all the break-ups were because of me and each one took over months
2007-02-02 06:42:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't do it! The truth is, which you are in denial about, is that you are insecure in the world without her and as a result feel that it is EASIER and SAFER to take 2 steps backwards rather than one step forward. You just need to get back in the "saddle" with someone new ... or maybe a few others ... Once this happens, you won't be looking back near as hard as you are right now.
Based upon my experience, 3 times is the charm in the sense that once you break up with them the third time the decision to move on is no longer yours because no matter what you do, she won't take you back. So put your efforts elsewhere.
2007-02-02 06:57:12 · answer #1 · answered by linkus86 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep in mind that after all the stuff you've been through, she might not want you back.
Second, be sure that you yourself really want to be with her and it just won't end up in another break up in a couple of months.
I would say talk to her about it. Be open and honest. I think that after all the breaking up that she might need to hear some things from you that will prove she won't end up with a broken heart again. If my ex wanted to get back with me, he'd have to do a little bit of convincing to prove we aren't going down the same road like before.
2007-02-02 06:59:19 · answer #2 · answered by Tiffany 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you n ur girl were inseparable and one fine night she goes out vth her mate and cheats on u ... sometimes you need to give some needed space in ur relationship... it sounds good that "me and my girl are inseparable" but may b she wants to meet other ppl too afterall u have been together for 2 years now... not that she does not love u n stuff.. if u think u love her enuf to be able to forgive her ... do so... coz she has made a mistake and she is sorry... give her another chance... see if u can deal with that... just because of what happened one night ... u shud not let go a chance of seeing what could be in between you...
2016-05-24 05:45:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go For It!! Don't let her go, you never know what what you have till its gone, so evidently you realize what you had. Just tell her that you were wrong. Just Remember that girls don't put up with guys **** for that long, so basically if you ask her out again then make sure you don't mess it up by breaking up with her for a retarded reason...
GOOD LUCK
2007-02-02 06:59:51 · answer #4 · answered by ~Angel Face~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey jason... look i think that u should know the reasons of those break-ups between u guyz, then try to make it up for her.
tell her that u've changed and try to talk to her and take her to a romantic dinner, look all i'm saying that u are a nice guy and i think that u can do it :)
2007-02-02 07:02:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope that you find someone else. I think that you`ve put this poor girl through hell .... 3 times. You don`t deserve her back.
what are you going to do ??? get her back and find out that you`ve made another mistake .............
But then maybe she`s daft enough to take you back.
2007-02-02 07:33:36 · answer #6 · answered by Tatty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys are still friends, keep talking to her. ask her out [like on a date] & flirt w/ her. hopefully she will flirt back. then do everything that you did before!
2007-02-02 06:46:52 · answer #7 · answered by Spongebob ") 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋