Family & Relationships - 7 February 2007

2007-02-07 19:14:02 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Improvise. Reflect. Be Hypothetical.

There's no real motive or object to asking this question.

2007-02-07 19:13:36 · 20 answers · asked by What gives? 5 in Friends

Ok..
Me and my bf have been together 2 years now. I love him so much. I am 19..he is 24...
He is my first love and all that...
Throughout the relationship we have fought ALOT..over nothing....but I hate it.
I have tried and tried to talk to him..he wont listen, and I have threatened to break up with him so many times that...it doesnt scare him anymore.
He is gonna go to jail in 2 weeks for awhile, and I figured he'd smarten up adn treat me good and pay attention to me before then..but he still acts dumb...I always get sucked in cause he will have really cute episodes....and be the cutest guy on earth.
Tongith w got in a fight..and he keeps getting his mom involved in our fights and shes always on his side...cause she doesnt know that its all me....I need help..right now its 3am...I have all my clothes packed and wanna leave...please give me long mature answers!! THANX!!

2007-02-07 19:10:54 · 13 answers · asked by Red_lipstick 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright.. In high school, I was basically your average joe. I played on a few sports teams, went to the occasional party, and was decent looking (a little overweight).

In my "extended" group of friends, there was a girl who was really good looking, but I never really talked to. She was a year younger, and never seemed to be at the social events I found myself at, so that was that.

Now three year later, I'm in a University class with her. The first few lectures I was always late, and ended up sitting at the front, so I never really made any sort of contact with her.

Yesterday though, I managed to make it to class early, and sat two rows over from her. (Now, not to sound vein or anything, but since high school I've been somewhat of a frequent at the gym, I made an extreme improvement to the wardrobe, and have basically bettered myself overall.)

So, with 10 minutes until class started, I caught her looking at me 4 times... Does this mean anything, or am I just overanalyzing?

2007-02-07 19:08:48 · 10 answers · asked by Tom L 1 in Friends

Is it good to stay in a mutually fulfilling relationship for the fun of it, when I know that I can not be with her? Should I at least tell her that it won't last?

2007-02-07 19:07:50 · 19 answers · asked by bloodoftheconquered 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a girl 10 moths ago and after that we beacame best frnd. she is so sweet n caring, i dont know when i fall in love wit her and one day i proposed her she was not able decide and confused after one month she said yes we had a nice time n speak to each other dailly for sevral hours after that some time we had fights too but as time passed later on we had lots of fights,till now we had lots of misunderstanding between us most of the things were going wrong. one day she met with accident got ligament problem in her knee n she said to me she dont want to spoil my life n even she dont believe in love now n she dont love me anymore she just want to be my frnd only.i don want to lose her i lost my love so dont want to lose her frndship now we r frnds but i still love her.i just want to know why do this happened to me i know there must be something wrong with me only but now she is happy and even we dont fight.somebody would tell me wat was wrong with us? what happened?

2007-02-07 19:05:33 · 8 answers · asked by Idiot 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my fiancee are renting out the american legion for our october wedding and i do not want to hire a caterer. I need some ideas besides cheese and veggie platters, salad, pasta, rolls, and fruit to have to eat at the wedding. Help please! ((preferably pretty inexpensive ideas))

2007-02-07 19:05:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

cus u never know

2007-02-07 19:04:44 · 1 answers · asked by εїзR@iiNεїз 2 in Singles & Dating

early last yr for 3 or 4 months hubby had a problem with me coming to his work he would say stuff like."Are u really coming in i dont know why u have/want to no reason to or "i wish i worked where no relatives were allowed or "i though u had stuff to do tomorrow" He has been working there for 10 yrs and before this he NEVER had a problem with me coming in and NOW he doesnt have a problem with me coming there.Like i said he has worked there 10 yrs and in those 10 yrs i have only been to where he works like 5 or 6 times and last time i was there was over a yr ago so its not like i am there constantly..during this time he would say to me "there is a reason u wanna come in" and i would say no there isnt i just wanna come and looked around(He works in a thrift store) and i would say to him..There must be a reason why u dont want me there and he would say "no there isnt"..Been happily married 16 yrs and he is a good man and a great husband.

2007-02-07 19:04:10 · 11 answers · asked by sally d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I get so mad at my bf..we've been together 2 yrs...and I feel like I seriously dont care anymore and wat out..than he sucks me back...how will I know when Im really done??
Like tonight we got in a HUGE fight and Im sick of it...Im afraid Im gonna just keep going back..

2007-02-07 19:03:45 · 9 answers · asked by Red_lipstick 1 in Singles & Dating

if one day after a period of time of marriage, u meet another gal/guy that u like n wish to be with for the rest of ur life...
would u try to go into a relationship with them?
u still love ur wife/husband but then u really want to be with the other person...
why n wat makes u do that?
can give some reasons why a person would do that?

is it because the person u married is not really the one that u thought he/she is???

2007-02-07 19:00:38 · 17 answers · asked by -LOST- 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

it hurts,i dont know what to do?

2007-02-07 18:59:45 · 9 answers · asked by sparkle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok here is the deal i was raised in a very religious home by a dad who did nothing but preach and read the bible and go to church both parents did, i dont hate him for that but i went my own way religiously and still up to 2 months ago he preaches everytime i talk to him, now last month my mom called me to tell me that my dad had left her and moved out of there house that me and my dad built and that he would call her and bash her one day and the next want to work things out. now i finally sent my mom money to get her own place and she has filed for a divorce, now my dad calls her and tells her she is worthless and no one will ever love her or want her, and he threatens her now should i hate him for teaching me not to do what he is doing to my mother .

2007-02-07 18:59:05 · 21 answers · asked by Brandon D 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-07 18:58:41 · 2 answers · asked by sweetblack1953 1 in Friends

My gf has a 9 to 9.5 body. She is banging but I am sick of having sex with her. I'm not sure if I am in love with her and I think thats what is missing. Do guys get sick of sex with the same women if they are really in love with them? I guess my question is...is the reason I am sick of sex because I am missing the emotional element and its just physical?

2007-02-07 18:57:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, my girl and i have been dating for 4 months and she is madly in love with me and at first i loved her too, but my feelings died she is a great girl and i love her to death but i just dont see us working out i live so far away now (just moved 2 weeks ago) and she cant come and see me for many resones none are her fault and i am so busy i rarely get a chance to see her i can not do it face to face i would like to but like i said i never!!!! get to see her and i cant do it over the phone because she dont have one the only way i can contact her is while she is at work! I want to let her down gently so we can still be friends but hard enough to know that i am seriously done what do i say please help??!!

2007-02-07 18:57:14 · 22 answers · asked by viper97e 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my buddy like the same girl. We're all good friends and she's not interested in him that way and he's totally into her. He doesn't really get it either. I don't really want to lose him as a friend, but I'm really into her.

I am looking for an educated answer here.

2007-02-07 18:55:42 · 9 answers · asked by Stick'em in the Trunk 1 in Singles & Dating

Like a stepford wife. All the benefits of a woman minus the nagging, attitude, and (fill in the blank).

2007-02-07 18:53:49 · 17 answers · asked by Billy Bob D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Check out this post. I have a feeling it's legit. What do you think?
http://phoenix.craigslist.org/stp/275213732.html

I sent him this email:

Dear Sir,

Wow, what a post and a potentially beautiful opportunity for someone and for you. My intuition is that your offer is at face value. Quite a responsibility to support and nurture someone and try to teach them without spoiling them. This will be a particular challenge because you may be helping someone who has been hurt and may not have had much guidance. I hope you don't get too badly hurt. Daughters can hurt. I'm sure you're wise enough not to expect a fairytale though. There are so many young women who would value you and your offer. There are hundreds or thousands of young women right here in this city who could really use a father, because, sadly, fathers are notoriously bad. haha It's almost epidemic. Most aren't equipped to handle a teenager's or young woman's emotional needs. We need our fathers, and if we don't have good

2007-02-07 18:53:20 · 4 answers · asked by itry007 4 in Family

Is it possible for a guy age 18 to have atleast 100 friend's that are girls, and ONLY be friend's with them without romance?
even if you know for a fact that a few of them like him more that just a friend?
he isnt that easy, and he tell's me theyre only friend's, I doubt he would lie to me about that but he get's REALLY mad when I bring up his other friend's and his relationship's with them, IT IS SOOOOOOOOOOO ANNOYING, cuz I am a jealous type, is that rong??
I THINK have every reason to be jealous cuz he is the type of guy I know a LOT of girl's want.
please i need answer's =]
thank you

2007-02-07 18:53:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 18:52:47 · 10 answers · asked by Direktor 5 in Weddings

I dated this girl back in college a long time ago. She was going through some emotional crisis so it was all physical. We didn't call each other bf/gf, we just see each other sometimes when we both feel the needs. We stopped our unhealthy relationship becasue I wanted more than just sex. We didn't actually get along...we fought a lot. Then after a few years we started talk online again. She changed a lot and is asking for a second chance. I know we are phsycially attracted to each other still but since I haven't seen her in person for a while, I don't know if this attraction is healthy or not. She has been calling, text and IM me everyday... she talks dirty to me on the phone or IM even though we haven't seen each other in person for a long time. I know I am physically attracted to her... but I wouldn't dirty talk anyone unless I am very close to them. Is she just playing? I am asking because I don't have time for "friends with benifits" anymore.

2007-02-07 18:52:28 · 8 answers · asked by ms.knownothing 1 in Singles & Dating

What shude i do does she love me or not?
allright my question is ive been hanging out with this girl allot and she asked me for my number and i gave it to her then we started going to movies and to dinner and i got her this necklace and she relly liked it and so on and so on weve been doing this about 2 or 3months then one night we wer out at a movie and after the movie i told her that im falling in love with her and she said that she didnt know what to say then she said she thinks of me as friend but she still wants to go to the movies and dinner and stuff and now i dont know it seems a bit wierd becuse she still flirts with me as if nothing has changed i need some advice fast becuse i need to know if im just wasting my time with here or if a scared her becuse it was to soon becuse it fells like im just something on the side. man this is relly tearing me up inside im happy when im around her but sad when im not.

2007-02-07 18:51:38 · 7 answers · asked by reapers 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-07 18:50:18 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hmmm Wife has gotten frisky the last couple of days and well im at a loss as what to do new.. Anyone have any ideas?

2007-02-07 18:50:17 · 21 answers · asked by Im C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He cares about her but the girl told him she didn't know how to do with him and her BF who is sometimes abusive. The guy on IM always ask her where are you because she told she was going back to America. Now the girl told the guy she really likes him and sends him alots of sms msgs he just waits for the msgs but doesn't answer her. The girl thinks he cares for her but doesn't know what he is thinking he is a really nice guy and not after her for sex or anything they are real friends..Before she gave him alot of drama but he told her he could never get angry at her..but whats with the silent treatment. Before he would come online but now since he doesn't know where she is he won't come online anymore..

2007-02-07 18:48:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, i live with my girlfriend, and I'm about to move to a different apt. with her so another girl can live with us. Should I be excited or worried?
In a way, I feel like Jack tripper, which is cool. I like that guy.
But in another way, I feel like... they could be annoying together. I plan on marrying her someday, and I know this is just a small obstacle, but I don't know yet, ANSWER!!

2007-02-07 18:47:27 · 14 answers · asked by Brad 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 18:45:26 · 18 answers · asked by saemmt 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am told quite often im very good looking. im not bragging but ive been told that. Ive been working out hard at the gym and i am in terrific shape. i notice that a lot of girls stare at me or smile. ive been getting lots of double glances. even from girls at the night club lots of stares. im shy. should i take the chance and go talk to these girls..are these signs they like me?

2007-02-07 18:42:28 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there are soooooo many people who gossip about me in school...i dont know what have i done to them...to be frank,i dont even know them...they have influenced my good friends too..what should i do?

2007-02-07 18:42:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends