Today was the second time in my 25 years where a lady said no to me because she wanted to focus her life. Are we as men that much of a distraction or is it the whole dating scene that is a distraction?
I asked if she was afraid to say no. She said she was interested but just didn't have the time. How if possible can I get her to find time to date.
I respect women who want to focuse their lives. I am just a little saddened that I cannot enjoy time with such a beautiful one. Oh well I will move on there are plenty of others.
2007-02-02 06:22:25 · 10 answers · asked by Irockdapartay 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be her friend for now. Invite her to go places with you. When she has free time maybe you two could grab lunch, a movie, or even just take a walk between daily errands. Maybe she doesn't want to date and feel as if she's neglecting the relationship and being unfair to you. Just cause there's not a title there doesn't mean you can't spend time with her.
2007-02-02 06:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by Mommy of 2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this is only the second time you've been denied in your life, I would say you done quite well. Of course, I don't know how many times you've tried. I also don't really know what you mean by being denied. If you believe that all relationships with the opposite sex has to end in sex, then you truly are in for a lot of disappointments. I'm getting the sense that you might have some deep routed problem dealing with rejection. You might want to discuss this with your doctor.
2007-02-02 14:33:18 · answer #2 · answered by Trail Hiker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this day and age ladies dont want a guy to come into their lives and ruin them...it used to be that women had to depend on a man for their living but now it is not the wisest decision a woman can make in terms of her best interest...it's really sad that it has come to that but men have made their own grave........too many men mistreat women and i think that women are just plain ol tired of the drama
2007-02-02 14:27:20 · answer #3 · answered by bertha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I completely understand the whole concept of not having the time to spare for involvement in a relationship. What I don't understand is how you've only been denied twice over 25 years! Consider yourself lucky!
2007-02-02 14:25:55 · answer #4 · answered by J D 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe this woman dated someone who said the same thing as you and pulled nothin but crap on her and she doesnt want to risk it. Respect her decisions dude
2007-02-02 14:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by Tabbitatt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Over your lifetime you will be shotdown a few more times. It is good for your ego and keeps you in check. You'll live.
2007-02-02 14:32:37 · answer #6 · answered by Simply Lovely 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, your main interest in this woman is her looks? I'm thinking she may have sensed this and that's why she turned you down.
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2007-02-02 14:25:21 · answer #7 · answered by Shaft 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
obviously she did not feel a connection with you, swallow your ego and move on.
2007-02-02 14:28:13 · answer #8 · answered by velvet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may be possible she is playing hard to get...Try your best at it but know her limits so you dont repulse her
2007-02-02 14:25:24 · answer #9 · answered by angl_n_a_strght_jckt 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
JUST HAVE SEX WITH HER DUDE.. THEN IF UR GOOD SHE'LL STICK AROUND
2007-02-02 14:27:12 · answer #10 · answered by MeLLy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋