This girl and I had a little, you may called it confrontation. She seems not to trust me with her problems, even though I trust her with mine. I really want her to talk to me about them, she says she doesnt trust anyone with her problems. I think sometimes opening to people and letting them know what's going on, can make for the problems to not drown you so much in dispair. I can't sleep with the thought of making her sad or angry, so I decided to message her while she was offline. This does sound good?
Dathletez13 (1:45:25 AM): I know you are ofline, it's late and I am not feeling good about how we ended our last conversation. What do you mean by saying that no one trusts you to understand? I do trust you to understand, if I didn't I wouldn't have told you my problems in the first place. You are a smart girl and I do not want to see you upset by something I say or do, because that would just break me, maybe a "sorry" won't cut it now, even though I am, for whatever I did wrong. I just hope you feel better by the time you read this, remember you CAN TRUST ME with your problems, I may seen repetitive but like you once told me I AM HERE FOR YOU. Also, I hope we can talk later on today, when we are both a little distant from our problems.
2007-02-05 17:53:11 · 4 answers · asked by Dathletez 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Whats seems to be going on here is that she is acting this way to get your attention. she wants something from you. Something only you can give her. You know what I'm talking about She wants you to BANG HER because as we found out in other forums about how all girls are perverts and are only interested in is sex you have to help her out . so you know what, if she mad **** it. Just go over to her house be like "hey you, I'm here for that ***" And just go in. After writing this i read the question. and um.... no you shouldn't have said that. you should have just gone to her house. you know what ? Get Ur lazy *** up and go get her ! i dont care what time it is just go give her what she wants and make her happy !
2007-02-05 18:29:45 · answer #1 · answered by DarkMage 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it's a pretty good message
it's just that... well i think, if she doesn't wanna share anything, or if she's just not ready to share her problems, you shouldn't force her to.
i think you've already made your point in your message that she can trust you, and maybe in time, when she's ready, maybe she will.
but for now, maybe she doesn't need you to be pushy or something.
i don't mean to butt in. but i have been in a similar situation before.
and i didn't like the way i was told over and over that it's okay for me to share my problems because i can trust him, etc.
people don't like to be pushed into telling things.
especially if those things are really serious problems.
it's okay to try to help her, but if she doesn't want any, don't force it.
eventually she'll realize that maybe you helping her is much better than going in it alone.
good luck! ^__^
2007-02-06 02:04:03 · answer #2 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she doesn't trust you then pushing her will only make her distrust you more. drop the trust subject and let her trust come to you. be patient it might happen or it might not but you need to be happy with either outcome.
2007-02-06 01:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by huhyftcgbjhu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sound like the person has trust issues, a one way trust,
2007-02-06 01:59:12 · answer #4 · answered by Dominic the one hand bandit 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋