how can you find out if you husband cheat on you?
2007-02-05 18:40:09 · 17 answers · asked by happier06 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Look for phone numbers in pockets or in his wallet. If he has a cell phone check out the statment one month and see if there are numbers you don't recognize. Are you getting any strange hang-up calls on a regular basis? Does he disappear for periods of time without an explanation? If he works, do his paycheck hours match up to what he was supposed to have worked? I have an ex-husband for these exact reasons. I hope you don't discover it's true, but good luck to you all the same.
2007-02-05 18:43:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's acting aloof from you, or if he seems distracted.. isn't home a lot or makes excuses as to why he's been gone away from home so much. They can be signs of other things but if he's started to act weird that's usually a dead give away. Especially if you and he are having sex less and less or he's acting different with you during sex. Don't jump the gun though.. he might just be stressed or tired. Just keep an eye out for any change in his routine. It wouldn't hurt to check the bank account, if he's cheating on you he might be buying her gifts so be weary of any "missing" money from your bank account as well that he can't explain. If he has a cell phone check the calls he's been making, and it wouldn't hurt to press the redial button on your home phone every once in a while either. Keep an eye on the car miles.. more miles than normal might mean he's doing something else as well. And yes, by all means check his wallet and pockets for numbers.
2007-02-05 18:52:11 · answer #2 · answered by imjustwondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to ask him yourself. If you married this person and found him to be trustworthy and honest, then he should tell you if he has cheated or not. But, if you knew that he was a cheater way before you even got married, then you have made a BIG mistake in marrying someone like him.
Otherwise, hire an investigator to follow him around.
2007-02-05 18:57:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is he going out with out you dressed to kill? Coming home late from work and not saying anything and going right to the shower? strange phone calls where he leaves the room to talk? Not paying attention to you in the "bedroom"? IF you can answer yes to any of these questions, then I say confront him with the evidence or call "Cheaters" the show that will find out for you.
2007-02-05 20:54:14 · answer #4 · answered by wingedladyk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Numerous ways.
I have a friend who kept track of the cell phone calls and looked up the numbers and paid attention to the times they were talking.
Another one had her man followed for a few days by another friend or a friend of a friend for alittle money, like hiring a private investigator.
2007-02-05 18:47:31 · answer #5 · answered by LC 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
URSELF..... trust me... when you have the feeling that your husband is cheating on you..... 99% of the time your right....
I used to think the same way...and guess what? I was right..... I found him red handed... and that was the last time he saw me.... except for divorce.... Men like that are not worth living with or share your life with...So, take a wise decision
2007-02-05 19:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by Ramya D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's out of state and you call him and doesn't answer his cell. if he's on his cell most of the time even late at night. check your bank acccounts or credit cards if you two have a joint account, check all the charges. gets irritated when you ask him if he loves you. going home late with all the excuses. if he starts buying new clothes for no special reason. doesn't look at you with love in his eyes and forgets to greet you on your b-day after being married for more than 10yrs.
2007-02-06 10:23:25 · answer #7 · answered by Lola 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him. Spy on him and search through e-mails, pockets, cellphones. Enlist the help of a private investigator. And if all else fails take him on a talk show for a lie detector test.
2007-02-05 18:45:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont know. I would never and did'nt marry a man that would cheat on me
2007-02-05 22:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will not be interested in you anymore so then he will not love you anymore and he won't talk to you anymore and he will not bother with you anymore and I guess he will be cheating on you forever more if you do not speak up and say something
2007-02-05 19:31:54 · answer #10 · answered by omiluv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋