Let's say you were with this guy for almost 4yrs and you broke up with him for a few reasons one of them included u having an affair with a female which lasted for another 3 1/2 years. At one time in your relationship with this guy you thought you would be with no other you thought this was the one you would marry and have children with and so did everyone else. You were even close to having a child but fate had other plans. Its been 6 years since you were together. you lost contact for years till you decided you really needed to speak to him and seek closure. 5 mnths ago you met up and it was like old times. but you were living with someone who is now out of the picture. He is now coming home from iraq and says he wants more than anything to hook up again. he has always loved you and your the only one he can never replace. the only one he has thought of etc. you don't really want another relationship now and your not sure if it will work with him again. Would you sleep with him?
2007-02-10 16:17:43 · 18 answers · asked by Shana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I boinked my ex G/F 2 years after we broke up.
2007-02-10 16:32:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I won't. I would care as a friend but I don't want to come over with no reason after relationship was over. He might come back in town maybe met someone else already have been waiting for. You never know.
2007-02-11 00:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by amber p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Past performance/behavior always describes or defines what your future behavior/performance will be.You ex became you ex for a reason or reasons. The bottom line is you "can't go home again." Take the experience, learn from it and move on. If you don't it will only end in another breakup.
2007-02-11 00:22:50 · answer #3 · answered by Heidi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not sleep with him if you aren't interested in him. It's not sfair to him. Just think if the sitution was reversed & you wanted a relastionship & the other person just wanted to sleep with you. Maybe your just confused right now because you got out of a relationship. Do you think you guys can just be friends? & you never know what that might bring??/
2007-02-11 00:35:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sleep, hmm becarefull. If you just want to do it for old time sake.. make sure you do it only for old time sakes then. I would personally say stay away. But i understand we all have needs. He has had allot of time to think. No one wants to be alone. Maybe just real slow. And if it leads to the bedroom. only do it if you think you truely wont get hurt. Or take it for face value.. do it for the sake of doing it. Would you be willing to get attached? if so the it may be worht the risk. If not.. they stay away and just keep in touch.
2007-02-18 16:38:01 · answer #5 · answered by pdsaturn76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just has something missing in his life and has had lots of time to think about it. you can give a shot if you want, however, i bet he will not be the same guy that you had before.his personality will be different. i have this feeling you are going to see him anyways and you will find out. let us know how it went.
2007-02-18 23:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by REALLY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a good idea. When u first broke up, u had a reason to do that.
2007-02-11 00:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by A Friend 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if there is no one else that could get hurt (bf/gf) and u both are clear that its just sex ur not back together. why not. BOTH have to have the same understanding
2007-02-11 00:31:57 · answer #8 · answered by holdnnmyown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree wit Justin T but over is over and get over the man and find someone else
2007-02-18 22:52:01 · answer #9 · answered by **jAcKiE_LyNnE** 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No over is over
2007-02-18 17:39:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋