over the internet would you fly to another state to be with her? What if the only reason she was staying married was for the kids and her and her husband were not intimate anymore? I really want to go and meet this woman.
Please Help.
2007-02-02 06:48:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I guess that would depend on how you feel about this woman and if you truly trust her. You never know what could happen.
2007-02-02 07:03:34 · answer #1 · answered by happyblonde 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My suggestion to you, DON'T DO IT. that will be the dumbest move you could ever make. You only know her by the internet , you don't know for certain that she is telling the entire truth. She is still married, regardless of whether or not they are intimate.
Find another girl. Any person that is married and is messing around with other men or women are not exactly people of good quality and values. Situations like this are often times full of heartbreak and empty promises.
Remember this what goes around comes around
I would drop her like a hot potato and tell her the truth as to why.
Look for someone else. I think that you deserve better.
2007-02-02 06:53:51 · answer #2 · answered by HappyCat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey dude, Your love interest is probably really hot and even better she is forbidden fruit.This makes your relationship to her even more exiting. However this relationship (if you did get together) could get really UGLY. Especially if he were a very jealous man who might drink and does any substances. Doesn't matter if the spark is gone, jealousy takes over even that. Only if he will agree to a divorce should you want a relationship. Otherwise she may be using you because she feels unwanted,and only is in lust. Maybe go see her and see how it goes...this will be hard on the children though Do you really want to be a stepfather? The husband probably already knows anyway. Good luck man, lemme know how it goes:0)
2007-02-02 07:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by Matt M 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you want to meet her that is ok but you need to becareful. I have a feeling that you both like each others attention. Shes not happy in her relationship at home and looking to get it somewhere else. I'm not sure I would cross state lines. But just remember that even though she has been open with her marriage, there is always the chance she will never leave him and then what. I know love does crazy stuff to us but just keep in mind there is another person in the aquasion. You may just fall in to deep and end up getting hurt.
2007-02-02 07:22:41 · answer #4 · answered by beaches 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Bottom line I would not start a relationship with a married woman. There is no relationship at all. You can buy all the I am in it for the kids stuff if you want but it is just crap. Are you sure she wants you to even show up there?
2007-02-02 06:54:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are in dangerous territory there because I WOULD NOT KNOWINGLY start a relationship with a married woman! You better be looking over your shoulder! There are soooooooo many single women - why go for a married one, especially one that is in another state!
2007-02-02 06:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by Hammer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
think of once you married her and he or she is speaking to a diverse guy approximately you! Marriage takes 2 to artwork. If she spends greater time calling and speaking to her husband and do something romantic for her husband, in line with threat he would be excited and do the comparable for her. i won't have the ability to think of how romantic or attentive a husband could be with a grumpy spouse. think of you're her husband! you're able to desire to be observing the incorrect issues whilst she is complaining her hubby! pay attention! do no longer fall for the catch! She is meant to clean up her very own situation, no longer you. For you, you want a real substantial different who cares, love and make like to you. needless to say, you already understand the respond, :)
2016-11-24 19:32:34 · answer #7 · answered by buckingham 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the only reason she was staying married was for the kids, I'd say that was enough of a reason. Her kids didn't ask for a broken home or a cheating mother.
Although... with the internet, you never know if people are who they claim to be. "She" could be a 48 year old gay man playing with your head LOL
2007-02-02 06:56:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would advise against it, but my best friend was in an unhappy marriage and the guy she met online came from across the country to meet her, she got a divorce and they just married in October. She's never been happier. You never know!
2007-02-02 06:53:56 · answer #9 · answered by Xiomy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My father had an affair with a married woman and her husband went looking for him - with a sword. Be careful ... you might bite off more than you can chew.
2007-02-02 06:55:31 · answer #10 · answered by True Blue Brit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really want to go fly to another state to get used for sex? Get a life, and an unmarried girlfriend closer to home.
2007-02-02 06:55:00 · answer #11 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋