Family & Relationships - 6 February 2007

I'm currently studying in high school, and i really like this girl who's in all of my classes. she's fairly popular, and she's perfect and everything. I'm sort of in the middle class. She talks to me sometimes, but not very often. How do i get this girl to like me?

2007-02-06 08:27:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So I have a "friend" who I am totally attracted to. Problem is this: He is married but seperated and going through a divorce and he is not ready for a relationship. (BTW - we met after they split) He is very shy but we have talked openly about this topic because he is also attracted to me. I guess the problem is that we have kissed a number of times and came close to things going too far however when we talk about a relationship he tells me he's not ready. I can understand so I have backed off and told him that when he's ready he knows how to find me. So I'm doing ok with going on with my life until he shows up at my house about once a week. Now nothing is happening when he comes over weekly (we keep our distance and behaive friendly) but its so obvious he (and I) want more. At this point I am not pushing anything and the ball is in his court if he wants to do anything. Its just difficult to see him because it just resurfaces my feelings for him. My question is just for advice. thanks

2007-02-06 08:26:25 · 3 answers · asked by My Dog Sawyer 2 in Singles & Dating

I am engaged to her ex husband. She left him, and divorced him. What is her problem and what can I do about it?

2007-02-06 08:26:13 · 11 answers · asked by Hippie Girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have seen this guy i really like who i would love to start talking to and maybe ask out for a coffee, however, i've never had a boyfriend before as i'm 16 and i always thought that love would come to me and that i should wait for a guy to ask me out. Therefore, i've no idea what is best to do...what do you think? :-)

2007-02-06 08:26:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom has changed in the past 7 years. she was a recovering alcoholic, great job, very professional &family oriented for years, well in the past 7 she started drinking again got in2 several drunken car accidents, went on probation, & now 4 the last one that she amazingly survived she might get jail time. well my step father who is a saint & has been with us 4ever (hes the reason she got clean in the 1st place) always stands by her & they fight all the time but still he stands by probably 4 my 13 year old sister, well he had a heart attack recently & the night he came hoem from the hospital my mom goes to AA & then out w/ her BIKER friends til after midnight & said she needed 2 relieve stress. HUH!! so needless 2 say the woman i once looked up to & admired has gone 2 far & i wrote her the nastiest (yet loving if that makes sense) letter telling her shes destroying the family!! well she hasnt talked 2 me since i gave it 2 her & now i regret it. did i do the right thing?

2007-02-06 08:25:52 · 9 answers · asked by toolate 3 in Family

My girlfriend has been seeing (sleeping with) a guy for over 2 years. He tells her everything she wants to hear. He has never been her boyfriend, but has been someone elses when he was with her. He told her if the other girl was gone it would be only her. He broke it off and then decide to be single. He was seeing my friend and at least 2 other girls, along with the ex. I never liked him, I knew what kind of guy he was, but I thought she would see it herself. She finally did, after going back and forth and believing his lies for over 2 years. I was so happy it was finally going to end. She knew the truth and I was right all along. She said she was done for the 100th time. I found out a few days ago she was with him, even though he is back with the ex. She says she can't be without him and I am so tired of listening to her whine about this guy it makes me sick. She has always had a lot of drama in her life and I'm starting to think she enjoys it.

2007-02-06 08:25:45 · 3 answers · asked by grdangel 4 in Friends

2007-02-06 08:25:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am 15 and a Sophmore in High School. i like one of my friends i don't know if he likes me i catch him staring at me sometimes and when he sees i notice he continues to stare at me when i ask him why he is staring at me he just keeps staring at me and say say just because. one day on my bus i closed my eyes and when i opened my eyes he was looking over the seat and he told me he was just seeing if i was awake, but i don't know. also when this guy i used to like purposly hurt me he treatened to beat him up for me he is always playfully picking on me about stuff like he tells me i am mean and we will spend like 10 min playfully arguing about it then sometimes he touches me on the arm or forehead. i really like him but i do not want to mess up our friendship if he dosen't like me also he may not like me becasue about a month ago he broke up with his girlfriend then asked antother girl out if he liked me wouldn't he ask me out they are still dating

2007-02-06 08:25:15 · 2 answers · asked by ihearthim 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 08:25:07 · 8 answers · asked by MRS. EDWARD FINEX 1 AND ONLY!!!! 1 in Singles & Dating

If you've not spoken to your close female friend for 2 months and when ur mate mentions YOUR NAME and suggests everyone meets up and her REACTION is:

She just goes quiet, he asks her again,mentioning my name and all she says is NO-her mood changed completly after my name was mentioned.She doesn't say anything else until the topic changed.

MEANING?What is she possibly feeling?

All advice appreciated.......

We had a falling out-said I needed time out(we weren't a couple,just got to close) I've apologised numerous times 1 month ago-shes still ignoring me.

2007-02-06 08:24:48 · 4 answers · asked by Machine 3 in Friends

My X Husband is tired to a father for are kids, he has a new girlfriend that has 3 kids that need a father so he going to be their's but he does want to no more right for are kids and does want to pay child support, he wants the kids not to have his last name. Do me I really don't care if he there for my kids. But i still need help with my money issues to raise my kids. Can i still get Child Support from him? what should I do?

2007-02-06 08:24:46 · 12 answers · asked by X-Tina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a wierd question i know but you can guess why im asking it. please give me good answers back thanks alot to everyone who does xxx

2007-02-06 08:24:32 · 14 answers · asked by wizzybeth18 3 in Singles & Dating

a girl start to date

2007-02-06 08:23:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my fiance and i really love to go hiking at the state parks near us. our favorite ones are Treman Park http://www.cs.cornell.edu/~dmitriev/photo_album/at_cornell/robert_treman/jpg_Z_PICT0125.htm

(piccy of my favortie part) and Toughannock Park http://www.taughannock.com/photo1.html (overall piccy of the falls)and we were maybe thinking of having our wedding at one of them, since it would be cheaper than a lot of other places (as much as i love some of the castels i've found, they're rreally expensive!!). would most people think this is really weird? and is this a good idea? would you go to a wedding at a state park? do they even allow weddings at state parks? or do you think it'd be too awkward for guests, especially since ours is a medieval theme, and even i feel silly wearing a costume not at the Ren fair. does anyone know of any other outdoor places, maybe some gardens or smoething in NY that aren't really expensive but would make a pretty place for a wedding?

2007-02-06 08:22:39 · 20 answers · asked by Duelen 4 in Weddings

I was recently involved with a man who strongly persued me. We are both divorced. I have been for a year and a half but he has only been divorced for a few months. I was unavailable in the beginning and he was aware that we could only be friends. He kept insisting I give him a chance and assured me I wouldn't be disappointed. We began to talk reguarly and he expressed to me how much he was beginning to care about me. He said all the right things I wanted to hear so of course I gave in. I really started to like him alot and wanted to develop a relationship with him. When he realized I was beginning to have those type of feelings he quickly pulled away. He stopped showing interest and didn't call near as often. He said he decided he wasn't ready for a relationship yet and gave me the "it's not you it's me" line. Now he completely ignores my messages and won't even respond to my texts when I send them. What could I have done to make him feel this way???

2007-02-06 08:22:33 · 15 answers · asked by Missy 1 in Singles & Dating

Im making him a basket of his faviorte sweets, and ive made him a card.
Were making gifts to avoid spending money, this means so much more.

2007-02-06 08:22:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my fiance and i are planning to have a money tree for our wedding. i have no idea what it looks like. does it have to be fancy?

2007-02-06 08:21:29 · 6 answers · asked by Chelsea's Momi 3 in Weddings

Ok, I have a couple of questions. About 12-13 years ago my father commited suicide(I was 9 years old). My mother had told me that he had a car accident to protect me from the truth but I overheard her on several phone calls that he had committed suicide so I have known for quite some time(I'm 22 now). I have never wanted to know exactly HOW he did it because I am afraid mental images and horrible nightmares will follow my finding out. I had a dream last night and in that dream someone told me how he did it and now it sparks my curiosity, I wonder if my dream was telling me the truth. My mother is no longer a part of my life and I can't bring myself to ask my other family members so my question is, if I obtain my fathers death certificate will it say how he did it? Also, where do I go to purchase a copy? I'd rather not do it online so do I go to city hall?

2007-02-06 08:21:05 · 5 answers · asked by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 in Family

On a regular basis, or are you both guilty of it? And if so is that acceptable to you?

2007-02-06 08:20:06 · 21 answers · asked by mizz.squitz 2 in Marriage & Divorce

if they had been with the girl for a year and had sex rarely but lost their virginity together do you think he will always love her or would he move on once he fell in love and got married??

2007-02-06 08:20:03 · 23 answers · asked by Ambra D 1 in Singles & Dating

ok,aim engaged,i love my bf,but a meet this guy on myspace,and some times we talk on the phone and instant messeges, he always flirt with me, and i always told him since the beggining my situation,i never hide anything ,but he keeps flirting with me,and i really like him as a friend,but he keeps saying that he likes me and stuff. i can just not talk to him ever again,but i enjoy talking to him.any smart sugestions? what should i do?

2007-02-06 08:19:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ok s here's the deal..terrence is the guy i've been dealing with for 2 years (but he's not my boyfriend) I really love him, but he's always telling me he's not ready for a relationship. But i contine to make him a priority ( i don't know why) we are in real deep. But recently I Finally sarted talking to a guy named Joe...we are so much a like, he's like the male version of myself...I like him alot, But I love Terrence, should I cut Terrence off for good or not? I mean Terrence been telling that he is no ready, but I think it is b/c he knows I am very interested in Joe now...I dunno what to do? I need advice...HELP!!!

2007-02-06 08:19:22 · 10 answers · asked by jusbc7 1 in Singles & Dating

I know, right now, goodbye everyone! Thank you for your answers to my questions and please wish me luck in my upcoming"new" life. I have a laptop(coming tommorow) and Im going to be invisible to everyone :( New email address, no clicking on links, you know all that stuff to keep private. Never revisiting old emails, all that security stuff. So Im here to say goodbye and I will miss you, but my time has ran out, actually on every level. Time for me to grow up and be an adult. Somehow this is a way of letting go and moving forward, practice what I preach. Sometimes true love isn't good enough, life isn't fair in so many ways as I have experienced and currently am. I just pray for all good things to happen to all of you and for me. I will miss you...all.

2007-02-06 08:19:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is this boy who likes me, but he doesnt know that i know. i'm not sure who i like but i dont feel a special way for him. should i go out with him even if i dont like him? im confused. please help me.

2007-02-06 08:18:11 · 21 answers · asked by soccer allie <3 3 in Singles & Dating

" Anything noble is as difficult as it is rare ?" (Spinoza, I think)

2007-02-06 08:17:10 · 9 answers · asked by Caysie101 5 in Singles & Dating

the topic is so awkward, i have no idea how to bring it up.

2007-02-06 08:17:03 · 31 answers · asked by madamekika 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I dont know what it is, but every chance a women gets she will start some sort of drama over something really small.

And then women also like to play little mind games with you as part of the fun of starting a new relationship like the "chase" ya thats fun. I enjoy that about as much as a kick in the balls.

2007-02-06 08:16:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband and i were seperated for 2 months and 2 weeks ago we decided to try and work on things. I am 9 months pregnant and he wants to be there for me and the baby the problem is is that we are not how we used to be. We have sex but it seems emotionless. we don't kiss just hug and he tells me often that he thinks we are not going to work out. i love him with all my heart but should i stay with someone like this? I really want us to work out but he is verbably abusive and i don't think he loves me any more. I want our family to work out. what should i do?

2007-02-06 08:16:42 · 13 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What place would you suggest for a 24 year old girl on her first date. How do I do things like talk or something because Im kind of shy.

2007-02-06 08:16:40 · 2 answers · asked by anne marie f 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you do to them?

2007-02-06 08:16:23 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships