I used to have really big feelingd for this guy, but then when I made a move, I found out he had a girlfriend. I was really angry because he was flirting with me for months, and knew the whole time I liked him, and he told this all to a friend of mine. Well, I have to see him all the time in school and he's always looking at me(and I ignore him). Honestly, for a long time I didn't think of him, but last night I had a dream we made out. Now all I can think about is him. How do I get him out of my mind?
2007-02-10 16:14:15 · 10 answers · asked by QueenofLeon 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's no way to get over something like that quickly, but I can tell you from a guy's perspective that he's a dog and probably got a kick out of having two girls want him, which is why he let you make your move. He's a dog though...no doubt. You'll just have to let time take care of your problem.
2007-02-10 16:17:44 · answer #1 · answered by Big Happy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I just lost my on and off boyfriend of ten years because he found it entertaining to have a fling with a band geek. You put your whole self into it, and don't get anything but hurt in return. Just keep yourself busy, or find a new hobby. It sounds so cliche and so many people say it, but it's working for me. I've taken up guitar and it's going great...it's something relaxing for me and it keeps my mind off him. Just be glad you DIDN'T make out with him...then you'd really be screwed. Just keep trying...it'll get better...stay busy...try watching a movie for now...that's what I'm doing as I type... -Alyssa
2007-02-11 00:23:26 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
honey, i m going through the same thing! Start dating again!... not to use your date as a rebound but enjoy your date and it will get him off of your mind. it works very well, be honest to yourself and others...just spend more time with someone who cares about you or who you care about... put your energy on them instead of thinking about HIM. Work, get busy...let the time do the rest. good luck!
2007-02-11 00:21:23 · answer #3 · answered by ms.knownothing 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Pick up a hobby, hang out with your girlfriends. Do SOMETHING. Keep yourself occupy. Getting over somebody isnt easy, it takes time, but you can do it =)
Only time can tell.
2007-02-11 00:27:46 · answer #4 · answered by jeanne1120 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you want him, you won't get him out of your mind. So why do you want him, especially knowing what you now know? You need to answer "that" question first before you can answer your own question.
2007-02-11 00:18:06 · answer #5 · answered by americansneedtowakeup 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take out a picture of Orlando Bloom. I mean, what guy will beat that.
2007-02-11 00:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
With the time can do anything. Find something to do, and to keep yourself busy, so you can forget or no think about him.
2007-02-11 00:22:35 · answer #7 · answered by Melis 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think of other things
come on.. it was just a dream.
go out with friends and stuff & listen to happy music
anything to not think about him
2007-02-11 00:17:46 · answer #8 · answered by sheila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid the thought in your mind
2007-02-11 00:17:52 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alcohol
2007-02-11 00:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by SUPERMAN 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋