My gf has a 9 to 9.5 body. She is banging but I am sick of having sex with her. I'm not sure if I am in love with her and I think thats what is missing. Do guys get sick of sex with the same women if they are really in love with them? I guess my question is...is the reason I am sick of sex because I am missing the emotional element and its just physical?
2007-02-07 18:57:49 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are defiantly not connecting with her on an intimate level. You are a perfect example that love is more than just looks. You two are past what is called the "honeymoon" stage of the relationship and now you must evaluate your relationship and determine if your feelings are lust or love.
2007-02-07 19:01:39 · answer #1 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, i suppose you're now finding out how emotional elements play a part in sex. if it's just physical, it will get dull after some time, unless of course you don't seek any emotional connection.
but being human, it's only natural to have some emotional connection... it's just a matter of time.
find out about yourself. do you want an emotional connection, be it with this current girl or a new girl. what do you want our of a gf / partner now?
then you'll get your answer
2007-02-08 03:07:43 · answer #2 · answered by brandonlkj 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would have to say your assumption is correct..... My ex had a 9.5 to 10 body and face, but I never got tired of it because of the love factor... I was completely in love with HER and if anything the more love there was the better the sex.... but now she's gone and my hand is getting callused...... so next time you think you are getting sick of it and want to call it quits...... think of me and my callused hand :)
2007-02-08 03:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i have had this problem before i was with a girl for 3 years i was madily in love her as she was with me but still after time the sex got boring try new things experiment a little maybe that will bring back the spark you are looking for!
2007-02-08 03:03:51 · answer #4 · answered by viper97e 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know the answer. You are cheating her. Let her go.Making love with a woman that your not in love with is like having sex with a prostitute.If she's a hooker. In that case you both get what you wanted. For you sexual release for her money.
Be kind to her but let her go. I just hope that she's not in love with you.
good luck.
2007-02-08 03:14:14 · answer #5 · answered by Tom 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. if you're just into it for having sex, once you've had enough, that's all you have. you've been taught that sex is a goal, it's not. sex is a part of a whole relationship. no one told you this. you need to find out what sex is about and why we have it. i would suggest reading genesis 3.
2007-02-08 03:02:08 · answer #6 · answered by yaabro 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sex is just a part of ur relationship. if u dont love her then u will get sick of it. just think once y dont i love her and ask ur self do i really love her . and if u really love her then u wont be sick of it. there is more to love than just sex....
2007-02-08 03:04:39 · answer #7 · answered by naina mrc 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do believe that there are some people who are so fond of sex but not a maniac but its where they can release and express there inner feelings. just be honest to her and tell her how you feel in a nice way. but surely if she will really like you to be part of her life forever she will help you to work it out together with you.
2007-02-08 03:26:47 · answer #8 · answered by wantopass 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Send her to me and she will be sick of sex since I will have sex with her more often than she requires.
2007-02-08 04:06:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need a break.... not interms of relation ship.... sex.... it not necessary that very time you met u end up in sex.... there are other things to do as wel....... try for making love rather than having sex
2007-02-08 03:02:12 · answer #10 · answered by Zaheer Ahmed 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋