Family & Relationships - 2 February 2007

My boyfriend & I are both 22 & have been together for a year & a half, have NO children & we also live together. Up until about 2 months ago our sex life was great..we'd do it at least 4-5 times a week but now a days our sex life is non-exisistent I am lucky if I can get it 1 x a week or even 1x every 2 weeks. I have asked him plenty of times why this is the case. His replies are usually, "im tired", "i have too much on my mind" or " Im too stressed". These exsuces were okay for a while but now I really dont believe them anymore...they are getting old. I know he's not cheating on me, as I have looked into it and am 100% positive. The thing is when I bring it up he gets very angry about it and it leads to a full blown arguement which is never my intenion.He tells me I am sexy, beautiful and that he loves me ...so then why does he never want sexual intimacy with me??? Thanks for the advice:-)

2007-02-02 06:24:28 · 30 answers · asked by angeleyez410 1 in Singles & Dating

she told me in November that it would never happen again. low and behold 3 weeks later she was with him. every since Christmas she has been lying to me and i found out by one of her guilt ridden friends. i confronted her and come to find out that she was with him yesterday. she claims to not like him it is just that im soooo far away. both her friends and family are now involved with her "sex life" and keepin tabs on her my question is would you take her back. im still in love with this one but i will give her up if i have to...so please could you give me some advice...thanks

2007-02-02 06:24:19 · 15 answers · asked by Jay J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-02 06:24:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if your boyfriend had tongue cancer, will I get it from him? I mean if you contact with him everyday, what will effect on me? during the time he has radiation, is it ok to be around him?

2007-02-02 06:23:07 · 12 answers · asked by sunshine 1 in Singles & Dating

I AM HI RITE NOW AN I FEEL LIKE TYPING SLANG DET IS FINE WIT ME IF U DONT LIKE IT DEN GO FLvCK YOUR CAT. AN BYTHE WAY WIN MY BOYFREND GETS OFF WORK IM PUTTING SLEEPING PILLS IN THE CHILI AND TAKIN HIS CREDIT CARD TO GO TO DA MALL AN THERES NUTTING U CAN DO BOUT IT!

2007-02-02 06:22:41 · 11 answers · asked by Daisy 1 in Singles & Dating

Today was the second time in my 25 years where a lady said no to me because she wanted to focus her life. Are we as men that much of a distraction or is it the whole dating scene that is a distraction?

I asked if she was afraid to say no. She said she was interested but just didn't have the time. How if possible can I get her to find time to date.

I respect women who want to focuse their lives. I am just a little saddened that I cannot enjoy time with such a beautiful one. Oh well I will move on there are plenty of others.

2007-02-02 06:22:25 · 10 answers · asked by Irockdapartay 1 in Singles & Dating

He is nothing like my ex.We have been friends for years.

2007-02-02 06:21:35 · 60 answers · asked by trixie 1 in Singles & Dating

I really need help, I do love her and want to stay married. Should I?
a.) come clean about everything
b.) Deny everything and stop the affair
c.) not worry about it because she will never prove anything ( I really like "being" with this other woman.)

2007-02-02 06:21:03 · 48 answers · asked by Scotty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when i was born the doctor said i will be a lovely child with gawjus looks. but he was wrong, cos im ugly, my mum says i am all the time. she said that when i was born the doctor slapped jesus. i duno if shes joking or shes actually saying she hates me..then last night in an act of revenge i slept with her bf of 7 years...im rly feeling guilty even though i enjoyed it.

my mums bf sed he wants 2 leave my mum 4 me..i duno what 2 do, i think i love him but is the relationship with my mum worth saving? please help

2007-02-02 06:20:59 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

everytime we ask the same questions and we answer the same answers.we want to refresh our topics and talk in new ones and im sure everyone of u have his own ideas.

2007-02-02 06:20:29 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have two kids that i have sole custody of most things are cool with my youngest ones mother but my older child s mother was hooked on drugs and she got all of her rights taken away by te court. now (6 years later) she is off drugs i told her i need help money wise (i asked for $100.00) a month. she said she dosen't have to pay since she had her rights removed. i thinks she is wrong. i told her that when the child turns 18 her helping out will influence the out come in the relationship. sorry this is so long i think i just needed to vent for a min....
one reason she said she can't help is she needs to get things taken care for her self.. like a car her teeth fixed, and school

2007-02-02 06:20:27 · 13 answers · asked by talonmcl 2 in Family

i had sex bout a month ago but i started my period but i havent had it again n my nipples hurt

2007-02-02 06:19:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Now, that I've changed my life, it seems I only get asked out by guys that party. Then it's like they don't know where to invite me since I no longer party. I just need to be patient I know, but I'm just curious.

2007-02-02 06:18:48 · 16 answers · asked by Green Eyes 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 06:17:44 · 42 answers · asked by virgodoll 4 in Singles & Dating

other than the wheelchair?

2007-02-02 06:17:18 · 12 answers · asked by SEAHAWK 1 in Singles & Dating

What is a unique way to display place cards for a wedding? I dont want the place cards in picture frames, same ol' same ol' etc...

2007-02-02 06:16:43 · 10 answers · asked by Kirsten S 2 in Weddings

bill lives in portland maine he is 43 or 44 he was a good friend of mine an now i cant find him , im new to this qustion an aswers so not sure how this goes but somehow please contack me at @rosebodeano777@aol or bodeano777@yahoo.com an t/y, bethj

2007-02-02 06:16:34 · 5 answers · asked by Beth J 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this girl right and wanna go out to spend sometime with to get to know her. Should I be the one paying for everything or should it be equal cause we not in a relationship?

2007-02-02 06:16:05 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here's the deal.my sister has bothered me with my wedding planning, not purposely, but has been picky with everything because she's pregant and is due within 2 months of my wedding date. There's not one particular thing, it's just her attitude about our wedding in general. My fiance told me that he was going to call her and talk to her about it if she said one more thing negative about it. And of course I opened my big mouth and said she mentioned that she didn't like one of the meal options we're offering, and he's like, that's it I'm calling her to talk to her. He was calling her to remind her that it is my day and to start being supportive. I told him that I didn't really want him to, but he called her when he was at work and left a message saying he'd call back. So, my sister called me and asked me why he called. And I was caught off guard and told her the truth.Now she's mad and assuming that he was going to talk harse to her and he's not allowed over there.Was he disrespectful?

2007-02-02 06:15:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My step-daughter has lived with us for 6months. Before that she lived with her mother and her 9yr old brother. The two of them were inseperable. Now when he comes for his weekend visits she treats him like dirt and won't spend any time with him. She also tries to manipulate all her father's time so that he cannot spend time with her little brother. Any suggestions on how to get her to get over her jealousy or whatever it is that is going on?

2007-02-02 06:15:00 · 7 answers · asked by nibbles 1 in Family

my ex of about 3 months called me the other day. about 2 months ago i was still thinking about her strongly. i met her 2 years ago and was dating her best friend. i lost contact for about a year and a half with her then met up again and went with her for about a month and a half. the break up was all my fault. i started talking to another girl and we broke up. i gave her a watch that was special to me on her birthday before we broke up and when she called she said she still had it, but she wanted to burn it or run it over, she only kept it because she said it was cute. but we talked and i found out she wasnt a virgin anymore because she was when we were together(we attempted to have sex but it didn't go to smooth) and i was so disappointed i told her that i was supposed to be her first and she hurt my feeling by saying well that's not my fault. she has had 3 exes since me and cheated on all of them but she didnt on me and has a bf now who she says is special but is on the verge of

2007-02-02 06:14:08 · 12 answers · asked by IisIam 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 06:14:02 · 7 answers · asked by Fabinuma 1 in Family

she will wating for hem and he will see her same day for live togethers or hem realy dont care about he chiritme whit her last year

2007-02-02 06:13:22 · 12 answers · asked by Maria A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i was recently dumped, not really sure why maybe it was due to my low self-esteem but anyway i got a hair cut and i couldn't believe it when i was in college today nearly everyone said how great i looked even people i don't even talk to! it was a great feeling and kind of weird too i saw my ex 3 times today and i never really see him but i just walked passed him with not a care in the world where as before it really hurt me to see him. now i truely believe what people had been telling me all along that i was too good for him,funny how it takes 2months and a hair cut to realise that! for now at least i am finally happy! i can hold my head up high,anyone here been though the same thing? why can a hair cut make you feel so much better??? its only hair after all!!!

2007-02-02 06:12:50 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I personaly think my dad is a total *** hole. I could be wrong, but there's just too much to explain. I just want a simple answer. Do you have a parent or parents that are mean?

2007-02-02 06:12:29 · 14 answers · asked by Titainsrule 4 in Family

2007-02-02 06:11:55 · 13 answers · asked by Tesa B 1 in Singles & Dating

My friends just filled my room with packing peanuts and i want to do smething back to them, but i can't think of anything that would be cheap, easy, and allowed in a college dorm. Legal too please!

2007-02-02 06:11:50 · 7 answers · asked by ciarrai164 2 in Friends

i just got my friends gf pregnant twice in one night and he knows cos he saw and says when they do a dna test hes gonna bash me up proper and his gf said shes gona rape me for years as punishment and i duno what to do dawg i cant deal with this

2007-02-02 06:11:49 · 15 answers · asked by urmum7 1 in Singles & Dating

after i reformatted my pc i had to install back my webcam from its installation CD but i couldnt find it

2007-02-02 06:11:29 · 3 answers · asked by Egyptian Daffodil 5 in Singles & Dating

Im a sophmore in highschool, and dont really have alot of success with girls. Im friends with many but can't seem t date or hook up with any of them. Latley I had my eye on this one girl that is a freshman. All i really wanna know is how to get her attention. I dont really need help getting her to like me, cuz its too early for that. All I wanna know is how to actually start hanging out with this girl. BTW imma shy guy soo thats why im not a real mac daddy with the girls.

2007-02-02 06:11:21 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating