He is nothing like my ex.We have been friends for years.
2007-02-02 06:21:35 · 60 answers · asked by trixie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHY NOT? ITS YOUR CALL....ENJOY!!!!!!
2007-02-02 06:23:39 · answer #1 · answered by The Emperor of Ecstasy 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Wow...what a question! i have wondered that for years, having been in a similar situation to yours. What i would ask you is...how is that going to effect your family? Are there kids involved who might get confused about why uncle is dating mommy? If no kids, then how would you feel about having your ex as a brother-in-law possibly down the road? Would your ex try to sabotage your relationship by talking badly about you to his brother? If you think you can deal with all the gossip and such that might develop, i say...GO FOR IT! Oh, and why did i not try to date my ex's bro even though i love him thoroughly? Well, we are SO much alike, we would have irritated each other! i just call him my brother now and he calls me sister. And we play in a band together which is just absolutely wonderful! Best wishes...i sincerely hope it works out for you!
2007-02-02 06:29:33 · answer #2 · answered by fair blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't. He and your ex are brothers, they can be different from each other but why would you want to be around your ex all the time? He won't stop being his brother. And it can also be confusing to your children for him to go from uncle to daddy? No. It's just not in good taste, you'll be tied down to the exact same family and you're going to create a rift between him and his brother, something a woman shouldn't come between.
2007-02-02 06:26:04 · answer #3 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. that's incorrect and could deliver undesirable karma. additionally ? he's an ex for a reason, remember. there are 1000's of different adult adult males on the planet. certainly you will hit upon one that may not blood concerning to your ex-husband. Peace.
2016-09-28 08:08:01 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how well you feel it would go over with his family. If you two were to get serious, would you be welcomed at family gatherings and would this make your ex uncomfortable? I've known people who have married the brother or sister of their ex and it has worked out.
2007-02-02 06:24:56 · answer #5 · answered by schweetums 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go out with an ex brother-in-law because its making everything worse! I would continue to move on with my life and not date an ex family member!
2007-02-02 06:26:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No!!! why would you want too!!! If you think you had trouble in your life when you divorced your husband, it will be mild compared to the trouble you will cause dating his brother. You will end up on the Jerry Springer show. Don't ask for trouble, move on.
2007-02-02 06:30:59 · answer #7 · answered by springer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it is not right neither ethical. It is ¨too close to home¨ for him. Out of respect for the relationship and him you shouldn´t. But that is a personal thing, and everyone has their own opinion.
2007-02-02 06:28:35 · answer #8 · answered by jo_anna1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may not hurt your ex since you're friends but it would affect your friendship over time because you would become closer to his brother, and those secrets and closeness that you and your exhusband share would become diluted by his brother and your ex would feel left out. Bad idea....
2007-02-02 06:25:38 · answer #9 · answered by Gist 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you don't value your life, your ex will likely cut your limbs off with a chainsaw. Are you a moron? Maybe you should go on Jerry Springer and ask him.
2007-02-02 06:25:02 · answer #10 · answered by Gostenhauser5 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both brothers will be on the edges of the swords when you marry yr ex's brother.
2007-02-02 06:24:53 · answer #11 · answered by ButterMilkQueso 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋