Well ppl keep sayign to leave my bf...and see if he comes back, and to see if he'll start being a better bf etc.. if he were to get better./...and start to be nice...would he turn back to the old him in no time?? would it be a waste of my time??
2007-02-07 19:24:34 · 21 answers · asked by Red_lipstick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't forget that one of the possible results of that "test" is him just leaving you alone and never coming back to you.
2007-02-07 19:28:52 · answer #1 · answered by Victory 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read the letter twice--and it still doesn't make much sense--but the idea I get is for you to see if leaving a guy to see if he will change, will do any good?? It is rather a silly waste of time....I don't know what the problems are but you will NOT get a change by leaving him---you have a better chance of getting struck by lightning---if he's no good, leave and get away--then find a nice guy who is mature and respectful. Stop playing games and accepting anything less than a nice relationship in which you are happy. I guess your friends mean well---but the whole idea is a waste of time-----can't you see that??Good luck
2007-02-07 19:37:52 · answer #2 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay. If he's not being nice to you, and not treating you right. Yes leave him, but don't you dare take him back.
First off, leaving him as a test, is very childish. It's not fair to you or him.
If he's such a jerk, and needs to be changed, but isn't interested in changing, then you need to just flat out leave him. Move on, and find someone who will treat you right without the threat of you leaving him.
does that make sense?
2007-02-07 20:08:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's being wrong to you in the first place, you should leave him. And if he does want to come back, make him prove himself to you. DONT just take him back the first week or nothing will change. And let it be known that if and when you do take him back that he either treats you how you think you should be treated or he should just turn around and kick some rocks. ;)
2007-02-07 19:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by Sigi Rocks 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See if you do not use a knife regularly it would rust. Similarly if you do not be with your boyfriend the love between you will be diminished and may vanish altogether and he coming back to you will be a big question mark. There are only two options to you 1 . tell him how you want him to be and see if he is changing and 2. just leave him and find another one.
2007-02-07 19:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by ssmindia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! he will! face it, when u "leave" yr bf just to trick him, he will instantly feel depressed andhe will start thinking where did he go wrong and he will mend things, the bad part abt this is it happens in a short period of time, thus it will all turn back to de same in no time. For him to behave better u should plan something that will change him slowly, step by step. not instantly...
2007-02-07 19:30:33 · answer #6 · answered by C-va™ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That is a dumb game, if he is not treating you right now if you take him back after letting him go he will probably act worse the second time. I have had exes come crawling back and by the time they get their head straight I've moved on to someone else that is worth it for now. MOVE ON!!
2007-02-07 19:30:34 · answer #7 · answered by ztns9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he may or may not thats too blase' of a question. He may eventually over time turn back into an ******* or whatever the reason you left him was, but i mean, its worth a chance. if someone loves you they should be willing to work with you. tell him if he goes back to being how you didnt like him or w.e , how you feel, explain how you see things from your perspective. I dont think he will go back to how you guys were, but then again i dont know your specific scenario. i say test him. talk to him. communicate. if it doesnt work out, kick him to the curb
2007-02-07 19:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by tasty little crackers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes he would. im in the same situation right now. i broke up with my bf a couple of months ago cuz i couldnt stand the way he was treating me. when he told me that he changed and he did show that he changed, i started dating him again. but 2 weeks after we got back together he was up to his old ways again. and it just hurt me so much more that someone that i loved wouldnt do that to save our relationship. i keep telling myself its gonna get better, but it never does. i think ur wasting your time. believe me, i would know. i've cried myself to sleep one too many times over this. just move on
2007-02-07 19:29:26 · answer #9 · answered by jane 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't treat you right, why do you want him? And many of women have thought of the same thing. It just all adds up to games. That is why men and women have problems. Just tell him what he is doing wrong to you. If he doesn't want to change, leave him for good.
2007-02-07 19:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by Brown-eyed girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋