ok,aim engaged,i love my bf,but a meet this guy on myspace,and some times we talk on the phone and instant messeges, he always flirt with me, and i always told him since the beggining my situation,i never hide anything ,but he keeps flirting with me,and i really like him as a friend,but he keeps saying that he likes me and stuff. i can just not talk to him ever again,but i enjoy talking to him.any smart sugestions? what should i do?
2007-02-06 08:19:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
u have to say good bye to him, if u like to or not because it could a sex offender and wat is better, keep talking to him and being raped and maybe killed or just forgetting about it. I was in the same situation, but i chose to lose him, and u kno wat, i forgot all about it. trust me on this one, thats a really bad sign that he is flirting with you. you will meet other guys in the future.
2007-02-06 08:35:20 · answer #1 · answered by carcrash1992 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it's obvious you're not ready to be married. The fact that you're still calling your fiance your boyfriend is one thing, and the fact that you continue to talk to this guy even though you know you have someone else. Why should he stop saying he likes you when you keep giving him leadway? Where's your boyfriend when you're doing all this? You should be talking to him. You should enjoy talking to your fiance and not this other guy. Your fiance isn't the one for you and you'll only hurt him more if you continue to let the engagement go on. If you can't deal with not talking to other men now, then you won't once you're married and it'll end badly. Let him go you're wasting his time. Good luck hon!
2007-02-06 16:43:51 · answer #2 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's cheating. If you love your boyfriend stop talking and flirting with other guys, if your not sure whether you love him or not then call off the engagement, it isnt fair for you to drag him along making him think that everything is fine when it isnt! You need to be sure of what you are doing and right now it doesnt seem that you are.
2007-02-06 16:29:32 · answer #3 · answered by Isabella's Mommy Expecting #2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think about how you would feel if it was your fiance talking to someone else on line. Would you like it if he was flirting with someone else on line or would you consider it cheating? Do you think he would consider it cheating. Does your fiance know about it. If you feel guilty about then you probably are cheating. Personally I consider it cheating. If you are in a serious relationship you shouldn't flirt with other people. Whether it is in person or over the internet. Maybe you aren't ready to be engaged.
2007-02-06 16:29:16 · answer #4 · answered by kat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since you told him that you were engaged to be married to someone then i don't think it is cheating but you need to give him an ultamatum. this would be what i would tell him. either he needs to quit flirting and just accept being friends or you two are not going to be able to communicate anymore. this way you are putting the choice in his hands and it is not so hard for you. hope this helps. good luck.
2007-02-06 16:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are cheating. Stop talking to him and get marry already.
2007-02-06 16:28:15 · answer #6 · answered by my alias 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not really cheating but you still shouldn't be like that cuase it might lead to cheating.
2007-02-06 16:29:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was with you that would be cheating
2007-02-06 16:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by badboybruce1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋