there is this boy who likes me, but he doesnt know that i know. i'm not sure who i like but i dont feel a special way for him. should i go out with him even if i dont like him? im confused. please help me.
2007-02-06 08:18:11 · 21 answers · asked by soccer allie <3 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dont go out with him. I have a better suggestion just be friends with him. See if learning more about him will attract you in that special way. At least it will give him a chance to be with you but not with you if you know what I mean. And you both can either go on as friends or you both might decide to give it a try after learning about each other.hope this suggestion help.
2007-02-06 08:28:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, you can always give it a try. Most couples when they start off, don't like each other, but tahts because they dont know much about one another. But if u give him a try...hey, u'll never know. Mayb u two will find something in common, etc. This is a common "problem", it happened to me may times b4. Its like the case of not knowing someone, but u hate them...that doesnt make any sense to me. Get to know the guy by goin out with him, b4 u say u dont like him. If things dont work out, well, u can always break up!lol. hope this helps.
2007-02-06 16:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by GucciBoi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's no harm in going out with him, and you may find you like him more once you get to know him. I think girls sometimes need a bit more time than guys do to be sure how they feel about a guy. Just don't lead him on, like keep going out with him, if you don't like him.
2007-02-06 16:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by Deborah C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes... go out with him because if you dont then you may wonder what your life could have been like if you did. Who knows, after the date, you might like him! Or at least begin to develop feelings for him.
2007-02-06 16:22:12 · answer #4 · answered by Sexxi~Hot~Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go out with him if you dont like him. just tell him nicely. that you dont like him in that way. and you want him to find someone that likes him the same way he likes you. and say you two could be friends and say if you dont want to. you understand. theres no way to really put it because in any way.. it tells the same hurtful thing. but if you go out with him and he finds out later that you didnt really like him. it will hurt him more than it would if you just tell him you dont like him in that way.
2007-02-06 16:26:01 · answer #5 · answered by Jewelz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
??? baby girl, don't do anything that you don't want to do. so what if a boy likes you. if you don't feel the same, then why would you want to lead him on or waste your time. baby girl, just go out and have fun with your friends.
2007-02-06 16:23:35 · answer #6 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its best to think things threw but if you want to see what will happen then go for it. Always know what your getting into cause you might not get back out.
2007-02-06 16:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you like him? Maybe once you got to know him he'll start looking better to you.? I went out with a guy I didn't particularly like...I wish I hadn't. Maybe you should go with your gut instincts. One thing you don't want to do is lead them on. Don't do it if you really don't want to.
2007-02-06 16:25:47 · answer #8 · answered by Becky F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you both have the same objective with the date. Its easy to have differnt kinds of realtionships:
- Fun one
- Love ones
- S-x ones
Just have fun
2007-02-06 16:22:12 · answer #9 · answered by Boatman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure. Give it a try you never know what might develop :) Worth a shot
2007-02-06 16:22:29 · answer #10 · answered by tuxgal3 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋