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There is this girl i liked at the beginning of my freshman high school year (and i am still in my freshman year) and i like her again
the problem is that i messed up the first time, because i wasnt very good at talking to girls, and i kinda creeped her out, cause i never talked to her...but lately ive matured, and its a lot easier, like i dont get nervous and crap, and i automatically talk to girls now, no effort...i think it would take some real hard work and stuff to get this girl i like, and i need ur help
ive tried to forget about her, but i just cant...i moved on for about a month, but went back because i just couldnt stand it, shes so frickekn beautiful!!!!
so i wanted some help...any ideas of how to make her like me even the slightest bit?? list things like strategies (lol) and stuff like that....
PS: no notes
maybe something for valentines day, that wouldnt give it away
AND SHES AN AWESOME PERSON, GREAT ATTITUDE AND LOOKS, and thats y i like her
2007-02-10 17:21:56 · 13 answers · asked by German L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sending roses is a nice thing to do but there are probably a dozen guys who send her roses, so use this strategy..
Buy 11 roses and write this sweet note that says something like this " Hold these roses and stand in front of a mirror and see the 12th rose , the most beautiful, the most loved, the most precious thing of my life"..
I hope u got the idea, the 12th rose is her herself, u can make the note a bit more sweet and more romantic but don't make it very long, she will not read it...
Hope this works for you, it def worked for me ...
2007-02-10 17:32:38 · answer #1 · answered by Kiran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT give her a gift. If you do you will be on the fast track to being just her friend. You don't want to have to buy her attention. You said that it would take hard work to get the girl you like, and I have a great idea for that. I agree that It will take hard work, but it won't involve her. At least not initially. What I mean is that you need to work on yourself. I can say that I know the type of guy you are after reading your note, and for you to get a girl that is this awesome, you are going to need to change your attitude. This whole tried to do without her thing, but can't, just isn't going to cut it. That whole mindset of having to have one particular girl is going to be your downfall my friend if you do not break the habit. If you really like her and want to be with her, learn not to be so desperate. Females can smell this from a mile away. If I have said it once, I've said it a thousand times.....Confidence Confidence Confidence.....If you really want to be with her, do your best to get over her first. Make her realize that you are confident and in control, then pull back. She will come to you.
2007-02-10 17:35:18 · answer #2 · answered by mattkarkoska 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her some flowers, but not on Valentines, everyone does that, its taken for granted, you send them today. And not roses, to cliche, go with tulips. Just a short note with them, something like "thinking of you", that's it.
Just be nice, casual. You cant win her in a day, but you can build a good solid relationship, and that is a wonderful thing.
2007-02-10 17:32:19 · answer #3 · answered by rob_hallock 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT I repeat DO NOT buy her a gift or send her flowers. That stuff is for when you have been dating for a while not for girls that you haven't even went out with yet. Imagine what she's gonna think about some guy she hasn't even gone out with spending $50 to buy her roses.
The best way to get her to like you is to be seen with other girls. This will stoke her desire for you much like it stokes your desire for a girl when she is with another guy. The play hard to get A LITTLE BIT (NOT TOO MUCH!!!). Same way it works on you when a girl starts doing it to you.
2007-02-10 17:35:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jamal J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
y dont u just be friends then maybe things will go on from there like being bf and gf so then u 2 can be together....maybe for valentine's day u can get her the usual like box of choco's in a shape of a heart and her fav flowers....usually girls love orchids so u can get her that and she'll be very happy and then u can be bf and gf so hope it works out!! oh and get into things that she likes so happy v-day!!
2007-02-10 17:39:33 · answer #5 · answered by Sara R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just go up to her and start a conversation up and get her talking and show her that you have changed a lot. Make sure to make her laugh too. Girls like that (or at least i do, lol). Just be your charming self and everything will work out on its own. lol.
Good Luck!
2007-02-10 17:29:34 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse she is!! You wouldn't be attracted to an ugly girl with a bad attitude.
Change your image. Get a new look. Find out what she's interested in and join her.
2007-02-10 17:30:11 · answer #7 · answered by ♨ Wisper ► 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the suitable element you're able to do is circulate up and refer to her. There relatively isn't a thank you to make a woman like basically a splash. such as you pronounced you matured a splash and you refer to ladies now, so it is going to no longer be a situation so you might circulate and communicate to her. purely seem at her as you notice the different woman, as a conventional individual.
2016-12-17 13:57:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey i dont have any answers because im in the same position that you are in. i messed up with this girl and now i will do anything to win her back. sadly, whenever i talk to her i always feel like im saying the wrong thing. we are friends now but I cant stand being with her without actually being with her. please help us!
2007-02-10 19:41:25 · answer #9 · answered by cwflad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should get her either candle, teddy bear or roses and a card for Valentines day.. let her know you like her and start talkin to her more
2007-02-10 17:32:11 · answer #10 · answered by Mandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋