My ex gf and I broke up and I still have feelings for her. I cant help but get angry everytime I speak to her. I know it is not doing any good. But she hurt me and is with another guy, I cant help but fight. What must I do to just let my love for her go?
2007-02-07 19:26:22 · 15 answers · asked by stephen b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hmmm. Stop. Just stop. If this is affecting you so bad, then you should stop talking to her. You need to be away from her, out of her influence to move on. I had to do the same thing. My ex bf borrowed over 600 dollars that took over a year to pay back. He was rude to my friends and family. He cheated on me with his ex, my ex best friend, a girl from hotornot, and someone else. Even so I still had feelings for him and it tore me apart. Finally I made the decision to move on, no matter what. So I isolated myself from him. I blocked his screen names, got a new phone, and didn't add his number, and never went to the arcade he frequented. And you know what? I've never been happier. I was able to meet my true love. My real love. I'm finally being treated right, and that can happen to you, but you have to TRY. In general, I don't really recommend being friends with your ex because:
it's too confusing
too many mixed feelings
if you do get a new gf, she might not be too comfortable with you talking to your ex, and may feel inadequate, and compare herself to her.
It'll hurt you
and it will keep pulling you in.
I hope you can find peace and move on from her.
It's one of the greatest feelings, to put the past behind you. Your shoulders LITERALLY feel lighter.
best of luck
peace,
Rom
2007-02-07 20:03:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
stephen b from B.A.??
anyway.
I would stop talking to her for a while. It's really hard, but just force yourself not to talk to her when you get the urge. I'm going through the exact same thing right now. It's so incredibly hard. After time goes by you won't think about her as much. If you still want to be friends later, then she can wait until you get over her. If not, then I would just try to move on. Keep yourself busy with friends and work.
2007-02-07 19:48:24 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she's trouble. She broke up with you. Then she hates second bf and she is super mad at him so she stoops to diggin it up with you, someone that she thinks will take her back to make the other bf jealous. Lose her number. She is in the throws of a temper tantrum and you cant trust anything she does or says right now. She needs to grow up a bit. You sound like you have a good head on your shoulders. Don't get hooked into whatever nonsense she is trying to contrive.
2016-05-24 05:58:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's with someone else. If you keep doing that she'll think ur stalking her. Just write her a letter, tell her off or perhaps in an assertive nonagressive manner and don't call her again. find someone new.
you can't argue w/a letter
2007-02-07 19:40:12 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because shes your EX for a reason
2007-02-07 19:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by katnap20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always ends in fight becoz she is ur ex girlfriend,ur past(or better 2 say u r her past)so just forget her.B in present
2007-02-07 19:40:28 · answer #6 · answered by Sania 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!!!!!!!!!!! You can not make someone love you. If she doesn't love you how are you supposed to make her? and do you want to someone to love you that doesn't want to? I know it hurts, it happened to me, but you need to move on, you will get better but stop calling her! the pain and feelings will go away.
2007-02-07 19:37:15 · answer #7 · answered by yaabro 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because she is your EX girlfriend....STOP CALLING HER! Move on with your life and make yourself happy for once...she obviously was not good for you when she was yours so let some other jerk suffer a fate worse than yours and get away from her! or seek anger management therapy.
2007-02-07 19:33:39 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its probably too late for you to try to win her back now that she has another man. i would say moving on is the best idea, there are plenty of women there you just have to search
2007-02-07 19:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bro because u borke up with her and u know she will be doing what you she was doing with u to another dude except yourself... that is why ur hurt... !!! she is an EX!!! save urself heartache and move on....
2007-02-07 19:30:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋