Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

2007-02-05 19:13:11 · 1 answers · asked by raqes 1 in Friends

I have 4 children . 2 are toddlers, I work an overnight shift because thepay is higher. I have to sleep when my husbandgets home from his job. I cant keep up on the housework. I clean one mess and my girls are making a bigger mess in anouther room. I come home every morning and it seems to get worse. I use Time outs, my girls are very small so they dont quite understand what it means. my older 2 only live with me 2 weeks out of the month and my ex the outher 2. I dont think they like comming here much because their sisters get into so much, What can i do?

2007-02-05 19:12:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-05 19:09:07 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

they only engaged in non-conventional intercourse (ie oral) and not normal stuff? like how hillary clinton forgave bill, because he 'was not having sexual relations with that woman'..... well would you forgive them?

2007-02-05 19:07:19 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Especially when you catch them looking at you, but they do not say anything or approach you afterwards. It's really frustrating and it's happened to me more than once with the guy I like. Oh and we're together in the same class starting tomorrow. Help please!

2007-02-05 19:05:50 · 5 answers · asked by Yabba 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, I never seen her for 2 years for now, the last time I saw her, her hair was a bit longer than shoulder, and she is Indian, honestly, she love to smile, but she never smile in photos and she never show her teeth either. Someday if I wanna fix a date to meet her, I will love to take photos and using camcorder to video her, do you think she will smile? cause I don't even know how to make girls smile, and her teeth is pearly white & straight, like she wore braces before, but she didn't.

2007-02-05 19:05:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please tell me what you think about it? Some of my religious friends disagree with it(and disrepect my beliefs, like a good christian shouldnt! Its SOOO annoying), and i forever have people telling me its wrong. but i dont have those beliefs! What should i do?

2007-02-05 19:05:22 · 7 answers · asked by Kiss_Kris_xo 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend f'd me up. She lead me on only to betray me.

2007-02-05 19:03:16 · 7 answers · asked by Filero24 1 in Friends

I am married to a very bad muslim man. He says he hates his children and I and has never bought me or the children what we need. My job only allows me to buy them clothing and food. I can't even afford an abaya for myself. I can't afford anything for myself. I want to save up money to divorce him, but it's almost impossible. He has called my mother telling her that I am a raging alcoholic and have had many abortions but this is a lie. He knows he is lying but won't stop. My mother knows he is lying but is helpless to do anything. I know as a muslim woman I must cover. So where can I get a free abaya because I can't afford one and he refuses to be an honorable muslim male. He also does get drunk every night. I refuse to drink alcohol. I also ask what can I do about him? He's gotten physical with me in the past but not recenlty since he started suspecting me of cheating (I would never do that), but before he wouldn't think twice.

2007-02-05 19:02:29 · 3 answers · asked by Flu Fighter 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 19:01:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for over 3 years and the sex is still good but it's not the same. We used to be all over eachother and would have sex anywhere like the park, the car, bathrooms, the kitchen and now it's the bedroom and if I'm lucky if we do it in the living room. How can I get him to be wild again?

2007-02-05 19:00:27 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 18:59:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 43 and my GF is 15, When I stay over at her house her mama acts very cold and hostile to me. MY GF is white and so is her mama. Do you think her mama is rascist ? She always tells me to get a job and quit smoking so much weed. Those comments hurt me. I am very sensitive. Do you think I need to get out of this situation ?

2007-02-05 18:57:32 · 7 answers · asked by kuyasaya 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend used to be addictied to meth and the lifestyle. 3 years ago her then fiance told her it was drugs or him. She left her old friends behind and we quickly became friends. About a 1-1/2 ago she came down with a chronic pain ailment, about 6 mnths ago one of her old newly 'reformed' friends came back into her life. Since then my best friend has began smoking marijuana constantly and has recently started selling her prescriptions and abusing xanax, she has also snorted coke on serveral occasions, she is trying to hide it from me and has even more recently started lying to me about what she is doing. She'll tell me she's not home when i can plainly see her car in her driveway and her house lights on. She won't even talk to me anymore. its been at least 4 days since she has contacted me. Today she sent a txt message to my boyfriend asking if we still had something i borrowed a month ago, i can't stand the way she is treating me and I dont know what to do... suggestions please!

2007-02-05 18:57:22 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok, I'm 23, not high school stuff here don't worry.

So, is it just me, or do you find yourselves getting into situations where you KNOW there is not positive outcome? Like having a crush on someone already in a relationship, falling for someone that lives too far away to have a real relationship, stuff like that. ie, do you put yourselves, like I do, into relationship positions that you know could never actually work out? Maybe a defence mechanism, keep ourselves from being hurt?

2007-02-05 18:56:51 · 5 answers · asked by holyitsacar 4 in Singles & Dating

i have a felony for robbery at 18 and feel with the felony and a college degree i still wont get a good job

2007-02-05 18:54:29 · 15 answers · asked by will d 1 in Singles & Dating

It's not like I have a booger in my nose or something. I don't have any cooties, either. I get good grades, and I don't get into fights.

2007-02-05 18:53:25 · 11 answers · asked by Yeah Right 2 in Singles & Dating

myname is camelia.i work on passenger ships.

2007-02-05 18:51:58 · 23 answers · asked by camibonti 1 in Singles & Dating

I am not talking about in the bedroom. I am dating someone who likes to be submissive and likes his woman to be dominant, possesive and to control him. How do I express my dominant side more. I like to be dominant but had not had a chance to experience it because I had not found the right person until now. Ideas or sites?

2007-02-05 18:51:43 · 2 answers · asked by moonlight bunny baby 1 in Singles & Dating

Getting married on the beach and I really need some ideas on the type of dress, and where I could purchase one from (UK Only).

Just found out that Virgin Atlantic won't let me take it as hand luggage, unlike some other airlines, so its going to have to be something that will go into my suitcase!

I don't want something plain or just bogstandard, i still want to look like a princess in it.... :o(

Any ideas?

2007-02-05 18:49:32 · 16 answers · asked by ஐ♥PinkBoo - TTC #1♥ஐ 5 in Weddings

Hi,

I am guy of height 5 feet and 9 inches . My fiance is very tall for a girl and is exactly the same height as I am. I sometimes feel awkward about it and i feel concious about moving out with her. Sometimes with her hair tied up she looks taller than me and I feel awkward about that. I feel bad that she has to adjust her shoes for me and cannot wear any heels. Even a 1 inch heel will make us look awkward as a couple since she will look slightly taller.

Is this a very awkward situation to be in ? Is it a problem looking at a couple who are the same height?

I feel bad that she needs to adjust her shoes for me and i need to hunt for bigger shoes to look taller !!

Sometimes, i feel it would have been nice if she were shorter.. :-(

Let me know your opinions.

Thanks..

2007-02-05 18:47:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

With the person you love... nobody's perfect and we all have them... i.e., how do you live with and love someone who's arrogant?

2007-02-05 18:46:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been in college for the past 6 years. I told my parents a year ago that I was graduating this may '07. If I had passed all my classes this past year, I would be graduating this semester, but I failed a lot of them. They have no idea about this & I don't plan on telling them that. I'm going to say it was a mix up with how many classes I had left or something. I plan to pay for my last year myself, but I know my parents will be hurt because they have put in so much money for my education. How do I tell them & what excuses should I use other than I was just plain lazy & stupid.

2007-02-05 18:46:13 · 13 answers · asked by brooke4ua2 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-05 18:46:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a pre-op transsexual, but my license says female. I've been living as a female for almost 11 years. I went fulltime when i was 14 and when i was 16 went for my permit and they put female on it. I was born in indiana and they don't have sex on the birth certificate. So i've been with my boyfriend for 2 years. He wants to go to vegas and get married. Technically i could because all vegas needs is a valid ID . and mine says female. I love my boyfriend more than you could know and i want to marry him. but my question is should i risk it ? legally it is fraud .i might be fine. it's not like they are going to look under my dress. but fraud is a federal offence i could go to prison. But david's the one for me and i want to get married , what should i do ?

2007-02-05 18:41:10 · 6 answers · asked by the_world_may_never_know 1 in Marriage & Divorce

She insists I come up with something, she calls me muffin but i cant think of anything good.

2007-02-05 18:41:04 · 25 answers · asked by Chris! 2 in Singles & Dating

how can you find out if you husband cheat on you?

2007-02-05 18:40:09 · 17 answers · asked by happier06 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been so busy with graduate school and work over the past few years, that I have neglected a little detail of adult life...making friends. The little freetime I had was spent with my husband or talking to my best friend (from childhood) on the phone. Although I am still in graduate school, I have taken a new job that requires only 40 hours of work per week (yippee!) and has left me with a bit of free time to...well, I don't know what to do with my time! I'm rusty on making friends and my social skills are down the gutter (I feel like a puppy let off her leash to greet people after being locked up all day!). I don't have a lot of interaction with my peers at work because we do different types of work and our offices are not in the same building. I am married, no kids (yet), and nearing 30. Is it possible to make new, solid friendships without the "special" bonds of school, kids, etc. I think it's harder as an adult to just approach a stranger and strike up a conversation.

2007-02-05 18:39:55 · 6 answers · asked by Madelaine 1 in Friends

My husband and I are on the fast track to divorce. We fight all the time, he blames his temper tantrums (that he has had all his life) on me...according to him he wouldn't have a temper problem if it wasn't for my bitching. These fights have made my house very hostile at times and I can't take it anymore, for my kid's sake. Here is the thing. He doesn't want a divorce. We really can't afford to get counseling or anger management classes for him...Also, for my kids sake (he really isn't a bad dad, just a bad husband) and for monetary reasons I don't want to get divorced either. We still have the same goals in life, still enjoy the same food, and common interests. We have no time for dating anymore because of our children. Also, I put on 17 extra pounds since our last baby, and I haven't been able to take it off, so he doesn't want to have sex anymore because he says he has never liked fat-a##es. I don't think that is it....I just think we fight too much.

2007-02-05 18:39:22 · 8 answers · asked by jenteacher2001 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 18:38:48 · 8 answers · asked by mei_77 2 in Singles & Dating