My ex and I have been broken up for about 4-5 months now. I moved and i have a boyfriend now. But I still cry when I think of my ex, I still miss him, I still wish he was in love with me and wanting to marry me and have my baby, I wish i could go back in time, but ive tried to avoid wishing that by dating the guy im with now. and it's not working. The worst part about it is that my bf loves me so much he could marry me but i dont feel the same say kus i still love my ex, but he doesnt know any of this. I feel so guilty for leading him on and still being in love with my ex. I dont know how to get over him!! I feel so helpless and theres nothing i can do to bring him back. How do i pass this? and feel for my bf in the way he deserves? It's so bad that when we're cuddling im wishing it was my ex and when we have sex i think of my ex etc
2007-02-05 07:59:13 · 5 answers · asked by xbinary_dreamsx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I thought the question was going to be about anal.
2007-02-05 08:07:23 · answer #1 · answered by Honest Injun 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
whoa. im sorry but u moved in2 ur new relationship a lil 2 fast. I think u mite have done it to fill in that void that u had after the break-up.1st thing 1st, u have to put ur current relationship on hold bcuz no matter how much u care ur only gonna make things worse and hurt his feelings that much more.Honestly I dont see how sum1 could think of marriage so so soon in a relationship like ur current bf does. U need time off 4 urself to analyze and find urself again. If u try to feel 4 ur bf rite now,ull just be wasting ur time in achieving it. I recommend a book 2 u,its VERY GOOD.Its called I KISSED DATING GOODBYE by JOSHUA HARRIS. itll open ur eyes to alot of truth!!U can find it at a christian bookstore. Good Luck and remember u ALWAYS have GOD to lead u out of ur troubles,just ask w/ur heart : )
2007-02-05 16:18:59 · answer #2 · answered by martin c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this really sucks for ur current b/f. u shouldnt beat round the bush with him. if ur not ready for a new relationship cuz ur still in love with ur ex, then just end this relationship. put urself in ur mans shoes. what if u were the one that was not being loved, or the one he didnt wanna cuddle up with? ur just hurting him, so its best if u talk straight up and end it. now that doesnt mean ur getting ur ex back, but at least ur not gonna play with somebody elses feelings. and bout ur ex, just move on, let him go, life moves on. u cant win all ur battles, sometimes u just gotta learn to throw in the towel and when ur ready start a new battle. u cant live in the past, u gotta live the present and think bout the future!
2007-02-05 16:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by oc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should tell your bf how you feel and take a break for a while. Just to cool things down a bit and so that you can have time to think.
2007-02-05 16:06:06 · answer #4 · answered by phantomdream 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your ex the truth........if you do end up marrying him you wont be happy and neither would he. Talk to your ex maybe you could settle things.
2007-02-08 19:20:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋