i met a girl in December, we talked everyday and then in Janauary she told me out that she has lead me on...because she "liked" me and she didnt care that she wanted a christian guy to marry and stuff. i cried for a few days, because this always happens to me. i forgive her to this day, she has a $200 some cell bill, and im working my *** of to help her get the cell back. she flirts with me ALOT and we always compliment each other. do you think she still has feelings for me? she said she loves me as a friend and stuff...but her dad is really strict and personally i think shes not wanting anything to do with me relationship way cuz of her dad. shes basically letting him control her...yeah i understand shes a christian follwer but being a senior in HS and being so serious on her standards is CRAZY to me. any help?
2007-02-05 07:51:17 · 5 answers · asked by starplayer2oo7 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If that is what she wants, or believes she needs there's nothing you can do about it. You should respect her morals and values and move on.
2007-02-05 07:56:40 · answer #1 · answered by Just D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety she's in high school, she's playing a game with you. You spend money on her and give her attention. She's using you for what you can give her. No she doesn't love you and it has nothing to do with her father or parents. You're her high school sugar daddy. What you need to do it let her get her cell back on the best way she can. Ignore her and stop letting her use you. Find you someone that wants to be with you without you having to buy them. I know the truth hurts but someone has to tell you the truth. Stop, being used and be happy without your user.
2007-02-05 16:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just leave her alone. You are a senior in high school. You will meet plenty more girls. Wait to you go off to college ;you going to be like I'm glad I didn't talk to her. LOL Also, that cell bill don't pay that bill please. I see you have a good heart and girls like that. Let her dad pay her cell bill. Good Luck
2007-02-05 16:00:24 · answer #3 · answered by Proud Mommy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i am sorry if my answer hurts your feelings. There is a possibilty that her father is controlling her. My father was the same way so I moved back in with my mom. But there is also a possibility that she doesn't like you like you want her to. My best friend is a guy and he used to like me. He knows that I do not like him like that but we still flirt all of the time. Me, personally, i like to flirt. It takes my mind off of other things like school and my family. So, sorry but she may just like to flirt.
2007-02-05 16:00:33 · answer #4 · answered by helen 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh? Get rid of her. And don't pay her phone bill.
2007-02-05 15:55:53 · answer #5 · answered by True Dat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋