Is it good to stay in a mutually fulfilling relationship for the fun of it, when I know that I can not be with her? Should I at least tell her that it won't last?
2007-02-07 19:07:50 · 19 answers · asked by bloodoftheconquered 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Like pulling the wings off flies too? Of course you should either end it or at least let her know. The longer you wait, the more you are torturing her.
2007-02-07 19:11:51 · answer #1 · answered by Jon A 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with this girl. Avoid hurting people's feelings when you can. Remember, what goes around comes around. Just keep in mind that she feels and has emotions just like you do. Be honest. Don't pursue something that you know you cannot complete. If both of you are taking a Chance, then go right ahead but if you don't have the desire to fight for her, tell her now.
2007-02-08 03:34:24 · answer #2 · answered by Nats 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i dont know why it won't last. you did not say. But as long as you go into the relationship with your eyes open, and she know why it won't last and you guys just want to have fun, than that cool, but remember people do fall in love, so you might have to pull out sooner than you think.
2007-02-08 03:15:15 · answer #3 · answered by I am women 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you know the relationship will not last then you should most definitely inform her. If she feels the same way and wants to just ride it out til the end then rock on. But she should most definitely be given the choice.
2007-02-08 03:12:53 · answer #4 · answered by mccmb02 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you be in the relationship? Absolutely. Should you? Nope. Do you tell her? Yep. Come on man we have enough of us out hear dogging these females, You say you know you can't be with her so let her be. Give her the opportunity to find someone who wants and can be with her.
2007-02-08 03:17:36 · answer #5 · answered by egreen3rd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For the sake of both of you, DO NOT stay in a relationship just to be in a relationship...it is not fair to either of you. The best thing to do is tell her it is not going to work out...just be honest.
2007-02-08 03:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by Jane_Doe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All relationships add to us, to who we are and who we become. No relationship is a waste of time. If marriage is an ultimate goal then both should be aware of the score.
2007-02-08 03:18:27 · answer #7 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will be just wasting time..when you could be looking for something that is real..the other person may care and will be hurt, if you stay with the relationship, they will think you care...
2007-02-08 03:13:41 · answer #8 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok,
you should be honest to her.
Because later on, it will become worst than now.
If you are really sure, then go ahead and tell her.
Don't forget to tell your reasons.
If you are not so sure about it, think back what have you and your gf/bf done...
and do the judgement
2007-02-08 03:20:33 · answer #9 · answered by syasya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if you know it wont last you should talk to her about it because you dont want her to start planning your wedding (all girls do it when they really like a guy) and you think of her as something diff. Hope its not too late you should've ahd this conversation already.
2007-02-08 03:14:08 · answer #10 · answered by ztns9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋