2007-02-02 06:42:22 · 18 answers · asked by k d 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well if you are both open minded go for it.You may not be the center of attention and that might hurt but make sure you and your husband talk about it before it happens and what you expect of each other and how far over the line either of you can cross and still stay married.But if you are happily married I would scrap the idea.Good Luck
2007-02-02 06:52:03 · answer #1 · answered by sparky75us 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My answer would be...tell him that you want to go to a strip club they call it exotic dancing there. Then - just don't sit there and watch. Get up there yourself (next to the stage), throw some money down and just sit back and watch, get entertained and watch your husbands reaction. I will tell you from firsthand experience that this is one exciting little adventure. I don't know what you ladies have, well I do, but you get more attention and longer attention than us guys do. See how you both like it. Then maybe later you can spend the money and bring someone in. My wife just mentioned to me the other day that we should find another strip club. :-) Good Luck and have fun.
2007-02-02 09:14:57 · answer #2 · answered by eaglepoint1a 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Might be better if the wife learns how to do some exotic dancing for her husband then perform. He like most men will want a happy ending
2007-02-02 06:50:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I guess if you both are into it, than what can it hurt.? The problem is that sometimes we women decide to make a decision like this and it ends up breaking our hearts ( or marriage for that matter) You need to make sure that you are confident enough as a woman not become jealous or mad when you see your husband interacting with another woman. For me personally, I couldn't do it. Good Luck
2007-02-02 06:53:34 · answer #4 · answered by harv_Girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok, so i'm getting the place you're coming from. no longer that i've got ever been in this occasion, yet i will only think of how poor it would desire to be. Now i do no longer think of you're able to take this interest. i understand you're wanting greater advantageous comments at this factor yet that's how i've got faith. ( i'm 14, would be 15 in December so i'm approximately your age). besides the reality that i've got faith this way, i understand you're no longer a slut or something. i think of that's large you're able to bypass the greater effective mile to help out, yet i genuinely think of which you're able to bypass the greater effective mile by using doing a diverse interest...whether the unique dancing will pay ALOT. And it would get greater durable and greater durable to maintain mendacity on your mom. whether you're only asserting its 'yet another interest', she might ask your self why you have become paid so a lot greater greater effective than a youngster could be getting paid with a prevalent minimum salary interest. Plus, there are continually problems with prevalent jobs, yet problems might ensue much greater with this sort of interest. So that's my opinion, yet I say stable success with despite your decision is. wish I helped, and that i'm hoping each and every thing starts getting greater valuable. :)
2016-11-24 19:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by buckingham 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a great idea as long as the two of you are in full agreement and have set or not set boundaries. The two of you should be comfortable and secure with each other in the relationship. It should go both ways. She brings in a female stripper for you and the next time you bring in a male stripper for her. Turnabout is fair play. Have fun!!
2007-02-02 07:06:37 · answer #6 · answered by curious george 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if the wife is not hot, bad idea, and the drunk husband will probably try to get it on with the stripper. It could go to either show, Dr Phil or Jerry Springer....good luck
2007-02-02 07:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by jimmy.parker06 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I don't think it's a good idea- for a lot of reasons but most married guys wouldn't enjoy that in front of their wives- I think it's more fun when they sneak out and watch it or go with other guys.
2007-02-02 06:46:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How a woman that TRULY loves a man and sit and watch him get all hot and bothered by another woman while paying NO attention to you (an no, he wont be thinking about YOU) is totally beyond me......
Do you really think that proves your security in yourself? It doesn't. A woman who TRULY is secure in herself feels she deserves to have ALL the love and ALL the attention of her man. She is worthy enough to not have to share his affections with someone else.
2007-02-02 06:59:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! NO! NO! AND NO! Doing this is just asking for trouble and possibly opening a door of temptation that could lead to affairs and divorce.
2007-02-02 07:32:00 · answer #10 · answered by saylavie2u2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋