Family & Relationships - 2 February 2007

Well, it may sound funny but their is this guy(suppose a) in class and i like him and so does he . But the thing is that i cannot talk to him, he might be the only guy and i the only girl who don't talk with each other.
plus their is a rumour that another guy(suppose x) and i like each other and their had been a rumour last year that this guy i like liked another girl (suppose z)and she liked him.
the guy (x) actually likes me but i don't. and this girl(z) actually likes him(a). could you please tell me what to do???????????

2007-02-02 06:50:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Sometimes I don't understand the women...

Sometimes I try to do my best, and the girl doesnt want...
Sometimes I don't even watch the girl, and actually she is waiting...
Why are girls so complicated, I suppose I'll never understand it...( as Sylvester Stallone said...)

2007-02-02 06:49:51 · 7 answers · asked by BLUE 2 in Singles & Dating

over the internet would you fly to another state to be with her? What if the only reason she was staying married was for the kids and her and her husband were not intimate anymore? I really want to go and meet this woman.
Please Help.

2007-02-02 06:48:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband exwife who he shares 2 children with got diagnosed with cancer last month.its curable and she has a huge local support team(mom,dad,sisters,freinds).the problem is she relies on my husband for everything.we now have both girls(which i love)almost full time(as she needed surgery and chemo) but continue to pay full child support to her.we are not rich by all means and this is really hurting us.plus she allways wants my husband to come visit her with the girls,or have my husband pick her up to bring her to the girls sports/school activities(her mom/sisters could do this to just as easly)the reason i seem so much like a b-tch is this women made our lifes hell befor she got sick i can't even begin to tell u the stuff she has done.now that shes sick she wants my husband to be her good friend.the problem is my husband does all this stuff for her and even throws extra money her way that we don't have.i do feel sorry for her but i can't forget all the things she has done to us.

2007-02-02 06:48:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i myself like to go from a quiet moan to a few screams, but i've heard of men who are intimidated by expresive women. Which one do you prefer?

2007-02-02 06:48:20 · 19 answers · asked by dianabarff 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy, sparks instantly, I was attracted by his charm, his personality - just his energy was attractive. He's not even the type of guy I'd normally go for. Well, he made me shy, so I asked him out - he blushed and said yes, while I got nervous and bolted out the door!

I attempted to see him another time, and he walked towards me...said hello, in a low voice and stared at the ground. I got nervous again and said nothing.

So now, months later - I knew I'd regret it if I didnt make a move. I told him I wanted to take him out. I didn't feel the same energy as before. In fact, he wasn't shy or nervous anymore. He was able to look me straight in the eye and he replied with, "I'm taken now. But thank you anyway".

I'm sad. I missed my chance.

2007-02-02 06:48:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive known a guy in work for just under 18 months when i first started we got on like a house on fire but once i felt i had feelings for him as im shy myself i didnt know how to express myself with him. I really feel like he likes me and thats why hes shy/nervous round me and not other gals yet when i go on work dos i have to initate convo with him as he tends to just stand there yet we have good convos in work like he shares family stories,problems we have the same interests. As ive backed off from him when i now talk to him when i finish what ive to say hell say something or stand there to see if i still want to talk to him or to keep me there. I am so confused as i thought on work dos it would give him chance to make move but he doesnt. Should i make more effort with him. I sensed that electric feeling from him so i hope i didnt get it 100 per cent wrong

2007-02-02 06:47:54 · 16 answers · asked by ludvigjs 1 in Singles & Dating

how can i get a girl if i`m not so good-looking?? any ideas are appreciated...

2007-02-02 06:47:24 · 2 answers · asked by Pax2U 2 in Singles & Dating

Recently I have discovered some very unsavory traits of my new husband. I extended myself considerably to make his life easier as he adjusted to being in the US. We dated 1.5 years before we married. Now since we have married (almost 4 months), I have discovered the other side. Basically if he is stressed, he can be very very mean, intolerant and borderline emotionally abusive. I am not minimizing my concern. He loves me, I love him, but I can see this turning very sour in the near future. This week and last was hell. Literally , it has been very good up to this point. I asked for counseling. I am being understanding. I am talking to my friends for better understanding.

Since last night, he has been nicer. He by the way thinks it is me of course. Who knows how the weekend will go. I am about to give up. The behaviors are abnormal and the kind that may lead to problems later. I don't know if I can trust him anymore. Should I let it go a while longer and wait and see?

2007-02-02 06:47:02 · 10 answers · asked by kishoti 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband is not a card person and I want to besides telling him how much I love him show him in a unique way (out side of the bed) something that could really wow him. Suggestions please.We have been married for 18yrs and I have run out of ideas. Thanks in advance ; - )

2007-02-02 06:47:01 · 7 answers · asked by serenitykay 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, there is this guy who lived in the studenthouse next to mine and one evening i went to his room because i was bored and didn't like being alone in my room. When i went there the first evening we talked a lot and when it was 2am i told him i wanted to go to my room to sleep. when i wanted to leave the room he stood in front of me, but realy close, and said i should stay a little longer.. but i didn't. he also asked me my email adress and made me a cd with songs. The next day he asked me what i was going to do the weekend. I just said that i had a lot of work for an exam.
I find it a bit confusing, does he just want to be friends or more than that?? Also he’s 26 and i’m just 19 years old.

2007-02-02 06:46:21 · 16 answers · asked by iam_Amie 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband works, and I stay at home with our daughter. I am with her 24/7. I love her with all my heart, but everyone needs a break don't they? I see it as he gets to go to work and get a way, but me, I am here, I no longer have the friends I use to, I moved on with my life and they are still partying it up.

I am just really stressed out about this situation because he gripes that he does not get to go fishing, but what is my fishing? I can't just up and leave. He is a wonderful father and husband its just he doesnt see that things change when you have a family.

*No sour answers please* just because we are a young married couple with a child doesn't mean we screwed up*and just because I said I moved on with my life doesnt mean I am just a dumb high school graduate, I am planning to go to college when she is about a year* So no rude answers such as, you should have kept your legs closed, or your to young for a baby.
i am 19 and he is 21

2007-02-02 06:46:19 · 16 answers · asked by ntkwilliamson@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family

I have to sensor this question, so read carefully.
At night my boyfriend goes into the washroom for long periods of time before we go to bed. One time I used the washroom after him and noticed what seemed to be a little evidence that he was "self abusing" in there.

I'm a little naive when it comes to these things... why would he be doing that? Do I just not cut it for him, or what? We aren't having sex, but we definitely do things which would normally get him "there"... or should for that matter, but sometimes he can't..

any insight? serious answers please

2007-02-02 06:45:48 · 10 answers · asked by carlaerickson 5 in Singles & Dating

my husband exwife who he shares 2 children with got diagnosed with cancer last month.its curable and she has a huge local support team(mom,dad,sisters,freinds).the problem is she relies on my husband for everything.we now have both girls(which i love)almost full time(as she needed surgery and chemo) but continue to pay full child support to her.we are not rich by all means and this is really hurting us.plus she allways wants my husband to come visit her with the girls,or have my husband pick her up to bring her to the girls sports/school activities(her mom/sisters could do this to just as easly)the reason i seem so much like a b-tch is this women made our lifes hell befor she got sick i can't even begin to tell u the stuff she has done.now that shes sick she wants my husband to be her good friend.the problem is my husband does all this stuff for her and even throws extra money her way that we don't have.i do feel sorry for her but i can't forget all the things she has done to us.

2007-02-02 06:45:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My hubbie looks at other girls all the time,He does it more now then before. Nothing obvious, but I catch it. I know it's natural but it bugs me. It hurts to know I dressed up to look good for him and he drifts off and looks at some other girl.
any thoughts on this girls?

2007-02-02 06:44:37 · 42 answers · asked by grl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I would like low centerpieces for my wedding. I believe we are having round tables with white linens with alternating yellow & teal table runners/napkins. The only ideas I have so far are floating flowers/candle. I dont want anything over 6 inches or so.

2007-02-02 06:44:30 · 9 answers · asked by Kirsten S 2 in Weddings

2007-02-02 06:44:19 · 14 answers · asked by harish k 1 in Weddings

After years of the marriage being over why do they think you still have to take care of them. That you owe them when it is them that left??

2007-02-02 06:43:28 · 14 answers · asked by Me C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband exwife who he shares 2 children with got diagnosed with cancer last month.its curable and she has a huge local support team(mom,dad,sisters,freinds).the problem is she relies on my husband for everything.we now have both girls(which i love)almost full time(as she needed surgery and chemo) but continue to pay full child support to her.we are not rich by all means and this is really hurting us.plus she allways wants my husband to come visit her with the girls,or have my husband pick her up to bring her to the girls sports/school activities(her mom/sisters could do this to just as easly)the reason i seem so much like a b-tch is this women made our lifes hell befor she got sick i can't even begin to tell u the stuff she has done.now that shes sick she wants my husband to be her good friend.the problem is my husband does all this stuff for her and even throws extra money her way that we don't have.i do feel sorry for her but i can't forget all the things she has done to us.

2007-02-02 06:43:23 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

im not sure f this is true or not ?? so guys tell us ... is it true that u feel happy or enjoyment when a girl blushs cuz of somethingu said ????/?...

thanx for the answers..

2007-02-02 06:43:02 · 7 answers · asked by Non_SEnse 3 in Singles & Dating

why when you do a boy so right he turns it into a break up? because i just broke up with my man for 2years, and now he is jealous because im about to go and chill with other people and make new friends . i just dont understand; i cant do anything i dont want because i still love him but gosh, why?

2007-02-02 06:42:56 · 7 answers · asked by dikdabutty56 1 in Singles & Dating

he visits me everyday he takes me to school and picks me up from school the thing is we dont have much privacy and for me to have sex with him we cut school and go to his house our sex life is great at least to me it is but im bored cuz we cnt go out cuz family dnt trust me so i stay home all day and see him at 6 till 8 or 9 so that is why im bored and want to go back how it use to wen we went around and rode the motorcycle all arround pr and go get ice cream and etc...just everything we use to do that we hardly do now

2007-02-02 06:42:53 · 5 answers · asked by TUTY♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

we're NOT related...he is my 1st cuzin's 2nd cuzin. but they aren't even related cuz he has a step mom. that sounds pretty confusing. but i just want to know if it's wrong. cuz i know for sure we're not related.

2007-02-02 06:42:37 · 15 answers · asked by Spongebob ") 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 06:42:22 · 12 answers · asked by John S 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 06:42:22 · 18 answers · asked by k d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

all the break-ups were because of me and each one took over months

2007-02-02 06:42:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I liek to go out side named i just like being outside going place i could not when its in the day. i need to wacth out for dogs and cars though. i need help thinking of ideas of want to due outside naked. or something not to hard but easy.

note i live in the subburbs. with see through fences mostly.

2007-02-02 06:41:42 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

2007-02-02 06:41:39 · 2 answers · asked by angelwings_g 1 in Friends

We have talked about marriage.I am 32 and he is 23.I thought he would ask me to marry him around Christmas.(His mom gave me the impression he was gonna ask)But he didnt. I confronted him about the marriage issue and he said he wants to marry me but not right now.Im in no hurry but it sounds like he just doesnt want to be trapped. Am I reading this wrong??? PLEASE HELP!!!!

2007-02-02 06:41:27 · 4 answers · asked by kimberlybem2006 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-02 06:41:10 · 4 answers · asked by fasica 1 in Family