Family & Relationships - 10 February 2007

My brother is funny, outgoing, and has a STRONG peronsality... almost intimdating at times. We have alot of fun and are now adults with kids. But he still looks at me wierd if I laugh funny, or imtate me if I mix my words up. In between all the fun times, and sometimes during them he seems to 'make fun of me'. When I ask him to stop something he argues with me and blame shifts back onto me. I felt it was getting out of hand as my kids sometimes ask him to stop something that started out as fun and he doesn't. I emaile him and told him 4 things that need to stop and that I am now taking seriously. He emailed me back rudely. So I just told him 'fine, you are out of our lives until you can show repsect'. I am in my 30's this needs to stop. He blame shifted and told me that I am being manipulting him and holding my kids randsom and that he won't kiss my BUTT. I took that as blame shifting... What is his problem.. why did it come to this.. could my confident brother be insecure?

2007-02-10 16:22:17 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-10 16:22:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

He rides my bus and talks to me. We have nice disscussiones, and the other day when he got off he even waved by to me. Does he like me? Or am I wasting my time?

2007-02-10 16:21:18 · 14 answers · asked by ~Jules~ 2 in Singles & Dating

ok so I really like this guy and lets call him nate. and finnally he asked me out! he was the only guy that actually treated me with respect then my ex b4 him started getting in the picture lets call him bryant, well me n bryants sis are best friends & i stayed the night at there house with his sis, & during the night he tottally came on to me and was like kissin me n stuff, i felt so horrible about it i broke up with nate.and now i feel it was a huge mistake! he barely looks at me anymore and he only talks to me on msn! and now and then he'll ask me to call him.,.and he just now asked me to call him....im kinda nervous...wat would i say? and how can i get him back!?!?

2007-02-10 16:20:58 · 5 answers · asked by myaschneidz 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 16:20:57 · 12 answers · asked by LuvnLife 3 in Friends

There is this dude and i have known him for like 3 years now but i think hes just using me. He has a girlfriend but he has cheated on her with me. i know i know its wrong. but at this point im done. what can i do to tell him that either the crap needs to stop or we get together. i dont know what to do. help?

2007-02-10 16:18:10 · 8 answers · asked by sweetpinks247 1 in Singles & Dating

wats the best way to get guys to notice me?

2007-02-10 16:17:47 · 6 answers · asked by Lost 2 in Singles & Dating

Let's say you were with this guy for almost 4yrs and you broke up with him for a few reasons one of them included u having an affair with a female which lasted for another 3 1/2 years. At one time in your relationship with this guy you thought you would be with no other you thought this was the one you would marry and have children with and so did everyone else. You were even close to having a child but fate had other plans. Its been 6 years since you were together. you lost contact for years till you decided you really needed to speak to him and seek closure. 5 mnths ago you met up and it was like old times. but you were living with someone who is now out of the picture. He is now coming home from iraq and says he wants more than anything to hook up again. he has always loved you and your the only one he can never replace. the only one he has thought of etc. you don't really want another relationship now and your not sure if it will work with him again. Would you sleep with him?

2007-02-10 16:17:43 · 18 answers · asked by Shana 1 in Singles & Dating

My spouse and I were married in June 2006. We have maintained separate households and pay our own bills on our own homes. I am 51 and he is 53. Neither of us make a large income. I make about 35, 000 a year and he makes about 30,000. I have two college aged children. I have always received earned income and filed head of household. I am concerned if I do not file separately it may cause problems for my children's college financial aid.

2007-02-10 16:17:22 · 2 answers · asked by LORETTA M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my bf of a year and a half cheated and i just want to get over him fast. im tired of crying! any things to do to get this situation off my mind?

2007-02-10 16:16:08 · 17 answers · asked by sheila 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 16:15:46 · 14 answers · asked by Female 4 in Singles & Dating

his ex left him destroyed the marriage and split up their childrens home. my husband was left with nothing. fast forward to me we fall in love and marry, she calls the daughter twice a day and recently bought the daughtera cell phone and will only speak with her on cell phone. daughter s7.. she says she wants daugther to call me mrs. JOnes but daughter has her new boyfriend on speed dial and calls him by his first name. she sued for child support after we got married even though we have daughter 3.5 days or more dependant on her needs. Should i be concerned. blended family hard enough without this crap..

2007-02-10 16:14:42 · 5 answers · asked by queenninza 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been recently liberated from a 7 year relationship, and I am thirty five. I have however been told thant I look at least 10 years younger than I am, and have been approached by younger men for dates. Howvever when the talk of age comes up, and I reveal my age - I get negative vibes from the guys! You cane see the wheels of doubt churning in theri head - how come she's never been married, and has no kids - something MUST be wrong with her! I like to be upfront, but I may feel compelled to delay the talk of age untilI have found someone who is truly interested in me for who and what age I am.... what say you?

2007-02-10 16:14:39 · 11 answers · asked by MMTB40 1 in Singles & Dating

i had a fight with my frend and now he is angry
now how can i make up with him it was his fault he did not call me up so i also didnt talk with him and now he is sorry for that what should i do??????? help me please all boys

2007-02-10 16:14:27 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used to have really big feelingd for this guy, but then when I made a move, I found out he had a girlfriend. I was really angry because he was flirting with me for months, and knew the whole time I liked him, and he told this all to a friend of mine. Well, I have to see him all the time in school and he's always looking at me(and I ignore him). Honestly, for a long time I didn't think of him, but last night I had a dream we made out. Now all I can think about is him. How do I get him out of my mind?

2007-02-10 16:14:15 · 10 answers · asked by QueenofLeon 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 16:14:04 · 10 answers · asked by mala 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am in U.A.E. he is in the U.S. with mom what to do ? He is 80. I am in a terrible situation. I love them and I am also loving my family with my husband and kids. Dave doesnt want to move back to the states. Im worried about them. I have a brother there helping, but I am feeling guilty. What to do ?

2007-02-10 16:14:00 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Have any of you ever dated a guy after high school that was older and you thought wasn't the hottest and maybe a geek or something? but he is soo much more good looking now. Would you feel guilty for dating him now? I mean i never talked to him before but i remember seeing him alot like 3-4 years ago

2007-02-10 16:13:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, oh my goddddddddd
fu*k last night my dad raped me and this morning i woke up and his fat stick was in my tiny hole!
you know how depressing this is?
my dad, the one who kissed me goodnight and took me to the mall and said he would always be there for me
WHAT THE HELL HAPPENEDTO HIM?????
its already depressing to be orally sexed by him but waking uo to it?
i just dont know what to do
i cant even drive yet
im just a teenager!
just a teenage girl
PLEASE ONE OF YOU SMARE HELPFUL PEOPLE HELP MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE
SHIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIITTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT

2007-02-10 16:13:32 · 12 answers · asked by ohmygoodgollygosh94 1 in Singles & Dating

i have this problem when i ask girls their no they will give it to me but when i tried calling them they will give all kind of reason for not answering n will not reply me late n will always say sorry for replying late i really dont understand them y is they r acting this way n i have already deleted almost abt 45 girls i wonder where i go wrong can some one enlighten me pls on what to do

2007-02-10 16:13:19 · 1 answers · asked by draco 1 in Singles & Dating

Swear?:
Cry?:
Yawn?:
Phone ur parents?:
Sweat?:
Smile?:

2007-02-10 16:13:09 · 8 answers · asked by ((((marian)))) 3 in Singles & Dating

I know I am probably gonna get ripped apart for this, but i need some personal advice from you people in Internet-land.
So, I have six relationships in my 21 years on this earth. I have never been able to keep a woman as a girlfriend for more than three months and 22 days. I know some might say that i have lots of character flaws, but others say I am adorable. Its just the fact I cant seem to stay interested and committed to the girl. I need some advice on how 1) To get over fears of Commitment, 2) Find a girl not from a dating site but from my college and 30 figure out how my approach to this is going wrong. So you can either respond here or IM me at will_Wetzel_99 or on AIM-williamjwetzel. I look froward to having at least someone give me some real advice then just bashing me for "being a loser n00b." I also apologize for bashing any of you for your relationship problems

Will

2007-02-10 16:12:59 · 5 answers · asked by Will W 2 in Singles & Dating

he is always finding excuses to talk to me or sit behind me. even my close friends have started noticing. he hangs around wherever i am with his friends. and what's more, on of his friends has started showing an interest in me! i don't know what to do coz he hasn't made any move yet. pls help.

2007-02-10 16:11:58 · 7 answers · asked by amon_sesshoumaru 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 16:11:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok if you dont know how u feel about a guy like if you have feelings for him or not should you be upfront with him about how your unsure or see what happens and not tell him? girls and guys opinions all welcomed please. theres this guy and i cant decide and i dont want to lead him on cause i tend to do that (i've heard ;)) thanks!

2007-02-10 16:10:13 · 14 answers · asked by ugly truth 3 in Singles & Dating

i cant keep my feelings stright i think i like my best friend but my other friend is SUPA hott!mi confused!

2007-02-10 16:09:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am IMing my b/f and he sent me a poem, and i need to send him one back, so what is one that i can use. Love, any other topics!

2007-02-10 16:09:39 · 4 answers · asked by dreamer 1 in Singles & Dating

Would you kiss a banana if the voices told you to? I did and I haven't regreted it yet.

2007-02-10 16:09:26 · 6 answers · asked by Kari H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and then begin again with another part of his foot. is this normal especially when hes really ticklish?

2007-02-10 16:09:19 · 11 answers · asked by linda 2 in Friends

My friend is "dating" this guy secretly. She is doing it behind her parents backs, talking to him all night on her cell phone. She really shouldn't but I can't really say anything to her, can i?

2007-02-10 16:07:16 · 11 answers · asked by BabyBrownEyes 1 in Friends