how do you tell you parents that you are dating a guy?

Question

the topic is so awkward, i have no idea how to bring it up.

Answer 1

Just say I've met a special guy and we're dating.

Answer 2

I've been through this before, this is what I would do and have done....see if you like this =) wait until your relationship is stable and that you both really like each other and will be comfortable meeting each other's parents. I say this because once you mention him; they're going to want to meet him and ask questions etc...this way you'll be comfortable with him and want to be with him, and your parents will see that when they see you together. I wouldn't bring him up until you reach that point. If you're already there and still not brought it up, then give it some more time =) No need to rush into anything!

Answer 3

As a parent, the best thing to do is just be up front. Tell them you are interested in a guy and you would like to date him. This is assuming you are old enough to date. Being 15 or better, in my book, would OK to date. I have three children ages 35, 33 and 31.
Been there,,,,done that!!!!

Answer 4

the first time i dated a guy, i hid it from my parent but they eventually found out while i was on the phone with him. i got in trouble for not telling them. so i learned that it is a really good idea to tell your parents these things. tell the parent that you trust the most first, but bring it up casually, like in the car. then, let them tell the other parent without you there. hope this helped...

Answer 5

Assuming your parents expect you to be heterosexual and you're at least 18 years of age, I don't see the problem, unless "dating" in your parents' minds means "having sex". Otherwise, just mention that you've been enjoying the company of a certain fellow lately and don't even mention the word "dating". Just casually mention it and have in mind a few good things to say about him and how he makes you feel so you'll be ready when your parents start asking questions.
Good Luck!

Answer 6

Years ago, when I mentioned my boyfriend to my parents for the first time, I talked about his good qualities and character, constantly. Every time I mentioned him after that, I talked about how much of a great friend he is to me, and hinted a little at how great it would be if he and I were to be romantic partners someday. The more and more I talked, the more my folks were convinced and pleased. Now, my folks have no problem with it, the idea of me being romantically involved with me, and we're together. We've been together for 3 years, and, so far, it's great.

Just tell your folks how I told mine, mention the good things about him, and the strong relationship you have.

Good luck.

Answer 7

just say something like "well what do u think about me having a boyfriend because there is this guy and really like each other and we sortta wanna get together." They will probably apreciate the fact that u asked first and if they say no then just keep it a secret or break it up or if they do then dont tell them u were together before u asked.

Answer 8

The best way is be honest and upfront about it. Even if they don't accept it right away, they will appreciate and respect the fact that you came to them with a mature attitude and let them know yourself, and didn't let them just find out some other kind of way.

Answer 9

just tell them. Sooner or later im going to find someone i like and start dating him. and i want to be open with you and let you know whats going on with my life. and say you know whats right from wrong and no parent wants to hear your sexual active but i think telling them that your dating is a better way to go. than the alternative.

Answer 10

About the same time you two come out of the bedroom naked into the parlor only to find a family gathering is taking place,