Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

Is it wrong to look at other girls or guys while you are married or in a relationship???

2007-02-05 18:10:38 · 7 answers · asked by angel 2 in Singles & Dating

It never fails, when I become involved with someone new, things just move too fast. We spend way too much time talking to each other on the phone or through email and then suddenly the "casual dating" turns into a relationship. This hasn't been working for me lately and usually ends in heartbreak for me or the other person. I want to just date around and get to know several different guys at a time, like real old fashioned dating where you go to dinner or a movie and then slowly decide if I want an actual relationship. Then if I decide I'm not interested or vis versa it doesn't become a huge messy problem, no one's feelings are hurt and I can move on and get to know new guys. Am I the only one with this problem? Basically, I'm in my 20's and I want to get to know as many guys as I can to increase my chances of finding the right one instead of getting stuck in dead end relationships. I want to avoid "putting all my eggs in one basket" so to speak. Any advice?

2007-02-05 18:10:10 · 7 answers · asked by Ms. M 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm a senior in high school and only have a couple good friends, but I could have a lot more if I hung out with the other kids like I have been lately and drank at parties they go to on weekends. I've heard many people say "just go to the party but don't drink" now I'm not sure if you have been in a position like I am in but do you know how hard it is to not feel left out when you see every single person at the party with a beer in their hand drinking? I always feel left out when I don't drink. I know in my heart that it is wrong and I would disappoint a lot of people if I got caught because my parents know I have more common sense then that. I haven't drank at all yet, but I really don't feel like I fit in. I want to be friends with these guys because I see them everyday at school. I know I shouldn't give a rat's *** about what they think of me, but it's really hard not to. Another thing that scares me is that they drive from these parties buzzed and/or drunk with me in the car Help!

2007-02-05 18:09:16 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Of course you do. For those who have quit smoking, do you dream about smoking, knowing of course in real life you won't go back? Divorcees, do you dream about your ex even though he/she is a pervert? What do you dream about that you have lost, or who do you dream about that you have lost?

2007-02-05 18:08:48 · 3 answers · asked by grannywinkie 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok.. I have this guy-friend who, for a while, i really liked. and he liked me and it was all good. we would flirt and everything but we never went out.. after a while we grew apart. I wasn't as interested because he wouldn't get closer to me (not in the literal form).. we began to sort of avoid eachother. now, a while back, he apoligized for ignoring me and i apoligized. i'm not so sure i want to try to get closer to him, yet, but i think he wants to get to know me. i really like him, and he's really sweet, i just don't want to just go for it, you know? advice??

2007-02-05 18:07:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ive been dating this girl probably for 3 weeks now and valentines is coming up and Im not really sure what to give her...

Also, One time while the ride back home in a bus (cuz she went to a dancing competition) I started to make the first move by putting my arms around her waist and she would put her head on my shuolder. Here's the question: Where do girls like a guys arms to be around her, Shoulder or Waist?

Last but not least, If she puts her hand on top of my hand, Should I hold her hand?

Thx for ur comments. I really aprreciate it.

2007-02-05 18:05:38 · 8 answers · asked by Begginer 1 in Singles & Dating

im really confused and need help.Ive known him for about 7 years now,but weve only actually talked for 2.Hes one of the best friends ive had,i liked him last year.and i thought he didnt like me.but he recently told me that he liked me but didnt want to ruin the friendship so he never told me.now its just rekendled(i cant spell)flames.i really do like him,but im not sure if its the right thing to do,our friendship is at stake.any suggestions?

2007-02-05 18:04:20 · 7 answers · asked by rwnwick1983 1 in Friends

My partner and i seem to talk lesser and lesser now. Have been together for 1+ yrs and we seem to chat lesser expect normal daily stuffs ...is that normal?

2007-02-05 18:04:04 · 1 answers · asked by WQ 1 in Singles & Dating

what is 'One full Life Cycle' in SAP

2007-02-05 18:03:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How do you know if a guy likes you? this guy that has a girlfriend, has been giving me eye contacts, and i don't really know do i like him because he has girlfriend now and he's the popular type, the one girls follow around, i'm just shy and quiet at school. but in pe, i sit next to him for roll call. ine time, when i changed my spot, i was walking to the spot next to him, he immediatly stands up. and we were partners in pe to do something, when my teacher assign us as partners, he raised his hand to call the teacher. but i was really curious what he was gonna say, too bad my teacher didn't come. sometimes, he's been staring right at me across the room during class. sorry it's off topic, i don't know, i just really wanted to tell someone. at school, i don't have any best friends that i could talk to, just friends that i say "hi" so I'm ALWAYS lonely. especially during pe... thanks for reading this!

2007-02-05 18:03:19 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i MET THiS REALLY COO` GUY 3WEEKS AGO.. HiS NOT A HOTTiE [[HiS AiTE]], BUT HiS PERSONALiTY MAKES HiM HOTT & ATTRACTiVE`! [[-->WEiRD<--]] ... HE FLiRTS A LOT WiTH ME. & i DO TOO.. THE PROBLEM iS THAT HiS EX iS ONE OF MY FRiENDS`! i DONT KNOW WUT TO DO`! i GOT HiM FOR 2CLASSES & HiS SiT iS BY ME SO WE`RE ALWAYS TALKiN, SiNCE WE STARTED TALKiN` iVE BEEN SEEiN HiM A LOT.. SHOULD i BACK AWAY WHiLE i CAN OR GO FOR iT??

2007-02-05 18:03:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well my bf broke up with me last sunday.. even befroe that we wre taking a break to focus on ourselves and school.. we were on a break for 4 days. and then he broke up with me.. i kjnow he is really stressed and he doenst have another gf.. so i decided to give him his space. but i keep having intimate dreams about us togehter.... we were eachothers first love, first bf/gf, first everything. we are both sophmores in college wiht alot of stress with school and work.. and we were together for ove 2 years.. how can i stop having these dreams. they are driving me crazy! ive been having one every night! i just want to wake up and cry. im sor tired but im afraid to fall aslep cause i dont want to have these dreams anymore =[


when my old bestfriend and i "broke up"i had dreams about her for 6 months,......

how do i stop these dreams?also is it possible to stop loving someone?especialy your first love.my bf says he loves me but wants to sto cause we arent together anymore.is that possible?

2007-02-05 18:00:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

especially when they start to nag or talk about moving in or weddings

2007-02-05 18:00:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My fiance's parents are refusing to discuss the wedding because they are hoping to pursuade her against getting married. They are a wealthy family, mine is not, and they are convinced that I will not be able to take care of her and want proof before they will discuss the wedding. We have 10 months to plan at this point and cannot wait any longer to start making arrangements, but I do not have the means to put on a wedding on my own, I work in the non-profit sector and have student loans. Does anyone have any advice on dealing with these people, my fiance is unwilling to sever the relationship and plan the wedding by ourselves, but we are out of time as far as waiting for them to come around goes.

2007-02-05 18:00:22 · 12 answers · asked by AA1981 2 in Weddings

There is no passion, romance or love felt. She hardly kiss, hug or hold me since our kids came along. She does not appreciate that I am with her all the time. As I do not even step foot out of the house without her. I Think she does not give me enough support in what ever I do. And has no respect for me. What can I do?

2007-02-05 17:58:32 · 26 answers · asked by parry ben 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The story begins with my sister dating a man who claimed he was madly in love with her and they both agreed to take an HIV/AIDS test before the next move,the man was negative and my sister positive,, before the man was so loving,providing and caring, after the results, he started pulling out slowly, no more phone calls, text messages, and no more visits.

Do you think as he had told her before that he was madly in love, and now pulling out is that LOVE but was blocked by the results??

My sister had agreed they use protective measures like condoms but he is still distanting him self, what advice are you giving us and if were you my sister, what would you do??

DO YOU THINK HE EVEN LOVED HER A BIT??

Thanks for your great help and be blessed.

2007-02-05 17:58:05 · 13 answers · asked by kiss me. 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Plenty of nice girls names out there, Im sure there are plenty of nice boys names aswell

2007-02-05 17:57:23 · 17 answers · asked by E B 1 in Friends

I havent seen my father in about ten years. My grandma tells me she doesnt know his whereabouts. He doesnt even know he has grandchildren. I would like to find out his address or phone number just to call him and let him know or maybe send him some pictures. All the sites I go to want me to pay for something I can look up in a phonebook for free. The problem is that he lives in another state and info doesnt have any listed phone #'s for him. Can anyone help me?

2007-02-05 17:57:20 · 5 answers · asked by jenny 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i mean what should i do?i know my husband love me very much.and i love him ,too.but i'm the one that wrong.pls give solution....

2007-02-05 17:56:38 · 28 answers · asked by eva erawaty henry 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is it weird for a freshman girl to date a senior?
My friend is doing it...he's a super nice guy, charming, polite, funny.. but does the age gap make it unacceptable?

2007-02-05 17:55:44 · 7 answers · asked by may_lon_ee 2 in Friends

what qualities u guys see that makes you think that she is the one for you. and even tho you adore her would you let her go when you'r not ready for commitments and she is being pushy. How is that works for you. Please guys help me out here... and help me to understand my guys so i can treat him right.

2007-02-05 17:55:04 · 4 answers · asked by blue5349 1 in Singles & Dating

relationship. What do you think? We've been dating for about 4 months.

2007-02-05 17:54:56 · 14 answers · asked by Y 2 in Singles & Dating

i still like my ex and i told him how i felt and he said that he doesn't like me like that right now. what does he mean when he says right now? i am really confused because someone told me that he likes me but doesn't want a girlfriend right now. someone told me that he was just too shy to tell me he likes me. i am confused.

2007-02-05 17:54:54 · 9 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl and I had a little, you may called it confrontation. She seems not to trust me with her problems, even though I trust her with mine. I really want her to talk to me about them, she says she doesnt trust anyone with her problems. I think sometimes opening to people and letting them know what's going on, can make for the problems to not drown you so much in dispair. I can't sleep with the thought of making her sad or angry, so I decided to message her while she was offline. This does sound good?

Dathletez13 (1:45:25 AM): I know you are ofline, it's late and I am not feeling good about how we ended our last conversation. What do you mean by saying that no one trusts you to understand? I do trust you to understand, if I didn't I wouldn't have told you my problems in the first place. You are a smart girl and I do not want to see you upset by something I say or do, because that would just break me, maybe a "sorry" won't cut it now, even though I am, for whatever I did wrong. I just hope you feel better by the time you read this, remember you CAN TRUST ME with your problems, I may seen repetitive but like you once told me I AM HERE FOR YOU. Also, I hope we can talk later on today, when we are both a little distant from our problems.

2007-02-05 17:53:11 · 4 answers · asked by Dathletez 2 in Singles & Dating

when i say make him i don't mean force him. but what r the things that when guys see or feel that make them to want to commit. And guys what are your ideas about sex/early sex/no sex and marriage/engaged.?

2007-02-05 17:52:58 · 9 answers · asked by blue5349 1 in Singles & Dating

he was so nice in the begining i never suspected he would be just like one of those talk show cases about mental abuse. i never thought i would become one of those talk show victims. i hurt so bad inside he makes me fell so low..

2007-02-05 17:51:36 · 9 answers · asked by pinball 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to help my boyfriend to overcome his fears about marriage and help him see commitment as a good thing. Please guys advice me about what makes you want to commit and how much time you need to determine if she is the one?

2007-02-05 17:51:00 · 2 answers · asked by blue5349 1 in Singles & Dating

just met a guy for 2 times. He is nice and i think he really likes me. he is a foreigner living in my town.
His communication type is sending sms to my cell phone but never calls me (i dont know why).
Whenever he wants to invite me for cinema or coffee out, he always sends sms like " How are u" then " what r u doing now" then " would u like to go to the cinema"
why doesnt he " do u have time for the cinema now" and thats enough??. There is no need to send such 3 or 4 messages for that stuff., as I think.
What is he thinking? Is he serious? What should i do?

2007-02-05 17:50:31 · 11 answers · asked by pussycat 1 in Weddings

There is this guy, and hes so sweet, and he makes me laugh, and he can cheer me up no matter how sad i am, and he made me so happy. When before him i had been SO unhappy. But then he went and was a jerk (even though what he did was not that bad) and i broke up with him.

Now he wants a 2nd chance and i dont know if i should give it to him. I never really stopped liking him but im pretty sure hes going to be a jerk again.

Another problem i have is my friends/family never liked him, they thought he wasnt good enough for me. And they were mad at me for being with him.

I have been trying to think about whether i want to give him a second chance. Ive tried thinking bout why i should, and about why i shouldnt. But im tied between the two.

If i give him a 2nd chance im most deffinetly going to loose my friends who i love so much and who i know are always there for me.

My question is...

this guy that i love or my friends that i love?

wut would u choose??

2007-02-05 17:49:23 · 19 answers · asked by Daly 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it a good thing that i don't trust my boyfriend? cause then that way i'm being cautious, and i'm preventing my feelings from getting hurt.

2007-02-05 17:49:15 · 12 answers · asked by US 4 1 in Singles & Dating