he was so nice in the begining i never suspected he would be just like one of those talk show cases about mental abuse. i never thought i would become one of those talk show victims. i hurt so bad inside he makes me fell so low..
2007-02-05 17:51:36 · 9 answers · asked by pinball 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Leave him, he 'll get the message...
2007-02-05 17:57:50 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Article 1, 1 24, of the Maryland Annotated Code provides that the age of majority is 18, and that a person reaching that age is an adult for all purposes, except when specifically provided otherwise by statute. Unlike some other states (like California), Maryland does not have a youth emancipation act. There are some instances in which a Maryland youth may become emancipated. For example, § 2-301 of the Family Law Article permits the emancipation of a minor by marriage. That means that the child is freed from the control of the parents, and the parents are free from the duty to support the child. Emancipation by marriage does not free the child from the legal disabilities (voting, drinking, ability to enter into contracts, etc) imposed on minors unless a statute specifically says so. A minor who is married has the same capacity as an adult to consent to medical treatment or to hold title to property as a tenant by the entireties with a spouse who has reached the age of majority.
2016-05-23 22:43:16 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a simple solution. First realise that you do not need to be with him or love him if he does not love you. With this in mind, tell him that you are tired of this behavior, and break up with him. I know this sounds crazy, but do this. If he truly loves you, he will call you and plea for a second chance or something of the like. When he does this, hammer out a way the two ofyou can continue your relationship without the abuse. You must do this to let him know how serious you are. If he does not make any attempt to talk about it and get back together, he never loved you and you need to be strong and move on. Thats life.
2007-02-05 18:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by youngdude021 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The question is why are you still with him? I know, it's hard to just leave someone whom you invested so much with but you must realized that being abused is absolutely not necessary. You come first and you must look out for yourself. If you have any self-respect you must put your foot down and move on. I've been through this before a friend as well and I dumped him big time! But from time to time I miss the good times but those are my weak moments. So now I know what's best for me. Talk to him about it and that you're being hurt by his action and if it persists that you will move on. And keep your words otherwise you'll be destined to be abused for the rest of your life not just with him but with anyone you have relationship with. I remember Dr. Phil said that people treat you the way you let them treat you. Good luck and take care.
2007-02-05 17:59:34 · answer #4 · answered by Believe me 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My best advice to you is to get out before its too late. I have just left a marriage for the same reasons. They never change. It will only get worse. Mental and emotionally abuse is far worse than even...physical abuse. It hurts just as bad. It makes you feel low and unwanted. I was beginning to think that I WAS all those things he said about me. Its the little comments that drove me insane. ...Good luck to you girl...but if you are feeling like this now...don't stay....
2007-02-05 17:58:09 · answer #5 · answered by babyblues_752001 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. Obviously this type of person needs a therapist. I highly doubt you like him enough to pay for month or years of therapy to "try" and correct the problem. Sometimes it doesnt even work and one day it is all going to come puring out. There are plenty of satisfying guys out there that dont have this problem. Whatever you do, dont consider staying with him b/c of looks. mental abuse causes mental illness. Dont suffer when you can do anything you want.
2007-02-05 17:59:54 · answer #6 · answered by Timothy L 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to stand up for yourself...Usually guys like that only keep going because you allow him...Tell him that youre not a doormat and you want to be treated with respect....If he cares about you he'll change his behavior. But if he's just a jerk, he'll probably just laugh when you try and fight back..At that point you know you need to let him go...There are so many guys out there....You dont need that...I know its easier said then done..But beleive me, we've all been there..Hanging on to someone who treats you like crap. Just becuase you care about them.....Youre better than that , dont let him make you feel worthless..YOU'RE NOT!!!!
2007-02-05 18:01:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you keep taking it, he will keep doing it. Cut your losses and look for someone who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. Never settle for such ignorance!
2007-02-05 17:59:03 · answer #8 · answered by C D 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cut the leash & go find your happiness..
2007-02-05 18:05:39 · answer #9 · answered by bebe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋