ok if you dont know how u feel about a guy like if you have feelings for him or not should you be upfront with him about how your unsure or see what happens and not tell him? girls and guys opinions all welcomed please. theres this guy and i cant decide and i dont want to lead him on cause i tend to do that (i've heard ;)) thanks!
2007-02-10 16:10:13 · 14 answers · asked by ugly truth 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can invest a month or so and see which side of the fence you are on. You can part amicably or go on if you feel more interested..
2007-02-10 16:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by DrB 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest! Tell him you'd like to "see where it goes", but you're just not sure @ this point.If he's THAT interested, he'll go for that.Then, if it don't work out, he can't say you lied, and you'll feel better about yourself.Don't wait until you get commited & then say "well, I wasn't sure, but I didn't want to tell you", so now I want a divorce because your feet stink!...Why is that so hard for young ppl these days?. Just tell him like it is baby! You can;t be called a liar or a cheat if you are upfront.
2007-02-11 00:17:01 · answer #2 · answered by lizrdluvnmom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, you should sit him down and be straightforward with him. Make sure he understands that you aren't feeling it like he may be. This may cause him to over react and start smothering the hell out of you, but maybe he'll be mature enough to listen to what you're saying and give you some space so you can grow into or out of him in time. Just remember to let him down as soon as you decide he's not doing it for you. Don't drag it out. That's really terrible on guys and can screw them up with relationships later on in their life.
2007-02-11 00:15:48 · answer #3 · answered by Big Happy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's no harm in feeling things out for a little bit, he may surprise you!...don't let things get too serious right away. if you decide you don't really like him, let him go....i went through that 3 and a half years ago when i first started dating my fiancee. if i had given up right away i would have missed out on the love of my life!
2007-02-11 00:13:40 · answer #4 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont lead him on, just hang out with him like you would a friend and based on those experiences decide if you like him.
its never good to lead somone on unless you know that you want to be with them!
2007-02-11 00:13:18 · answer #5 · answered by Cory S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol yea every1 says i lead guys on.. let's c...
Honestly if he lieks u its his problem. if ur unsure then dont wrry about it ur answer will come naturally. Just talk wit him like usual, hang out as usual and ur feelings will just come naturally. its not ur fault if he thinks ur leading him on and if he askss u out if u say yes u can c how it would b like.. just 1 date... if u say no give himur reasons... ur unsure yet but still like 2 hang out wit him like normal. ^_^.
2007-02-11 00:15:08 · answer #6 · answered by Confused? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that is the best thing i just split from some one who did not know if he wonted to be with me it took him a year to realise he didn't wont to be with me and i had no ides we were even living together so be honest its the best way so both of you know where you stan
2007-02-11 00:20:27 · answer #7 · answered by blackrose8684 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think you should tell him that you may or may not have feelings for him but you should do something with him.. go hangout at a party with him and couple of other people (not couples) to see if you like him or not. don't do juss once hangout with him for a couple of weeks to see how your heart feels.
2007-02-11 00:17:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm.... that kinda a tough one. I would probably say wait awhile. Then tell him, and see how things go. Good luck.
2007-02-11 00:15:09 · answer #9 · answered by Holly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him but be straight up about it like you was when asking this question
2007-02-11 00:14:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋