I dated this girl back in college a long time ago. She was going through some emotional crisis so it was all physical. We didn't call each other bf/gf, we just see each other sometimes when we both feel the needs. We stopped our unhealthy relationship becasue I wanted more than just sex. We didn't actually get along...we fought a lot. Then after a few years we started talk online again. She changed a lot and is asking for a second chance. I know we are phsycially attracted to each other still but since I haven't seen her in person for a while, I don't know if this attraction is healthy or not. She has been calling, text and IM me everyday... she talks dirty to me on the phone or IM even though we haven't seen each other in person for a long time. I know I am physically attracted to her... but I wouldn't dirty talk anyone unless I am very close to them. Is she just playing? I am asking because I don't have time for "friends with benifits" anymore.
2007-02-07 18:52:28 · 8 answers · asked by ms.knownothing 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I guess you will have to meet with her in person and find out if there is anything left for you..IF not move on and let her know from the get go...
2007-02-07 18:56:59 · answer #1 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way to find out is ask her not talk bout sex and have a real convo bout life and the things that have happen seen you last saw each other. ask her to share her thoughts dream fears the furture. if she blows you off or say sumthing bout she doesnt want to talk bout it then she is not in to you as a boy friend she see you as the same guy u where back in the day. and it would be best to move on b4 u get ur heart broke
2007-02-08 03:01:20 · answer #2 · answered by SNOW 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is go out an a date and she how she has changed and see if you are compatable start a real relationship if not move on.
2007-02-08 03:04:33 · answer #3 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go out on a date with her, see if shes you kind of gal. I believe seeing her personality with your own eyes will give you the best picture.
2007-02-08 02:56:42 · answer #4 · answered by ievi1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a female and that alone helps me to give you the correct answer.This chic is truly playing you,man!she either needs sex now or will need sex.My advice:don't talk or email her,you've got a big heart,and right now,she doesn't have one.You're Welcome!
2007-02-08 03:06:26 · answer #5 · answered by perfect prrr 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just wants to go back to how it was, if you want to get hurt again, go for it, but i would just drop this relationship and move on. don't have sex unless you want the emotional too.
2007-02-08 02:55:57 · answer #6 · answered by yaabro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her. let her know what you're looking for and see if she wants the same thing. if she does then take things slow, so neither one of you gets your feelings hurt. good luck!
2007-02-08 03:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by mizz_kitty_79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only way you'll know is to meet with and spend time with her again, and see if she's really changed.
2007-02-08 03:07:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anni 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋