ok, there is this guy who lived in the studenthouse next to mine and one evening i went to his room because i was bored and didn't like being alone in my room. When i went there the first evening we talked a lot and when it was 2am i told him i wanted to go to my room to sleep. when i wanted to leave the room he stood in front of me, but realy close, and said i should stay a little longer.. but i didn't. he also asked me my email adress and made me a cd with songs. The next day he asked me what i was going to do the weekend. I just said that i had a lot of work for an exam.
I find it a bit confusing, does he just want to be friends or more than that?? Also he’s 26 and i’m just 19 years old.
2007-02-02 06:46:21 · 16 answers · asked by iam_Amie 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him and ask him
2007-02-02 06:50:21 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be careful. It sounds like his relationship could develop into being obsess with you. There is really no telling what he was thinking about trying to do to you by him stepping in front of you before you left. If I were you I would play it safe and always bring a friend with you whenever you kick it with this guy, let someone know where you are when you go over to his room.
2007-02-02 14:53:50 · answer #2 · answered by mrsdeanslist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should take extreme caution while around him.
it sounds like he wants to be more than friends just not in a friendly way.
you said he cut you off while trying to leave his room and asked to you to stay longer. thats a sign he wanted to have sex. and i didn't have to be there to tell you that you were in a dangerous
situation that could have lead to rape or any other kind of abuse.
i tend to do research on that kind of stuff. and he may try and harm you.
so if you decide to hang out with him heed my warning and a least visit him with a friend.
2007-02-02 14:58:39 · answer #3 · answered by herbinator 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Believe it or not...good chance he may be after some physical attention...young hot 19 year olds generally draw thatkind of behaviour from college guys.
2007-02-02 14:50:45 · answer #4 · answered by wbyrdie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you think??? You must be very naive. Of couse, he wants more. Just be careful not to lead him on by staying at his room until 2 am...if you are not interested in him. If you are, you are good to go!!!
2007-02-02 14:52:39 · answer #5 · answered by just a girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probablly wants a new 'girl toy' and not much else.
the reason i say that is because, if he wanted to seriously date you he would have asked you out on a date flat out... also, when someone who you casually know gets that close into your 'bubble' he is sending out sexual vibes.
your best bet would be to invite him out to lunch and ask him upfront what he is trying to build with you, let him know how you feel about being friend, friends with benifits or even dating.
it should work out fine.
2007-02-02 14:51:50 · answer #6 · answered by *meh* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he really likes you. He may be a little old for you but if you like him give him a chance and if it doesn't work ou then you should just let him off easily and not unexpectedly.
2007-02-02 14:53:09 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Kayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants the whole enchilada. He was trying to sleep with you the first night you were in his room.
2007-02-02 14:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by John S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you have any contact with him prior to that night? What he did was a bit weird, have you asked him what his intentions are? I'm guessing he wants a booty call.
2007-02-02 14:52:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to get in your pants. He thinks he can manipulate you because of the age difference. Run
2007-02-02 14:50:26 · answer #10 · answered by Caleb F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's too old for either. Please keep your distance. The age difference could be used against you as far as being nieve to the manipulative ways of men who are that much older. Please be careful sweetie.
2007-02-02 15:24:30 · answer #11 · answered by #1 saints fan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋