It may be that she misses him and getting close to him on these occasional visits is too painful. It may be easier for her to hate him than to accept how much she misses him.
Or, we are talking about a teenage girl, and who knows what makes them tick. Maybe she's got a new circle of friends and simply doesn't want to spend time with him.
You can at least stop the manipulation of the father by planning something to do with her so that dad can spend time alone with his son.
Plan some family activities that will force them to interact - play board games, go to the park, stuff like that. If she continues to misbehave, tell her that, if she can't get along, you'll find a sitter for her while you take the boy to do fun stuff. I'm betting that will make her straighten up her attitude.
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2007-02-02 06:17:36
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answered by Shaft 2
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it really is an exceedingly troublesome and massive determination. In a experience I accept as true with what some have reported about letting her pass stay such as her mom and she or he receives a style of what that existence is truly like. it would want to be she has this delusion equipped up in her head about what it would want to be like and could hit upon this is a few distance from reality. on the different hand, i will also to narrate to what others have reported about it being a supervision difficulty. So...i might want to ask round and get a referral to a fantastically counseled therapist. Take the doorstep daughter to counseling besides as your self and husband. Get some ideas to what is going on in her head and why it really is she hates it at your position. discover out from the therapist if you're being to strict on her. Get a suggestion from the therapist on what her opinion the most perfect position for the newborn will be.
2016-10-17 04:52:38
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answered by Anonymous
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first she is a 13 year old girl. i always said look out when the hit 12. You have no idea how horrible life can be when a girl hits 12.
If brother needs time with dad. Maybe they should spend it somewhere away from sis. She needs her alone teen time. She will come out of it, but for now just leave miss raging hormone pms sis alone. take the good days when you can get them
2007-02-02 06:21:28
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answered by Shelly t 6
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U have to realise that she is now a teenager and her body is going through alot of changes. She may not get that level of closeness back for some time. But u need to keep the line of communication open with her or she will drift away from u too.
2007-02-02 10:29:27
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answered by wildpalomino 7
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This is for her father to handle, not her stepmother.
This may be normal for a teenage girl.
He should let her know that she still needs to be a good sister, and he has to be the best father he can be, and he lives with her but not with her brother, so he needs special time with him.
2007-02-02 08:20:47
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answered by The First Dragon 7
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She is a teenager its normal, jealous and manipulative.
But her Dad has to tell her he wants to spend his time with her brother since he is part of his family too.He can give her the weekends the brother isn't there. But he has to do this..
2007-02-02 06:20:01
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answered by Tapestry6 7
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I suggest her father say something to her about it. If you say something, she'll just think you're just butting in and you have no right. If father lets her know he wants to spend time with his son and wants her to treat him better, she'll either listen or she won't but atleast it's out there and everybody knows what everybody thinks! COMMUNICATION IS THE KEY!
2007-02-02 06:33:24
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answered by cmdgrrl 2
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