Family & Relationships - 2 February 2007

would you tell a guy that is future wife is cheating on him?
this girl that i know from a group of friends starting cheating on him when they first met years ago. then, she stayed clean w/o cheating for the longest time. all of the sudden she started having this fling with this guy and it has gone on now for 8 months. she claims that the ring on her finger means nothing, and she loves the guy she has on the side. would anyone of you tell her future husband that she has... and still is cheating on him? or would you just let things slide and fall where they might? i think he should have a right to know, and i know if i was getting married and b.s. was going on behind my back, id want to know before we got hitched. i have been cheated on before and it feels like someone kicked me in the chest where i couldnt breathe. why get married under a false sense of love and trust. what you do guys think?

2007-02-02 06:40:48 · 17 answers · asked by brianju 2 in Singles & Dating

Before I met the guy that I'm with now "Andy", I was cheating on one of my girl friends with her long-term boyfriend, "Mike". And now that I'm with Andy (who is the best friend of Mike), I still can't stop cheating with Mike! I know it's wrong, but how can I break off my ties with Mike without it being weird? No one knows that we have been hooking up, so if I tell him it's over and he reacts badly, how can my friends not know that something is up? I love Andy and don't want to hurt him, and especially don't want my affair with Mike to be found out by him. Any suggestions?

2007-02-02 06:40:21 · 14 answers · asked by truebrunette 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a mother who is a drug addict, she has never been in my life sometimes she has but my grandmother has raise for 14 years but im 17. My mother doesnt want to get help she only see by leaving and live somewhere else. do you think a mother should get treatment and be part of her kids lives?

2007-02-02 06:39:55 · 22 answers · asked by airplanes 3 in Family

Ok a good friend of mine, who is a really nice guy needs some help. He was helping out this woman who's husband had just left her. He paid her power bills, bought christmas for her kids, pretty much took care of everything she needed. Ok here's the deal they made. He knew she didn't have the money to pay him back, so he suggested that they could have ONE night of sex in exchange of all he had done for her. Which shouldn't have been no problem to her cause she's slept with just about every man in town. She agreed to his terms liked the idea and it was to hapeen in a couple of days ( date set by her) Well it never happened. She gave excuse after excuse, lie after lie. He keep telling her if she wanted to call it off she could. She keep telling him no it's not like that. Then he hears rumours that she was telling everybody he was stalking her and even called the police on him. now he's out $500 and she laughing at him. Any suggestions on revenge he could get on her???

2007-02-02 06:39:34 · 11 answers · asked by us2_4playtime 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is a 21 year old at my church. She is pretty and educated and is really nice. She is kinda like the youth group leader there. Well, theres this guy that goes and hes the preachers son... and I found out that she has been sending naked pictures to him!! and he is 16 and she is 21. I am 100% positive this is true and I asked him about it and he said " yeah it's true, but don't tell anybody." Well you know, I just had to tell my best friend that goes to our church also, so I wrote her a note and I changed pants and threw the pants in the washer and my mom found the note and yeahh lets just say she knows all about it. She says she has to tell. I mean when I think about it, she is 21 and he's 16 and that's illegal and I know that if she were a guy and he were a girl things would be a whole lot worse. but her grandpa and grandma have been going there for like 40 years and her mom and dad do too, and they are really respected there. I don't want to break the church up. what do I do?

2007-02-02 06:39:22 · 1 answers · asked by KATiE 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean when you talk to say your gf...does it bother her if you brag about other chicks to her??

2007-02-02 06:39:14 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 06:38:39 · 9 answers · asked by beeatch984 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok well he likes me "supposedly" a lot .. but unlike other guys he doesnt really wanna have interestin conversations w/me.we only text and its just small talk.. and I feel kinda bad b/c he is always inviting me to do different things.. && i am so busy or things just come up and I cant [at least not too often] hang with him. & one more thing.. lol im not really interested in him. like evryone tells me hes a nice guy. but eh. hes just "alrite" to me... ;/ How should I deal with him? I dont want to blow him off or be mean but i dont relaly think i want to go out with him..

2007-02-02 06:38:38 · 16 answers · asked by Chellebelle 1 in Singles & Dating

Something weird has happened in my relationship...when my b/f and I first got together it was 3 1/2 yrs ago..we were younger then and we always butted heads...we bickered a lot and got in fights a lot...I used to be the clingy one who wanted attention and to spend time together, and he was always the hard a$$ who wanted to spend time w/his friends...All of a sudden he has been really into our relationship...for the past year (I don't know if him moving to Japan to be in the Navy has anything to do with it) but he is really attentive now and almost too clingy himself!! Why did he go from one extreme to the next? He's talking marriage now and how he never wants to be apart from me....
weird huh?

2007-02-02 06:38:36 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

IT WAS AN ACCIDENT

i was at a party and he shoved his hand up my barbie skirt and said wassup doc. i was like omdz this cant be happening.
but he used 2 date me but he cheated on me with my best m8 so i went for it and fort it was sorta revenge.

now im pregnant and i duno what 2 do, im scared cos i no the baby will be ginger...if i have a bath of coke and lemonade will the pregnancy go away??

help needed. thanks.

2007-02-02 06:38:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend can cry anytime he wants to -- at the drop of a hat. The other day I jokinly told him he wasn't a good singer, and a minute our two later he had real tears streaming down his cheeks! We laughed about it at the time, and he promised he would never fake it over something serious.

But, still...

2007-02-02 06:38:31 · 2 answers · asked by mistaken4sane 4 in Singles & Dating

UGLY

2007-02-02 06:38:18 · 11 answers · asked by Daisy 1 in Singles & Dating

My boy and I have been dating for about a year and a half. I live up north while he is (sadly) down south for a few months for training. We promised to save money this year, but I feel that he deserves a small gift for being so great to me. Any suggestions? He loves the outdoors and history..

2007-02-02 06:37:33 · 7 answers · asked by short stuff 1 in Singles & Dating

i never been on a date befor and i'm only seventeen

2007-02-02 06:37:32 · 4 answers · asked by Brittany B 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I get her a V-day gift from Victoria Secret or something more daring from Fredericks of Hollywood? Which would you prefer girls?

2007-02-02 06:37:26 · 14 answers · asked by hottimesforallwomen 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-02 06:36:35 · 15 answers · asked by beeatch984 1 in Singles & Dating

I am taking my girlfriend to vegas in June. We will be going for a week. As i have stated in other questions, she does not want to be married for another 5 -6 years and doesn't want to be engaged for another 4. She has given me no reason behind this thought, just that this is what she wants. I have given her no reason to doubt my love. My eyes stay locked on her and never waiver. I have never cheated and make it known that she is my one and only love. I'm an all right looking dude, so could i cheat, maybe, but no propositions have really come up other like twice in 2 years that i have very easily turned down. Anyway, i want to ask her to marry me against her saying she doesnt want to be engaged for another 4 years. But i know she's the one, she's perfect for me and i want her to be my wife and i want to be her husband. Do i take the chance and ask her to marry me when we go away or should i just let it rest for another 4 years?

2007-02-02 06:36:15 · 17 answers · asked by Drew 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Need advice fast........?
okay so there is this guy in the grocery store he is soooo cute. i go in the store all the time but he works as a cashier and his line is always full. i always go in the express line 15 items or less because i never have more than 15 items to go in his line the non express line. i was thinking about going there today and buying 16 yogurts so i can go in his line instead of the express line. i think about him all the time. what should i do?

2007-02-02 06:36:11 · 9 answers · asked by Missy 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf is so laid back and so chilled out till its making me crazy. We recently purchased a home together and I am doing the lion's share of the work. I have spoiled him rotten.
I think that his parents, who he lived with before buying the house with me also spoiled him rotten.
Now, he's a great guy!!! He does anything in his power to make the best happen for us. But, here's the problem, everything that I want done in the house, I have to ask or suggest first. It's like he doesn't see that the door needs to be fixed or the dogs need to be walked or whatever...He's a great guy, like I said but the only way anything gets done in the house is if I ask or suggest it?
Am I being unfair? I am tiring of asking for the obvious. Help, please.

2007-02-02 06:35:47 · 7 answers · asked by TygerLily 4 in Family

how do girls feel about guys wanting to be more feminine.

2007-02-02 06:35:07 · 12 answers · asked by hello. 1 in Singles & Dating

my husand is weird. when i wasnt working he was never happy. we have lots of money so its not that. but now that i am going to school and working he has more time with out me. now he has been super super happy and bubbily and he has been acting different and looking at me different. in the past he cheated on me. thats why i stopped working. i couldnt trust him. now i am starting to be independent again he is acting weird again. his ego is up the roof. i feel like he is cheating again. he is acting weird and feels really good about himself. he has been taking back to me to and before he never did that. telling me to behave and telling me what to do. he has no reason to tell me to behave.he acting like he could care less about me but then he says he want to stay do you think hes cheating on me again now that i am out of his hair. i told him i wont have a family under these circumstances

2007-02-02 06:34:41 · 12 answers · asked by sophie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

How can I locate someone in the Duluth area with a VERY common last name

2007-02-02 06:34:36 · 2 answers · asked by Steven M 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-02 06:34:34 · 10 answers · asked by sweetlilpea 1 in Singles & Dating

Anyone who has never made a mistake has never tried anything new.

2007-02-02 06:34:08 · 9 answers · asked by G?ld?n ang?l 5 in Singles & Dating

what do u think about kids and there myspace do u think they should have it or get rid of it?

2007-02-02 06:33:37 · 13 answers · asked by airplanes 3 in Family

I am white but I just think half white half black girls combine the best of both races.

Plus the skin tone is perfect - Not too dark and not too light. Don't accuse me of anything because we all know that many people in the world have a fetish for a particular race. I'm not the only one. Besides, it's no crime to have a fetish for a race or a mixed race. Different races have different physical characteristics so it's not wrong to prefer one races characteristics over another races characteristics. Afterall beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

I'm just wondering if anyone else has a fetish for half white half black girls.

2007-02-02 06:33:35 · 3 answers · asked by Whatever 1 in Singles & Dating

Being as I am in the older catagory of 35 I was brought up to be asked out, and have doors opened and stuff, deep down even though there is equality now I still prefer a gentlman to ask me out, open doors etc etc, as it makes a woman feel so nice, do you agree or disagree, be interesting to know your ages too, and whether it relates to your opinions...

2007-02-02 06:33:29 · 14 answers · asked by greatdane 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in New Mexico and my husband lives in Oklahoma. Can I file the sepatation papers here and than file the divorce papers in Oklahoma?

2007-02-02 06:32:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so here is my problem. I started dating my recent boyfriend 5 months ago and the first 3 months of the relationship were OUT OF THIS WORLD. Honestly, I had never been happier.

About a year and a half ago I got out of an extremely emotionally abusive relationship and have found out that I still have feelings for my asshole ex. Whenever my ex is around my heart beats a thousand miles a minute only because I think that our entire relationship was infatuation.

Now, I still want to stay with my curreent boyfriend but I feel as though my feelings are stronger for the jerk rather than for my nice boyfriend. I dont know what to do. Once the infatuation wore off on my current relationship I started feeling this way! How do I get over my ex and continue my life with my current boyfriend?

There is no reason why I should be doubting this relationship so much how can I STOP?!?!?!

2007-02-02 06:32:06 · 1 answers · asked by dawson190154 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is a 21 year old at my church. She is pretty and educated and is really nice. She is kinda like the youth group leader there. Well, theres this guy that goes and hes the preachers son... and I found out that she has been sending naked pictures to him!! and he is 16 and she is 21. I am 100% positive this is true and I asked him about it and he said " yeah it's true, but don't tell anybody." Well you know, I just had to tell my best friend that goes to our church also, so I wrote her a note and I changed pants and threw the pants in the washer and my mom found the note and yeahh lets just say she knows all about it. She says she has to tell. I mean when I think about it, she is 21 and he's 16 and that's illegal and I know that if she were a guy and he were a girl things would be a whole lot worse. but her grandpa and grandma have been going there for like 40 years and her mom and dad do too, and they are really respected there. I don't want to break the church up. what do I do?

2007-02-02 06:31:24 · 1 answers · asked by KATiE 1 in Singles & Dating