I know I am probably gonna get ripped apart for this, but i need some personal advice from you people in Internet-land.
So, I have six relationships in my 21 years on this earth. I have never been able to keep a woman as a girlfriend for more than three months and 22 days. I know some might say that i have lots of character flaws, but others say I am adorable. Its just the fact I cant seem to stay interested and committed to the girl. I need some advice on how 1) To get over fears of Commitment, 2) Find a girl not from a dating site but from my college and 30 figure out how my approach to this is going wrong. So you can either respond here or IM me at will_Wetzel_99 or on AIM-williamjwetzel. I look froward to having at least someone give me some real advice then just bashing me for "being a loser n00b." I also apologize for bashing any of you for your relationship problems
Will
2007-02-10 16:12:59 · 5 answers · asked by Will W 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no sir i am not going to rip you apart on this...you are 21...think about how old you were when you were with your first girlfriend. OK now here you are, in college. I'm sure you will meet someone there. you shouldn't be all that concerned about a commitment right now. you should be having fun and enjoying everything going on in your life. if that special girl happens along cherish her and everything you do together. it probably wont last. when college is over people tend to move on. now as far as keeping her, well all women are different in what they want from a man. its your job to figure that out on your own. the only thing i can tell you is dint ever lie or cheat. other than that i wish you well....
2007-02-10 16:22:46 · answer #1 · answered by zsaffireblue2003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regarding your fear on commitment, you have got to search within yourself why you feel that way. Did something happened to you that you are afraid to stay in a relationship?When you are in a relationship , is there something that you are looking for but can't find? Only you can help yourself. If its not really a personality problem, then it's possible that you have not found the right girl yet. Six relationships are not a sign of weakness or commital problems. There are lot of people who have came out of many relationships.You might just wants to evaluate what went wrong with those relationships before you start a new one.For the second question .. i can't recommend any
2007-02-10 16:23:01 · answer #2 · answered by bittersweetlove21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) thats all on you fears of commitment coulda been the women you choose to date not being what you really want but are just what were available to you at the time.
2) oh come on college... go to the parties events games ect ect facebook.com although an internet site is really popular with college people
3) sounds like you need to ask yourself what you want in a woman is it you that broke it off with these women? if you counted the days it really doesn't seem like it maybe your character flaws could be cute to some for awhile but get to be annoying after too long.
2007-02-10 16:20:25 · answer #3 · answered by massure4hire 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by how much you have been on here lately i would stay away from the computer for a while. I do not mean to be disrespectful but do you have unrealistic expectations of women? do you look at porn a lot? do you have too many preconceptions about potential women? do you really know what you really want from these women? Do you want sexual relationships but approach it as if you want romance, or the other way around? please answer some of these and i can guide you?
2007-02-10 16:29:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Mames Guey
2007-02-10 16:17:23 · answer #5 · answered by MeLii♥ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋