Ok.. I have this guy-friend who, for a while, i really liked. and he liked me and it was all good. we would flirt and everything but we never went out.. after a while we grew apart. I wasn't as interested because he wouldn't get closer to me (not in the literal form).. we began to sort of avoid eachother. now, a while back, he apoligized for ignoring me and i apoligized. i'm not so sure i want to try to get closer to him, yet, but i think he wants to get to know me. i really like him, and he's really sweet, i just don't want to just go for it, you know? advice??
2007-02-05 18:07:15 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There's no harm in getting together as friends, even in a group. I went through something like this with a girl but after we backed off we started talking more and hanging out later and we're closer friends now. If it turns into anything more than that....let it happen naturally.
2007-02-05 18:10:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's got some undesirable situations going at right now. Some times people get in some bad scenarios and they need time to fix things and can't handle caring for someone else at the time because when your frustrated sometimes a relationship can feel like a meaningless chore then something to be desired. I say wait for him because he probably cares about you or even cares about you so much that he doesn't want to hurt you while he's trying to fix his problem.
2016-05-23 22:44:00 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude - just continue spending time with him if you have a good time - and if you aren't that into it focus on something else. If you were really interested in pursuing him you would probably know. and if you just think he might be a good friend, don't stress out about it so much. it sounds like youre making a big deal out of not such a big thing.
2007-02-05 18:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by imnotachickenyoureaturkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and him started to avoid each other, now that everything is cool again, chill with him and see if you get any vibes. It can't hurt to see what's going on, but it may hurt if you don't do anything.
2007-02-05 18:11:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him what happened (ignoring you and such). Ask him if he wants to get to know you better.. if he does, then go ahead.
2007-02-05 18:12:19 · answer #5 · answered by Rae-Rae Nikkoles <3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be good friends ,He is a nice guy.you can think afterwards about being serious.
2007-02-05 18:20:32 · answer #6 · answered by ANU U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the guy a chance...
Just act normal whenever you are with him.
2007-02-05 19:13:00 · answer #7 · answered by teejay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you not sure do not go in adventures just find someone else
2007-02-05 18:11:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋