there are soooooo many people who gossip about me in school...i dont know what have i done to them...to be frank,i dont even know them...they have influenced my good friends too..what should i do?
2007-02-07 18:42:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You should start cool rumors about yourself ;)
2007-02-07 18:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by SadDad07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OH wow I had this happen to me twice in my high school experiance its not a good feeling your afraid to go to school and you just wish things would go back to normal (and I promise you it will) They are just mean decietful people that take pleasure in making other peoples lives miserable. Just one wrong step on your part like look at them they will take it personally they just have nothing better to do than pick out one person they think is weak. Its sad b/c my friends all believed that one person spreading the lies friends don't leave you when your down I know you have some true friends out there still even those you may not have talked with in a while use their help and support and ignore them if they start to harass you then get as much evidence as you can people won't help and sometimes peer mediating isn't the thing they LIE about the situation and then make things even worse you need to get evidence that they are doing this and scare them into getting expelled that won't look good on their perfect little records.
If you don't have any good friends to help you out then I suggest making new friends go to a club or something that these people don't have any influence on I'm sure there are people out there who don't like them all to much anyways. And there are many people willing to accept you I promise. Good luck and don't let them push you around
2007-02-08 02:51:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jess_Eka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
b strong buddy, dnt feel letdown by ppl who gossip abt u and frnds who r influenced by others are not worthy of yr freindship.
2007-02-08 03:07:41 · answer #3 · answered by dak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋