Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

I met someone last year and I really liked him, I was crazy for him - but I was in a long term relationship so I made the choice to let it go and I didn't pursue it. I have no idea if he liked me too. However I am now single, I split up with my ex three months ago and I'm still fragile but I think about this other man all the time. I have bought a card that reminded me of him and I don't know whether to send it. I'm afraid if I don't I may miss the chance to ever see if he felt the same way, but if I do what if he didn't like me or even remember me?!

Also he was with someone else back then too. I don't see him around as we come from different areas and I don't think I will ever see him again if I don't do something - or should I just leave it to fate? Help!

2007-02-05 08:01:21 · 9 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 08:00:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the brother being 3 and the sister nearly 1 when should they stop having baths together?

2007-02-05 08:00:49 · 11 answers · asked by Legend T 2 in Family

of course in a glass house you'd feel differently.
should you feel special not everyone gets like you and your own life goes showen to every body or you should feel that you are alright in any way
could you feel safe ? happy ?

2007-02-05 08:00:31 · 4 answers · asked by Sami 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well .. this summer i met this really nice guy & i still tlk to him &we really like each other but we live almost 800miles away from each other , but we are goin to see each other in like 2 more years ... or maybe this summer we aren't sure ... i talk to him everyday , but i never get to tlk to him on the phone but i do sometimes .......should i just get over him or what ?????

2007-02-05 07:59:41 · 6 answers · asked by americanngirl328 2 in Singles & Dating

Yeah, I totally can. ;-)

2007-02-05 07:59:19 · 14 answers · asked by yumyum 6 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I have been broken up for about 4-5 months now. I moved and i have a boyfriend now. But I still cry when I think of my ex, I still miss him, I still wish he was in love with me and wanting to marry me and have my baby, I wish i could go back in time, but ive tried to avoid wishing that by dating the guy im with now. and it's not working. The worst part about it is that my bf loves me so much he could marry me but i dont feel the same say kus i still love my ex, but he doesnt know any of this. I feel so guilty for leading him on and still being in love with my ex. I dont know how to get over him!! I feel so helpless and theres nothing i can do to bring him back. How do i pass this? and feel for my bf in the way he deserves? It's so bad that when we're cuddling im wishing it was my ex and when we have sex i think of my ex etc

2007-02-05 07:59:13 · 5 answers · asked by xbinary_dreamsx 2 in Singles & Dating

kk, i never know what to get my boyfriend. i'm 15 and so is he. help me out here, i know he's probably going to get me something.

2007-02-05 07:59:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am almost 19 years old and about to finish going to school to be a Certified Nurses Assistant in march. And I want to move out of my moms house and into my boyfriends apartment about 3 hours away.... He has a really good job up there and has a job lined up for me, plus theres a really good tech school that I want to go to for my Paramedic courses... Should I go? And how should I tell my mom I want to go? I have tried talking to her about it and all she does is yell and me and tell me I am immature and that I dont know what love is, and that If i go I will be adandoning her and so on.... what do i do??

2007-02-05 07:58:36 · 16 answers · asked by firemedicdixie 1 in Family

11 months ago I had a baby and things didn't work out with the father. Through the stress of the relationship failing and moving out to live as a single mother I have failed to loose the weight I gained through pregnancy.

I am not looking for a father figure for my child but a companion for myself as I am getting lonely.

I just want someone but I feel no one wants me as I have beared a child. All my friends are supportive but don't fulfill what I need.

Please can somebody offer some advise as I am feeling very unattractive and feel that having a child is off putting.

2007-02-05 07:58:35 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This is for a wedding reception. There are no removable ceiling tiles. What can I use that will look tasteful to hang the lanterns from the concrete ceiling. I will be using monofilament (fish wire) to hang with. Thanks for your help!

2007-02-05 07:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by theplanningdiva 3 in Weddings

OK, let me explain before you clobber me. There are several situations that come to my mind.

Let's say I want to take this lady to a particular nice restaurant because I think she'll like it. I'm willing and able to pay whatever it costs to do this. But if I have a coupon, why should I not use it? If it's because I need to show that I'm not cheap, or poor, suppose I use the coupon saving me $5 and then burn a 5 $ bill. Same thing as paying full price?

Let's say I want to take this lady to an extremely nice restaurant because I think she'll like it. But on most days it's way outside of my budget. Suppose the nice place has an early bird special with a restricted menu on Tuesdays that I could afford. Should I just take her to an inferior place instead? Take her to the early bird special and tell her she needs to stick to the restricted menu? That sounds cheap, even to me, but remember - otherwise it's pizza.

Or save a few bucks and maybe then I can afford the special desert.

2007-02-05 07:57:39 · 17 answers · asked by sojsail 7 in Singles & Dating

Recently i cheated on my partner whom i have been with for four years. Im 21 and ever since i have been pregnant with our first child he has accused me of cheating on him and not once had i ever done it. He controls me in every aspect of my life it is his way or the highway and tells me to leave and he will raise the kids. Anyway he found out last night that i had slept with this other guy and he wants me to feel ashamed for what i have done, I feel no shame but im really proud of myself, he wants me to stay but i don't love him and i have told him this and he still wants us to be a family, my life is a living hell, I just want to know what should i do, should i stay and be unhappy or go and provide a better life for me and my kids?

2007-02-05 07:57:34 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband and i have made it for a year now. i am not working and he does. i need some inexpensive gift ideas to get him

2007-02-05 07:57:28 · 6 answers · asked by mrs garfield 5 in Weddings

Old cliche that it takes two to tango-how true!!
And are monogamous males just too ugly to get some elsewhere as what they are grateful for is unnatural!!

2007-02-05 07:57:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

If you were in 7th grade and this boy liked you but you never talked to him or asked him out,but you liked him too.So now you're in the eighth and he's in the ninth at another school and you don't know if he still feels the same way,but you kinda know he does because of his friends go to your school and smile at you all the time and they say his name alot when you walk by,like they'll talk about him.Would you ask them or see what happens because I know he's gonna ask me to go with him when I go to that school next year,something just tells me this,but it's driving me crazy,I need to know if he had girlfriends at that school or if he has one but I don't know who to ask.HELP ME PLEASE!!!!!!! What would you do? Oh and this boy is also a different race from me if it helps,but it probably doesn't matter

2007-02-05 07:55:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently started talking to this guy on the phone that I met online through myspace. We've known each other few days. He is telling me personal information about himself, some disgusting and seem unsensible for someone I just met to talk about. The stuff he is telling me is personal info you would not share with anyone unless you had known them for years, deep secrets, topics that make people look at you differently. He seems uninterested when I don't advance his conversations. I am not sure if he really needs a friend or is saying this stuff to pry into my life. He asks me questions about myself. He keeps trying to tell me that I am acting a certain way for a certain reason. I feel like I am under a microscope when he's talking to me or is around. It bothers me. What is wrong with this person? Why would you do this to someone? Can he not wait to learn more about me or is he questioning me for a reason? Or is he really desperate to have a close friend?

2007-02-05 07:55:20 · 10 answers · asked by Wendy C 4 in Singles & Dating

I WANT TO CALL THE GUY I LIKE...REALLY... I MISS HIM SO MUCH BUT I DON'T HAVE ANYTHING TO SAY...I DON'T WANT TO SOUND NEEDY BUT I WANT TO CALL HIM...WHAT SHOULD I SAY?
WE ARE JUST FRIENDS BUT HE KNOWS I LOVE HIM

2007-02-05 07:54:52 · 6 answers · asked by Pringuita 3 in Singles & Dating

Im not really sure why you'd ever do it - they could be ugly, creepy, liars etc and I cant believe so many people are that trusting of strangers....

2007-02-05 07:54:46 · 10 answers · asked by radiancia 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 07:54:39 · 4 answers · asked by hunter6543 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 07:54:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

ok,..i played tennis when i was in my own country..i loved it..so now in Spain..i still have tennis lessons...once a week. my coach is like my age. im 17 nd he is 18.i usually cant understand him, but we were good..becuz i was attracted to him..so i was really looking forward to meeting him every monday...we were good actually..making jokes when we were pickin up the balls. but recently, i kept playing worse and worse. he lost his interest...teaching me is like a big punishment to him..he even forgot my class today...he didnt pick the balls together with me anymore..instead he was chattin with others...i was hurt..nd i lost my interest too...i do want to play well..but i just cant understand him...what should i do? welcome to IM me...

2007-02-05 07:54:22 · 3 answers · asked by monroe 2 in Singles & Dating

To the answers on my previous questions.It has been over a month that I have prayed to God, I have prayed for my husband, and prayed for our marriage, everyday I ask God to lead me in the direction that He wants me to go. I ask this of Him everyday, and I trust in Him.I must say that through this difficult time, I have grown closer to Him. I have spoken to my husband, I have given him a chance to prove himself, but he is carrying on with his own ways. My husband doesnt think what he did is wrong, which means the message is not getting through...A pastor will only tell you to get divorced if he thought it was the right thing to do.The only reason for me seeking advice on this zone is to get a clear picture on what other people's advice may be for my situation. Thank you

2007-02-05 07:53:13 · 20 answers · asked by Apie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend has been trying to hook me up with her son that I had never met for many months. I finally met him when he came home from Iraq this Christmas and we clicked. I had a boyfriend at the time, but we both felt the connection. I am now single and I have been talking on the phone and internet with this soldier for a while. I plan on visiting him at his base in Texas very soon. What can I do to make this weekend special? He has become a really great friend and we talk about everything. We are very sexually interested in each other and I plan on showing him my “thanks” for him serving our country. ANY ideas would help, I’ve got a few tricks up my sleeve, but I want to give him something really awesome to dream about.
To clarify: We are NOT dating and have not talked about being in any sort of relationship. He has gotten orders and will be moving within months to Italy.

2007-02-05 07:53:12 · 5 answers · asked by I'm here 1 in Singles & Dating

what could i text that would make his heart beat. I dated this guy for months and he was texting me every morning and completely in love with me then he just said he did not want a serious realtonship does this mean he has another girl how can i get him back.

2007-02-05 07:53:07 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 07:53:01 · 12 answers · asked by Matt S 1 in Friends

i want hear story about your feeling when you got your own children after you married.do you used to hate children and wish to don't have them when you will be married? i ask this because i have this feeling and i afraid my future have problem about this.

2007-02-05 07:52:14 · 1 answers · asked by ? 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I met this girl a little over a year ago (I was 19 at the time and she was 17, still in High School, now I'm 20 and she's 18), we met because we were dance partners in one of my cousins party. I really didn't have strong feelings for her at first, but the more times I would see her at rehearsal my feelings became stronger. I found her on myspace telling her that I really liked her (It has almost been a year already when I told her this) and had feelings for her, (I didn't tell her in person because of our age differences, I feel like an idiot now for not telling her in person or at least over the phone) but in return she told me she was "talking" to someone at the time, she told me I was a great guy and all. The last time I saw her was 7 months ago when she invited me to a graduation party she had. We didn't talk at all because a lot of her family and friends were there and she had to attend to them all the time. I sent her 2 messages on myspace during a span of 7 months (they weren't back to back, one in June and one in January) trying to ask her out, but I got no responses. I think she's shy or at least I hope she is, but she is still available. I don't have her number and I feel so stupid to even ask her for it now over mypspace, since I feel like I messed up big time and her thinking I'm an idiot, gosh I feel so bad right now, what can I do to clean this mess I made ? We don't really keep in touch that often, what should I say to her if I do decide to message her again? and how do I found out how she feels about me? Any good advice would be greatly appreciated.

2007-02-05 07:51:57 · 11 answers · asked by Mr. X 2 in Singles & Dating

I am thinking of getting married at the beach....any hints to get prepared.....decoration, suits for guys dress for girls.....AND OF COURSE MY WEEDING DRESS AND HIS SUIT How should they be? Where can I find them (Miami or Kew West) HELPPPPPPPP!!!! Answer if youve been thru this. Thanks

2007-02-05 07:51:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i met a girl in December, we talked everyday and then in Janauary she told me out that she has lead me on...because she "liked" me and she didnt care that she wanted a christian guy to marry and stuff. i cried for a few days, because this always happens to me. i forgive her to this day, she has a $200 some cell bill, and im working my *** of to help her get the cell back. she flirts with me ALOT and we always compliment each other. do you think she still has feelings for me? she said she loves me as a friend and stuff...but her dad is really strict and personally i think shes not wanting anything to do with me relationship way cuz of her dad. shes basically letting him control her...yeah i understand shes a christian follwer but being a senior in HS and being so serious on her standards is CRAZY to me. any help?

2007-02-05 07:51:17 · 5 answers · asked by starplayer2oo7 1 in Singles & Dating