hi i'm 42 and my hubby is 32 i don't want the fizz to go out of our 12 year marriage any ideas to help me keep the fizz as he doesn't always want to have fun in the bedroom anymore PLEASE HELP
2007-02-07 19:36:38 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Next time you get ready to go out such as to eat or shopping etc. if you have on a dress or skirt leave your underwear at home and just as you get to where you are going tell him then look out
2007-02-07 20:31:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We as people go through stages and he may be going through one. It doesn't mean he doesn't love you any less. It's not all about sex in a marriage, but how you treat each other, with respect. I feel that one of the most important things you can do is to NEVER say no when he's in the "mood". But if he's not when you want to be, maybe you can start doing stuff like watching adult movies together, study books or online about different sex tricks and positions to do next time you do make love, make certain days "special"...like wearing perfume and a sexy nighty for him and telling him that you love him and if he doesn't want to make love to you, it's OK, you just want to cuddle. By saying that to him, he won't feel pressure that he has to make love to you, but you know what happens when you cuddle and start to caress each other ; )
2007-02-08 04:30:55 · answer #2 · answered by peachesncream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As crazy as it sounds, it's not always supposed to be fun in the bedroom. That puts a lot of pressure on us. The next time you feel like skipping a night, tell him "Let's not have sex tonight but I want you to think up all the positions/sexy extras you want for tomorrow night." He'll be thinking about you all day.
2007-02-08 03:47:47 · answer #3 · answered by jax0817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your tricks in doing sex. even me, i don't eat bread always for 12 years. i change it every day.
2007-02-08 04:14:40 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋