I'm currently studying in high school, and i really like this girl who's in all of my classes. she's fairly popular, and she's perfect and everything. I'm sort of in the middle class. She talks to me sometimes, but not very often. How do i get this girl to like me?
2007-02-06 08:27:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
act like urself. take it from me, im a girl and girls hate guys that arent themselves and lie just to impress the girl. the girl might like that u tried to impress her, but she might get angry that u werent honest with her. so be urself, and maybe U try talkin to her. who cares wat her friends think? if she likes u, then she wouldn't care what her friends think cuz ur happy & shes happy!
2007-02-06 08:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by Hugs & Kisses 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bro, let me tell u striagth up. All the girsl liek the muscular look, so u've gotta be attractive to th eye(physically). I know form personal experience. B4 i used to be overweight, but since i started pumpin iron, all the ladies have been noticin' me in the hall ways of school. Girls love to bs and say they go for guys with the personality, but thats a lie. Another 1 they like to say is to be urself-NOOO. Thats a complete lie!Think bout it, if ur a geek(im not sayin u are man, im just givin an example), and u were to act like urself...do u think u'll get her?
So from personal experience, i know the girls all come when they see a hot guy, and hottness is determined by how mucular u are. Seriously...so start pumpin!!!!!
2007-02-06 16:35:44 · answer #2 · answered by GucciBoi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
start off small.... say "walk with me to the library, I have to drop off some books" (make sure you have books to drop off). This way you can talk to her... make sure you don't do all the talking... but its ok if she does...
In a few days or so... say "come with me to the store, I wanna buy a pair of sneakers, I could use a second opinion"... Then go to the store! again, talk,,,, pick up some McDonalds..... keep talking..... but again, ask her questions so she talks more than you..
Finally, the next week... Say" Lets of check out a movie", then take her to one!
The idea is if you rush her,,, you will catch her off guard, and she will turn you down fast, even if she would hang with you...
You have to take it slow....wait a few days between, asking her to go places with you...
And always act like you have other things you are thinking about... don't always focus on her... she could get freaked out...
Before you know it,,,, she will always be thinking about what are you gonna do next!....
Take your time.... Have confidence in yourself....
2007-02-06 16:38:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To catch this girls eye, you should just be yourself and be patient because eventually if shes worth it and is right for you, shell come around. Most girls keep quiet about who they like anyways, dont be a stalker or anything but you might want to drop a few hints too just to get her attention. Whatever you do dont change who you are for this girl, being yourself is always first in finding someone right for you.
2007-02-06 16:33:47 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't act any different than you are - just be yourself. Sometimes the harder a person tries to get others to like him, the more others distance themselves. Plus, if you act different than your real self then she will eventually figure this out and may not like the real you. Talking to her is certainly a way to let you know your'e interested but don't change who you are. If she doesn't like your character then it wasn't meant to be, but you'll never know until you pursue her.
2007-02-06 16:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a creative way to show her who you are. One of the previos answers someone said was to "be mean to her," that will definately get you noticed, if you are a clever person you could use that advice and when she retorts with something like 'why did you say that?' you could say something like ' i didn't mean mean what i said, I just wanted you to notice me, i like you.'
As a female myself I would find that intriguing and cute.
2007-02-06 16:35:08 · answer #6 · answered by Selina 93os 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just keep in mind if you try to hard you will look desperate and you do not want that, open up more ,tell her you would like to get to know her more show interest in everything she says just ask her out if she says yes then great if she says no then you will at least know and stop wasting your time
2007-02-06 16:36:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To be honest you shouldn't have to get someone to like you, if she sees you as a nice person and find you attractive then she will find a way to holla at you. Most important just be yourself.
2007-02-06 16:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by BabyGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stalk her, No just kidding. Start talking to her find out what she likes and dislikes.
2007-02-06 16:31:16 · answer #9 · answered by ramblin guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be mean to her it always works if she is a popular chick and in the in crowd
2007-02-06 16:30:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋