With the person you love... nobody's perfect and we all have them... i.e., how do you live with and love someone who's arrogant?
2007-02-05 18:46:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you can remember the 'vows' that you made with your husband, then you should accept them for who they are. "For better or for worse".
Yes, you are right about nobody is perfect, but when mistakes are being made, we actually learn from our mistakes and do better the next time around. (smile)
2007-02-05 18:53:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you choose to live with them, you don't let them disrespect you and you don't behave the way they do. You stand your ground and don't let them run over you. I would tell him'' honey you are an arrogant man and each time you are being arrogant, I'm gonna have to let you know the truth about what you're being arrogant about''. I had a boyfriend that use to brag to me about having a big appetite for women and sex. He was a good man and good provider, but he was so arrogant about himself. Once I smelled perfume on him and he lied about it coming from his mother and I said to him so sweetly,'' I knew it had to been from your mom, because you're not the stud you want to be, but you sure smell sweet''. He stopped bragging to me about loving women. He even stop thinking he was the best lover that ever laid with me. You have to find away to let him know that his thinking isn't the best way to think and everybody don't think what he think about himself. Do it with kindness, because the more you get anger about it, the more he'll continue doing it. You know arrogant people are just insecure people trying to portray an image that will make them become the person they Wish they could be.
2007-02-05 19:13:19 · answer #2 · answered by Go GO Ressa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as the arrogance is not to the point of putting you down because if their pointing out faults in you that's a different story. If he is just a positive willing to trying anything guy nothing wrong with that you just accept it, ignore when he makes certain comments, etc...
2007-02-09 14:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by keriss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Huh! I don't think I would learn to love a person who is arrogant,yeh,no body;s perfect but that is in regard to what we do, >.not a good cook,not good on parking a car,not good on directions etc..etc...We are dealing here one on one, I will not live and love their faults, thank you very much, I only live once in my life. If a person loves me he must have the character of no cheating, no liar,no physical and mental abuse,no laziness and no arrogance, "who does he thinks he is, that he is better than me and any one else?" I would love a person but not his faults.
2007-02-05 19:33:37 · answer #4 · answered by Vannili 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hon, he seem's really insecure if he's acting that badly. Just smile and nod your head and then leave the room when he starts running his mouth. Get a job if you don't already have one... just keep busy. Get a hobby. When he finds he can no longer annoy you with his remarks he will stop. If he doesn't then get a new guy by all means. His ego will surely be shot if you do that, maybe then he won't be so arrogant. Love yourself first hon, then the rest will fall into place.
2007-02-05 19:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by imjustwondering 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try to discover your faults and concentrate on becoming a better person. You have enough to work on for the next 50 years. if you do not think you have many faults, then it is you that is arrogant.
Accept others for what they are and change your self. You will find happiness.
2007-02-05 19:10:18 · answer #6 · answered by kuyasaya 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get 2 books and read them! These two books saved my marriage! For Better Or For Best by Gary Smalley and The 5 Love languages by Gary Chapman. I'm telling you from expirence they work!
2007-02-05 19:16:28 · answer #7 · answered by sasy_tabby 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 05:36:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lf you love someone whos arrogant,you gotta accept his arrogancy....or try to change it nicely .
2007-02-05 18:59:55 · answer #9 · answered by ann 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you live with people fault,firstly ,by accepting them for who they are.also by high level of tolerance and patience, most of all with a lot of forgiviness .thanks
2007-02-05 19:02:16 · answer #10 · answered by yvonneashuyinks y 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋