I met a girl 10 moths ago and after that we beacame best frnd. she is so sweet n caring, i dont know when i fall in love wit her and one day i proposed her she was not able decide and confused after one month she said yes we had a nice time n speak to each other dailly for sevral hours after that some time we had fights too but as time passed later on we had lots of fights,till now we had lots of misunderstanding between us most of the things were going wrong. one day she met with accident got ligament problem in her knee n she said to me she dont want to spoil my life n even she dont believe in love now n she dont love me anymore she just want to be my frnd only.i don want to lose her i lost my love so dont want to lose her frndship now we r frnds but i still love her.i just want to know why do this happened to me i know there must be something wrong with me only but now she is happy and even we dont fight.somebody would tell me wat was wrong with us? what happened?
2007-02-07 19:05:33 · 8 answers · asked by Idiot 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YA. Actually where there is more love then there will be fights she told u that bcoz in future if u marry her people may tease or rag u that u r wife cant walk properly...etc., like that they may find mistakes in her so she dont want u to face that situation so she moved far from u
Pls read the below mentioned story then u can understand
2007-02-07 19:39:17 · answer #1 · answered by sneha y 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bad luck, that's what. I understand how hard it must be to go through that. But you need to TRY to move on. If you continue like this, it WILL ruin things. Saying you still love her when it's clearly over is going to scare her away.
This sort of thing happens. There ARE other girls out there. Sweet, caring, funny. You just aren't ready to met that special one just yet.
You can't completely control these things. It's a scary thought, but true. She probably wasn't ready for that kind of commitment. Or perhaps realized her feelings for you weren't as strong. Whatever the case. It's over now. I'm sorry you have to go through this. But I think you should instead, take in what you've learned about relationships. Become wiser from this painful experience, and move on.
It's the healthiest thing you can do.
It'll hurt but, not forever. I always say this in this situation
"You're at the pool right now. Last time you went the water was FREEZING. You DON'T know if it'll be too cold this time, but you'll never know unless you jump in. If it's too cold, you have a choice, you can get out, and be even colder, or you can give your body a chance to adjust, and keep on swimming. It's up to you"
I hope you can one day move on and find that girl out there meant for you.
No one can really explain what happened, except for you and her.
But my advice, let it be.
Peace and luck
Rom
2007-02-08 03:53:38 · answer #2 · answered by Rin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feelings of love have no right or wrong. My guess is that she may never have actually had feelings of romantic love for you to begin with. She may have made a mistake and realized it later. Either way, all that matters is that she doesn't want that kind of relationship with you and so you need to move past it. If all you did was fight then why would you hold onto something like that anyway? Feeling love doesn't mean that you need to have that person in your life. Love is a good thing tho. Go on, love some more.
2007-02-08 03:15:32 · answer #3 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing happened to love. Its there always. It has to be nurtured and firedup. Sometimes, like a coal fire, ash builds up and closes the fire. It doesn't mean it is dead. It you blow away the ash, you can still see the red hot coals.
Give her attention through your friendship. Take care of her lovingly. Give her the best you can. Win her love by your steadfast love and care. Nothing is wrong. Your girl is feeling guilty because of her injury. Take her to good doctors. Help her to get over her injury and self esteem. Nothing is lost. Give time to each other and space for each others freedom. Show her your love but don't impose yourself on her. Give her space and her freedom. She will get back to you soon. Good luck.
2007-02-08 03:21:37 · answer #4 · answered by sunilbernard 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well after reading your episode i think there might be 2 reasons for this
1) She does not love you and only considers you as a friend.
2) She loves you but is worried since she has ligament problem sh does not want to be a burden on you.
What you need do to is to talk to her when the time is right and remember love is not said its felt.
god bless you both
2007-02-08 04:35:20 · answer #5 · answered by jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, i think there is a lot of confusion between you people..why don't you just sit with her and talk??i just wanna say that why should you allow any confusion to crop up in between??be confident and go..talk with her..express your emotions to her friend..tell that you really feel for her..clear up her all confusion and misunderstandings...give her some time to think..convince her that you are always there for her..that you love her so much..let her decide..also assure her that even if she says no to you, you will always remain her friend...and whatever she decides, respect her decision...i think she will understand your feelings..
good luck sir..
2007-02-08 03:19:22 · answer #6 · answered by ruprekhawati 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
a relationship is between two person, you shld give and take. if you always take and never give then you'll end up losing this relationship
2007-02-08 03:10:03 · answer #7 · answered by ahleks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2007-02-08 03:18:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋