Please tell me what you think about it? Some of my religious friends disagree with it(and disrepect my beliefs, like a good christian shouldnt! Its SOOO annoying), and i forever have people telling me its wrong. but i dont have those beliefs! What should i do?
2007-02-05 19:05:22 · 7 answers · asked by Kiss_Kris_xo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell your religious friends that you believe something different than they do and ask for some mutual respect. After you guys agree to disagree, stop talking about it. Your sex life and sexual beliefs are really none of their business.
2007-02-05 19:15:42 · answer #1 · answered by Melanie J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What worries me about this question is not who's right or wrong. You sound as though you're determined to have sex before marriage to get even with those in disagreement with you.
The REAL reason you should have sex with someone is if you are in LOVE and committed to a serious relationship. No where do you even mention the feelings of your future partner. You sound very self-absorbed.
Also, are you mature enough to handle any consequences that may arise as a result of said sex? No where in your quesiton do you mention these factors. And no matter how you want to argue the rightness of your decision, the real issues aren't even mentioned here.
Another burning question is: are you able to pay for your own home? You may need to be more financially stable before such a relationship occurs. Maturity means you pay all your own bills.
I'm worried about you and any future sex-partner(s)
2007-02-05 19:30:58 · answer #2 · answered by domesticgoddess 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sex is a drive inside all of us
and if you look back into history every only began to have sex after they were married but if you look closer they were married when they was 16years old
So they were already allowed to have sex on the age of 16 and that is when their sex drives begin
We are still the same human beings with the same needs of the human beings 40years ago the only thing that differs is that we get married at a must older age but the sex drive is still there
So what you make of that sex drive is all up to you
2007-02-05 19:24:07 · answer #3 · answered by SAgirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As human beings we are sexual beings, specific God gave guy this actual present regardless of the undeniable fact that it extremely is been twisted---have you ever seen the stats. touching on misbehavior--a million in 4 has AIDS will you be fortunate to dodge getting it? stay organic using fact as quickly as you lose your virginity you heavily isn't the comparable and those which at the instant are not virgins heavily is in comparison to you. Ask any guy whom they choose as a spouse---a virgin or an experienced woman. nevertheless, whilst one is in the 2d of hobby (getting excited) it extremely is complicated to think of roughly your values whether you may dodge getting into certainly one of those subject in case you do not choose to get tempted---maximum human beings fall to their sexual desires. loss of accountability and capability of ideas . you do not could bypass out and alter into sexually lively to locate the single you seek for---enable God help you. studying jointly would be greater relaxing for the duration of your marriage; being sexually lively potential not something it basically prevents you (somebody) from coming up a real loving relationship. look into the stats. on marriage and divorce---fifty 3% of marriages lead to divorce, if intercourse is each little thing or the only situation that brings a pair jointly it gets previous and then what? I desire i could have waited yet lower back then i replace into not a believer you have this selection. infants as many rewards regardless of the undeniable fact that it additionally has many downfalls.
2016-12-13 10:03:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what u feel like and ure partner fels like. above all i think leave the sex charm for the marriage. other wise u will not enjoy ure marriage.
2007-02-05 19:11:52 · answer #5 · answered by yourfreind_forlife 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
3 rules on sex before marriage...
1) be patient... but if u cant be patient....
2) be careful... and if u cant be careful...
3) be responsible.
2007-02-05 19:11:09 · answer #6 · answered by amurojayxxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Respect your own beliefs before you respect others'. This is your life, not theirs...your relationship, not theirs...your business, not theirs
2007-02-05 19:09:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋