2007-02-07 19:17:55 · 10 answers · asked by kuti 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't forget them...if they are that hard to forget they must have ment somethiin to you...you dont have to forget to move on...
2007-02-07 19:22:24 · answer #1 · answered by Amy Hizzle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I could tell you. However, based on experience, do not make a conscious effort to forget because it doesn't work. Try out new activities. Meet new people and do not let yourself have the time to think of that person. Sometimes, yes, you can give in. Maybe, on the initial part, allocate the most an hour for that person. During those times, cry if you must. Forgetting is difficult, but, it also signifies a new beginning. You are stronger than you can possibly imagine. Have faith.
2007-02-07 19:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by counterculturalist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well the fastest way is to replace it with someone but THAT'S UNFAIR. for the both of you.Its hard to forget someone especially if you love them and more so if you parted with broken hearts. here's a few suggestions.
1. Stop all communications. (yup its hard but try having a journal and reward yourself every 7 days of not IM, SMS, email, calling him)
2. enroll in strip dancing or pole dancing class. (its good for boosting your confidence)
3. get a pet.
4. volunteer into some charitable organisations.
5. Travel!!
The thing is, busy yourself and meet other people although not as a love interest but as widening your horizons and connections.
Try reading its called break up because its already broken. or go to their website.
2007-02-07 19:34:16 · answer #3 · answered by Pensive heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
video games! when i broke up with my bf from 4 years i was broken. my cousin ( a guy) told me the way to do it is through some type of video gamming system. i bought a ps2 and play it when ever i think about him. i like to play all the grand theft auto games, scarface... any thing with killing! lol ! it helps you get your mind off of him. or u could try a different hobby if your not into staring at a tv for hours.
2007-02-07 19:31:44 · answer #4 · answered by babycakes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need tips buddy.,whats inside your mind will not erasable. its not easy to forget..,right,,just try to have a substitution, make yourself busy. get interested on things which make yourself feel relief. don't push yourself to forget him/her let the time forget the passed. just be yourself, dont bother yourself on this problem..,your show must go on..ok ''yeah
2007-02-07 19:34:50 · answer #5 · answered by saintprince 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. consider that fellow worthless
2. Think that you have been saved from his clutches
3. Discard all the remeberance ( things that he gave you etc)
4. Seek a better person and think about him all the time
2007-02-07 19:23:18 · answer #6 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do Meditation and leave everything on to time b'coz time is the greatest healer believe me it has worked for me. Life doest not stop for anybody's absence in your life one day you will lose the dearest to you so prepare your self to face everything in your life boldly.
2007-02-07 19:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by ukriti 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for the an other person who suits your temperaments and having a common thinking.
2007-02-07 19:24:54 · answer #8 · answered by ASAD J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Replacing them with someone more memerable.
2007-02-07 19:20:59 · answer #9 · answered by ztns9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pick an argument with them and you won't like them after :)
2007-02-07 19:22:30 · answer #10 · answered by cutiepieaww 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋