Family & Relationships - 7 February 2007

we dont see each other often but we talk alot on msn and we text each other abit , we both say lve at the end of the texts she wants me to met her family , she said to somone before he (me) is not my type but she told me she only said that cos he was annoying her , the last time i saw her she looked at me from the coner of her eye and she touched her hair quite abit , do u think she like me more then a mate or any way of telling

2007-02-07 19:43:45 · 7 answers · asked by ak222002 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 19:43:29 · 14 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Singles & Dating

I left my abusive husband nearly 2 months ago. We were together for 13 years and he was primarily verbally and emotionally but has been physical in the past. We have a daughter 7 and a son 5. I left because I wanted a better life for my kids and myself. For some reason I have been going back and forth with my emotions. He lost our house(didn't pay for 7 months, went into foreclosure). He brings home about $900 a week and used to give me about $50-$60 a weekwhen he felt like it. Would give me the silent treatment for weeks and scream in my face and call me names. Why do i still care? He filed for divorce on Jan. 22 and has had over 6 times in these 2 weeks to serve me but the papers are on his dresser( he has an apartment and i moved in with my mom). We have made love several times. He goes back and forth being nice then telling me I'm a cancer that eats away at him and he's sick of me riding his back(mind u I worked and paid bills before I was laid off). how do i let go and move on?!

2007-02-07 19:43:24 · 8 answers · asked by Veronique 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-07 19:42:29 · 14 answers · asked by mala 1 in Weddings

I am wondering if any one has advice for how to better deal with the sadness a long distance relationship can sometimes bring. Some days I feel like just breaking down. When he writes me emails he seems so emotionally disconnected, I am wondering if this is a "guy's way" of dealing with stressful situations and if I should just cut him some slack. He is 20 and I am 19. I am his first girlfriend as well. What should I be doing to better help him and myself out. Thank you!

2007-02-07 19:41:18 · 5 answers · asked by kari_rocks19 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 19:39:55 · 7 answers · asked by *Grace* 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Some things you hear around here quite a bit are:
"That's gay"
"bastard!"
"Why are you gettin' crazy?"

2007-02-07 19:37:37 · 1 answers · asked by Minty 3 in Friends

i am going out with guy this weekend . i am not telling my bffs, and i share everything with em. what do i do? they dont approve so help please. i cant cancell on him cuz he has liked me a long long time. i need serious answers only, no immature people please.

2007-02-07 19:37:28 · 4 answers · asked by nikki 1 in Singles & Dating

The girl couldn't be with him but still wants to go to his graduation and give him a present. She told him she was going on vacation with her new BF so she couldn't talk to him..when she returned the guy on IM told her F your mother and other mean things. Why he knows they can't be together she hopes that they can just be friends with her she told him she still cares alot about him.

2007-02-07 19:36:43 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok why does it mean their hiding something when a husband/wife says "what are u checking up on me or something"...why would it mean their hiding something when they say this to u

2007-02-07 19:36:41 · 12 answers · asked by sally d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi i'm 42 and my hubby is 32 i don't want the fizz to go out of our 12 year marriage any ideas to help me keep the fizz as he doesn't always want to have fun in the bedroom anymore PLEASE HELP

2007-02-07 19:36:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the story goes like this...am married.used to work.now work from home.so have lotta spare borin time at hand.chat a lot.have a hubby who loves me a lot but goes early to work n comes back late n tired. now the issue here is....i try to find my frnds on the net since am not a very social person. been chattin a while now so have lots of them.they become special.they demand my time.i chat long hrs till late 4am n stuff. this thgh bothers my man he doesnt really push me to stop it.nor does he push me to stop any of my other bad habits like smoking. seems sometimes that he doesnt care or some other time that he jst wants me to handle it myself n understand it myself n stop. but then both smokin n chattin seems impossible to stop coz both have become good companions of my boredom/loneliness.wanna go out n work so that both ends eventually coz i dont smoke in public...but then since i left work 5yrs back am kinda gettin lazy thinking abt the travel n all that.am confused abt this Help!

2007-02-07 19:35:49 · 11 answers · asked by Lemme_Know 1 in Marriage & Divorce

This is exactly the content of the loveletter my wife wrote her classmate and she says she neither knows his email id nor had plans of deserting the family
Dear Name,
You have 3 days to leave,take care of your health and enjoy a happy life. It seems what we talked on internet are only lies. Not on my part.I don't mean you are bad. You been good in college and now also. We are not dangerous people.
You were right when you brought your wife to the lunch on Monday. It proves your sincere mentality. Anybody else comes only after your wife.But I thought we shoud meet specially as you would be leaving for US, as you are the only man in my heart. I will not try to dominate your wife as she was with through you thick and thin. Only that I want to be your friend as well. Though I am sincere and disciplined, I have become this because your phone call two years back when I was depressed gave me lot of strenght. I contacted you on mail after one year. What happened later is known to you and me

2007-02-07 19:32:01 · 8 answers · asked by havah 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I mean she never told me how old she was and she looks way older. Shes trying to contact me but I'm freaking out. Help.

2007-02-07 19:31:32 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfirend asked me to marry him but we don't know if he is still married. He left his wife 10 years ago and has not been in contact with her since. The reason he left was that she was sleeping with her dying sister husband.

2007-02-07 19:31:08 · 4 answers · asked by gibger2001 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have to say, on this site i met the most rude and untrusting people ever. You know, i got robbed yesterday (and had a question on this site) but you guys start calling me names and telling me i mix in wrong company... I'm not suprised that most of you guys have relationship problems or no relationship at all because if you speak to your girlfriend like some of you spoke to me then i would also dump your sorry butt!

Most of you racist people go on about whites being bad, but who robbed me? Not whites... (i'm a white female 27jrs old) And they had a knife to me...

How can you just judge peope and calling them names without even thinking of the possiblity of this person maby being innocent?? Have to say i think alot of you guys are totally despicable, and you will be lucky to ever find a woman. You don't desirve a propper one!!!

2007-02-07 19:30:31 · 8 answers · asked by CinsTaylor 2 in Singles & Dating

i asked this question before but im hoping for a few more opnions so ill branch it out a bit more. so im gonna send the guy i like a card and thinking of sending him a photo of us both.....i know he likes me...well i think he likes me a alot since he wants me to move ova there with him and he sent me a poem once...i was wondering whether to just send the card or...the photo as well....but it could be too much...really appreciate opnions

2007-02-07 19:28:47 · 7 answers · asked by little_miss_bizaree 1 in Singles & Dating

My ex gf and I broke up and I still have feelings for her. I cant help but get angry everytime I speak to her. I know it is not doing any good. But she hurt me and is with another guy, I cant help but fight. What must I do to just let my love for her go?

2007-02-07 19:26:22 · 15 answers · asked by stephen b 1 in Singles & Dating

Well ppl keep sayign to leave my bf...and see if he comes back, and to see if he'll start being a better bf etc.. if he were to get better./...and start to be nice...would he turn back to the old him in no time?? would it be a waste of my time??

2007-02-07 19:24:34 · 21 answers · asked by Red_lipstick 1 in Singles & Dating

well actualy I have a happy marrige me and my spouse got no problem with sex may be a little bit of too much sex 4 times a week it that normal for our age we r 40+

2007-02-07 19:24:07 · 8 answers · asked by sophie k 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and chato (friends name) well people are starting romours and well im just nervously scared

2007-02-07 19:22:16 · 11 answers · asked by Debs 2 in Friends

I got a temper and it comes out towards my girlfriend. She's a feisty one so when we fight, well all tempers are flying. Today I made a note to myself to be nice and not get mad about the little stuff. How do I control my temper for the long term?

2007-02-07 19:21:25 · 12 answers · asked by gotham158 3 in Singles & Dating

Anyone recommend any wedding organising / planning books on the market. There seems to be loads on Amazon, and eBay... can't seem to choose the best one..

Looking for something so i can write down all my ideas, dates of dress fitting appts, as well as having advice, and a system of planning the wedding.

Many thanks

2007-02-07 19:21:14 · 9 answers · asked by ஐ♥PinkBoo - TTC #1♥ஐ 5 in Weddings

2007-02-07 19:17:55 · 10 answers · asked by kuti 2 in Singles & Dating

SO WE SHARE A LAPTOP.....AND HE ACTS ,LIKE HE DOESNT KNOW HOW TO LOG IN TO HIS ..YAHOO MAIL ....I TRY TO HELP... AND YUP ...YOU GUESSED IT ...FOUND IT ...AND I'M ASKING MY QUESTION ON HIS PAGE.......HA, HA ....PLEASE RESPOND HE HAS NO FRIENDS .....

2007-02-07 19:16:58 · 7 answers · asked by ANGELO V 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we became close, exachanged numbers and he came over to my house. Now he does not call me but when he sees my friends asks them about me and tells them he will call me but he doesn't call me. what should i do call him or just let it go.

2007-02-07 19:16:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and i have been togther for two years...we love each other very much.I by nature am very possesive so is my husband we both know about each others possesiveness.I asked him one day whether he loves me or his mother the most.He told me he loves his mother.I was surprised at least he couldve kept quiet or have deviated from the subject.I would never say that one after marraige should forget his\her old ties.But to me my husband is most important.I wish it would be the same for him.Now when i am with him I have a feeling he is not entirely mine and iam afraid to disclose everything to him.Is it right on his part to love his mother more than me when he is my whole world.

2007-02-07 19:16:02 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-07 19:15:52 · 11 answers · asked by James 2 in Singles & Dating

I just don't care who is right ,but I really want everything goes well,I love her .I dont want to hurt her

2007-02-07 19:15:08 · 17 answers · asked by xinxin19866891 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My life is falling apart, my daughter is better off without me, so are my other children, and I sit here with blade in hand, and ask myself, what the hell is it all about?

2007-02-07 19:14:49 · 13 answers · asked by Lisa Dawn R 1 in Family