Hi,
I am guy of height 5 feet and 9 inches . My fiance is very tall for a girl and is exactly the same height as I am. I sometimes feel awkward about it and i feel concious about moving out with her. Sometimes with her hair tied up she looks taller than me and I feel awkward about that. I feel bad that she has to adjust her shoes for me and cannot wear any heels. Even a 1 inch heel will make us look awkward as a couple since she will look slightly taller.
Is this a very awkward situation to be in ? Is it a problem looking at a couple who are the same height?
I feel bad that she needs to adjust her shoes for me and i need to hunt for bigger shoes to look taller !!
Sometimes, i feel it would have been nice if she were shorter.. :-(
Let me know your opinions.
Thanks..
2007-02-05 18:47:47 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Should i let her wear heels and look 3-4 inches taller than me if she wants to wear the big heels?
2007-02-06 17:55:50 · update #1
Dude, please don't feel awkward about that, I think it's cute when a girl is the same height. Easy to kiss, easy to tickle her neck with tongue. If she's thin and light, it's fun to pick her up and have fun even though she's your height. It'd be more strange if you were 5'5" and she was 6'1". Worry then I think.
2007-02-05 18:53:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The complex is in your mind. Banish this thought. Love is more important. No body will mock at you just because both of you are of the same height or she is a shade taller.If both of you overcome this complex then you will be happy. Your inner qualities will make you an endearing person.
However, do slight adjustment to be on the practical side. Wear high heel shoes. Have your hair long and tell her to wear a flat show or something. In the end, don't be finicky about such things that have nothing to do with your inner peace.
2007-02-05 19:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by Ishan26 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-02 11:14:04 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My dear friend ..... we are sailing in a same boat. But dont worry what makes a couple is not their height but there understanding and commitments. What is the point if someone's wife is beautiful and having affairs globally or does not support him when he needs her? And moreover you will be looked upon with respect because people like me will think in a different way that is to say """"""This man must be excellent so this girl got ready to marry him despite his shortness"""". Hitler was so short but people appreciated his work and brillance and ignored the height. All the best my friend and dont care abt people. Jaya Bacchan is shorter than Big B but still people say she is short. Forget the people and love each other ...... you have not got married to receive people's comments. So enjoy your life and love like you have never been loved and love your wife more than before as she is so sweet to sacrifice her heels for you just like my wife
Cheers!!!!
Regards
Adv. Pankaj
2007-02-05 20:26:13 · answer #4 · answered by Pankaj B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to be kidding me!! My girlfriend is 5'10" tall. Admittedly I am 6'1" so I am still taller than she is, but when she is wearing her cowboy boots, she looks almost as tall as I am. And let me tell you that doesn't bother me one bit; I think we look great together. In fact, I think tall women are sexy; I know my girlfriend is. But to be honest, her height should not be the issue. Do you enjoy being with her; does she make you happy; do you care about her for who she is inside? Those are the important things.
2007-02-05 19:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by vegasg8r89129 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dude, its all good. love aint about shoes, unless you love your shoes, but thats beside the point. if shes ur fiance, then marry her. dont let her height get in the way. its not awkward for me to see ppl who are the same height, or a couple with the girl taller. i would marry a girl if she was taller than me. dont let it be a problem
2007-02-05 19:07:07 · answer #6 · answered by KCDItachi 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't let it bother you. So what if she looks taller sometimes. Let her wear heels! Haven't you ever seen celebrities with models on their arms? The models are usually taller. It's ok, it doesn't make you less masculine. I've dated a guy that was about my height, it didn't bother either one of us.
2007-02-05 18:53:43 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. M 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Your faincee and you are of he same hieght. It is not awkward and also not bad. The r emarks recorded by you in explanatory notes are the personal remarks and have no universal confirmation. On the other hand, your fiancee is very attractive and looks tall and not dawrf. It is a pleasant personality and not negative personality. Keep on loving the girl and do not discount her status.
2007-02-05 18:56:07 · answer #8 · answered by ? 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I have dated a few women up to 5 inches taller than me, let alone even!. If you care what others think of you together, then your issue is a bit deeper. Sure you can think about what others think, but if you CARE what they think, then you shouldn't. How does she feel? If she is not bothered, TRULY not bothered, then the heck with everyone else!
2007-02-05 18:55:15 · answer #9 · answered by degroove 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hi listen up man... be yourselves and do not bother what others around you think. If you are contented and totally in love with your fiance, just do not bother about any cosmetics to hide the fact that she looks tall.
But then if you are looking for excuses to break up... well then you do not require this forum to give you their thoughts.
Enjoy your life and do not bother about something this petty. Good luck on your marriage and i am sure you will resolve your awkwardness
2007-02-05 18:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by Sudden 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋