that often, she probably has some feelings for you. Talk about how you had feelings for her before and see how she reacts, she may say she had feelings for you too. If she kind of laughs it off, or says that is the year she liked so and so you will know to move on. If she says really me too, ask if she would like to try a date with you some time to see if your relationship could be more than friends.

Answer 3

sounds like she may like you my man,

but it seems u may be uncotrolled love over her, be chilled and calm!!!

dont tell her u love her thats a big thing, tell her u like her and wanna go out sometime or just txt and flirt for a while and see what happens.

she may flirt back.

whatever u do, TAKE IT SLOW AND COOL, dnt do what i did, 3 months now and the pains getting worst ... much worst.

dont say i love you say i like to know u more first and slowly build ure love together!!

relationships are ment to be together, meaning that u both have to be at the same love lvl, u cant shoot of at lvl 7 while she in level 1 noo u will scare her.

thats my advise from my mistake, i hope it works out for u, i really do, seems u like this girl for sometime now,

just talk and be ureself dont need to be anything macho or extra lovey and stuff u know, just be ureself smile and have fun.

hmm so she knows that u love her, but love can mean many thing,

give her time, always give female time and space, time to think and space so that they know they have a way out and it makes them feel comfortable,

i feel ure pain brother, i know what u are going through love hurts like hell, believe me, and when uve been hurt as much as i have, u began loosing a feeling called hope, hope fails and when that goes so does most of happiness, but lifes good, alone, cos it makes me feel strong but lonely, must admit 75% of times i am unhappy and depressed.

best wishes for the future and good luck!!

Answer 4

go for it! you have much more that you could gain than what you could lose... and ive been through this. i liked a guy for 6yrs, and i never told him. eventually i got over him... but it was SO hard! however, my other platonic love.. i told him, and even though he didnt feel the same way, i felt so much better! i didnt have the doubts eating away at my mind anymore, and i could move on.
but in your case... it sounds like you really have a chance! just think about it carefully and try and think of something original to do. try to impress her a bit and show her how much you care and how you'll always be there wtvr her answr is.
GOOD LUCK!!

Answer 5

Hi friend
she is just attracted towards you personality. You told that you are just in 12th standard. And the crucial time for to make up your future. So, from know on wards please concentrate on you future building. And I am not saying that you should not love her .
Love her and do not propose her now itself, be a good friend to her until you settle in life. If you propose her now itself there may be a chance for her to reject you. If she had accepted your proposal she may not be dare enough to convince her parents.


So, if you are well settled in life, there may not be any objection to her and her parents.

Answer 6

time boy, time. It will work or not. she has growing to do and so do you. Keep in touch and do all the nice things like valentines day. just keep in touch and all will sort itself out in the end. Either you will find someone you love more or else she will wake up. either way its time. Good luck you sound like a really nice guy.

Answer 7

supposed to be you do actions before coz i think she also love you. but it's not yet late, do the moves now and tell her how much you love her...... be true to your self coz it will make you happy for the rest of your life!!!!!!!! i have an idea,,,,,,, why don't you do it on valentines day!!!! make a romantic date for her and propose.... isn't it romantic???? goodluck!!!

Answer 8

ok i am will to face the fact that i am getting older everyday...can you tell me what a "standard" is please. you call each other five times a week and talk about what? you have written a very confusing thing here.....sorry

Answer 9

I think it is about time you tell her you love her. Don't waste anymore time. I think she must love you too after all this time.

Answer 10

Tell her, but add that it doesnt matter what she says back, you'll still be friends.