they only engaged in non-conventional intercourse (ie oral) and not normal stuff? like how hillary clinton forgave bill, because he 'was not having sexual relations with that woman'..... well would you forgive them?
2007-02-05 19:07:19 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
D- well said!
2007-02-05 19:10:21 · update #1
kiss kris- im talking hypothetically. not about myself!
2007-02-05 19:12:05 · update #2
champagne- good answer ;)
2007-02-05 19:13:28 · update #3
no name woman- you did the right thing :)
2007-02-05 19:14:48 · update #4
mushtag ahmad- i thoought that muslims are not allowed to do oral anyway. well that's what my muslim friend told me. you naughty boy!
2007-02-05 19:17:03 · update #5
dee dee- good answer
2007-02-05 19:17:58 · update #6
hi guys. this is a hypothetical question. just to let you know i could never cheat on my lady! and if she cheated on me then i would just beat the cheater and her!!!
2007-02-05 19:19:48 · update #7
ms m- good answer. but im male and this was a hypothetical question. i wanted to know how 'you' the people would react i your partner cheated on you.... thats all!
2007-02-05 19:21:18 · update #8
brewer82- good answer. common sense used :)
2007-02-05 19:22:27 · update #9
to your question u asked b4..yes some pregnant women love to have sex when they are pregnant and there are some who dont b.c up in the cooch is very senseitive and could be painful to some women!! hope this helps ya! thanks lovely!
2007-02-05 19:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there
Every one deserves a second chance. I have been on both sides of the fence and i can only say that it depends on the individual.
Some people are born cheaters and liars whilst others are first offenders and will never do it again. trust me i lost a part of me that i will never get back when i did it.
If you really love them then give them a second chance and let them prove themselves again. The trust is hard to recover but it can be done. If they are what I call a serial cheater then you will soon find out in a month or two when all the signs start to show again. Some people are just not capable of staying with one person it just depends on what type of relationship you want from your partner.
regards
idai
2007-02-05 19:33:41 · answer #2 · answered by idai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was married for 24 years to a wonderful man. Neither of us ever cheated and I don't know for sure how I might feel but I'm inclined to say I would likely forgive and stay in the marriage.
I don't believe in "once anything always anything". People change and grow. I would never want to be so narrow and shallow as to not give a person a chance for redemption and I would want that for myself as well. Infidelity is no different than any other mistake or transgression. It can be overcome.
It makes no difference, however, whether the sex was "conventional" or not. Kissing is cheating, intercourse is cheating, a ******** is cheating and putting yourself on a dating site is cheating.
2007-02-05 19:20:26 · answer #3 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I forgave my bf and I'm still with him today. It happened at the start of our relatoinship in the first 6 months and have now been together for 3 years. We have a much more stronger relationship now. The important thing is you have to make a decision and stick with it. Every situation is different so I cant say what is right for you. Noone deserves to be cheated on but it is up to you to decide whether you are willing to forgive. If you really can honestly forgive them to give them a second chance then you can start to rebuild your relationship. The most important thing in a relationship is trust and honesty.
2007-02-05 19:13:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
My husband has cheated on me and I forgave him, but you don't forget. In fact I feel a bit stronger, because I was faced up to what would happen if I was left on my own etc. I got a job, sorted my life out and got on with it. It depends on circumstances too of course. It's easy for people to say don't accept it but in some circumstances family and finance have a lot to play in the equation. It's really up to you and don't be influenced by other people, it's your own happiness you have to consider. Anyway there are a lot of things worse than a cheating husband, eg cancer, parents dying. Having been through these situations, him sleeping with a woman is very low on the list.
2007-02-05 19:27:54 · answer #5 · answered by elliebear 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not a chance. And don't misunderstand...Bill Clinton said he "didn't have sexual relations" with his intern because he was lying. Not because oral sex isn't considered sexual relations. Look at the bright side, at least you aren't in the spotlight, being publicly humiliated like Hillary. So see, there's always a bright side. But seriously, dump your partner, that's the worst betrayal of trust that can happen in a relationship. It's not forgivable.
2007-02-05 19:13:33 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Of course not!!
They might not of had intercourse, but oral is still cheating!! When you are with someone you are supposed to be faithful to only them and not touch anyone else. If you want to be with anyone else you shouldn't be in the relationship. There is a saying "A leopard can't change its spots!", what if you forgive your partner and they cheat again, how do you know they it won't end up as full intercourse next time?
Its up to you what you do in the end, but I don't think its a very good idea!!
2007-02-05 20:42:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you still hold on the love for your partner and your partner is willingly to change, i think you should forgive and give your partner another chance to refresh your relationship. People made mistakes and no one is real perfect in the world. Try to find out what is/are the reasons that your partner cheated you and from there both of you can work on something out in better ways?
2007-02-05 19:25:56 · answer #8 · answered by Endless 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is cheatin, kissing, oral, sex, anything.
I forgave my partner (now ex) when she cheated because I loved her, but she obviously didn't love me the same as she carried on, it was hard to let go but in time you do get over it.
It's wrong to say once a cheat, always a cheat, but you have to decide if it's worth risking being hurt again and if she can earn the trust back.
2007-02-05 19:13:08 · answer #9 · answered by cybermoose1982 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it depends on circumstances and how forgiving you are. If you still love him and strongly believe that it was a one off thing and that you can continue to trust him, then give him a chance. People make mistakes and he is after all just human.
Of course, it's a different story if it's been ongoing.
Only you can decide, sweetie.
Wishing you the best!
2007-02-05 19:16:14 · answer #10 · answered by snoringcouchprincess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Multiple studies over the past two decades have shown that men and women are biologically programmed to cheat. We are not a naturally monogamous species. Society decided to program us to think that we will find a "one true love", get married and stay together forever, with no other sexual partners.
I agree that in any relationship, breaking a vow or promise of monogamy, is a painful betrayl. However, I don't think that a relationship or marriage should have to end because of it.
2007-02-05 19:23:16 · answer #11 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋