It's not like I have a booger in my nose or something. I don't have any cooties, either. I get good grades, and I don't get into fights.
2007-02-05 18:53:25 · 11 answers · asked by Yeah Right 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Perhaps you are not giving people the right signals that its ok to approach you . Try to be more out going and say hi to people and call them by their first name when you say hi to them. In order to make more friends one has to be more sociable. There is nothing like having self confidence and self assuredness . If you can master those two traits you will be amazed at what a people magnet it can be . Being smart and witty doesn't hurt either.
2007-02-05 19:05:53 · answer #1 · answered by daizzddre 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well from what u;re saying u seem like a nice guy, but still maybe u're not so good in socializing so u have to work on that. For starter u can be more open towards ppl, not just mind your business. Try with small things, small talks....if u have a special skill its good if u can show it........socializing is not a recipe, u have to know yourself good enough not to change for the others, but it will be enough if u will bound with others. Try joining some groups........every schools has those.....Anyway be yourself and find ppl like yourself to connect with.
2007-02-06 03:00:52 · answer #2 · answered by black_cat_heart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not wait for people to approach you. You should approach them. Show that you are friendly and that you like them. I am not talking about sexually, and I do not know if you were, in your question. If you want to have friends, you have to go out and initiate the process. You cannot wait around to be approached. That was the role of women 50 years ago. It is perfectly all right to be friendly nowadays.
2007-02-06 03:04:07 · answer #3 · answered by OTR 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alot of people ask me questions like this. dont complain that they dont say hi to you if you dont say hi either. im in college and people dont just walk up to me and talk to me, i have to start the conversation. in life we have an objective, no matter what it is, and we have obstacles. yours is you want people to talk to you. ok. well, make people talk to you. dont be annoying about it, but go talk to people. we had an exchange student from japan and she had the same problem all year. another exchange student, that very same year, on the first day greeted everyone he could. its why its called making friends, not friends making you.
2007-02-06 03:03:47 · answer #4 · answered by KCDItachi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people don't approach you, then approach them. Start up a conversation with a stranger.
2007-02-06 02:55:20 · answer #5 · answered by Roxy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
(please note this is being typed up by Shane not Jessica)
in my personal experience school is the worse place to try and pick someone up for dating, believe me I didn't try hard only cause I was the one getting picked on, the only girl I dated an married is my wife Jessica an I actually met her on myspace...
School for me was difficult to pick someone up so don't think it's the end of the world cause you never know when you'll meet someone..
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2007-02-06 02:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by jessicadiamond_4einc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Somebody gotta make the first approach anyway!
2007-02-06 02:55:27 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile.
Have good posture, walk with your head up but not with nose in the air.
Smile even more.
2007-02-06 03:09:22 · answer #8 · answered by Avsky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i was the same until one day i started up conversations myself and i started to make more friends, if you still dont make any i wouldnt worry about it once you leave school you forget all about it and make a whole heap once you start working
2007-02-06 03:00:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, stop abbreviating 'people' as 'ppl'. That just sounds foolish. "Webspeak" is for idiots, obviously.
K
2007-02-06 03:01:24 · answer #10 · answered by Ouroboros0427 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋